Is it wierd that sometimes random ppl and situations push me into little space?

[Guest awkward kitty]

Basically..today i noticed that this particular professor who teaches me online,would always somehow push me into little space..like i dont even realize it and oops i m smoll..

To clarify i dont feel any sexual or non-sexual attraction to the teacher..nor have i met him in real life..only ever attended his lectures online...

It is getting very difficult to concentrate in his class now.lol this has never happened to me before.so idk how to help it.

i wonder if it happens to other littles too sometimes...or m i just wierd?

  

[cloudcat]

hi there, just wanted to let you know that it's not weird and you're definitely not the only one there's lots of different situations and things that might make someone feel little.

 

I'm not quite sure what you could do to avoid or prevent it, aside from just trying to focus on the learning element of it. just reminding yourself to act 'big' and focus on school and responsibilities first before letting yourself act too little maybe. It really depends on how little you end up feeling during these lectures, and what might work best for you. sorry, I'm not especially good at giving advice!

 

One of my college classes this term has pre-recorded lecture videos as well, and the professor definitely has the sort of friendly and energetic personality that would make me feel little too.. he also goes on lots of tangents, tells a lot of stories and makes silly jokes   which appeals to my very silly and excitable little side sometimes, but I think it's relatively harmless. it's just watching videos online in my room, but in an actual classroom setting though it would be important to regulate it and not let myself feel/act too openly little in front of other people.

 

I don't know, hope some of this was of some help? I dont really know very much, so i don't offer much advice or anything on here usually. But there's nothing wrong with certain situations making you feel little, it only becomes a problem if you can't control it at all, and it begins interfering with daily life and responsibilities.

[Guest awkward kitty]

hi there, just wanted to let you know that it's not weird and you're definitely not the only one there's lots of different situations and things that might make someone feel little.

 

I'm not quite sure what you could do to avoid or prevent it, aside from just trying to focus on the learning element of it. just reminding yourself to act 'big' and focus on school and responsibilities first before letting yourself act too little maybe. It really depends on how little you end up feeling during these lectures, and what might work best for you. sorry, I'm not especially good at giving advice!

 

One of my college classes this term has pre-recorded lecture videos as well, and the professor definitely has the sort of friendly and energetic personality that would make me feel little too.. he also goes on lots of tangents, tells a lot of stories and makes silly jokes   which appeals to my very silly and excitable little side sometimes, but I think it's relatively harmless. it's just watching videos online in my room, but in an actual classroom setting though it would be important to regulate it and not let myself feel/act too openly little in front of other people.

 

I don't know, hope some of this was of some help? I dont really know very much, so i don't offer much advice or anything on here usually. But there's nothing wrong with certain situations making you feel little, it only becomes a problem if you can't control it at all, and it begins interfering with daily life and responsibilities.

honestly..it helps a lot knowing i m not the only one..i m myself still exploring the little side of me..and was a bit taken aback when a random person affected me..but what u said makes sense..my prof too has a energetic and sort of a silly personality..maybe that is why i reacted the way i did too.

and yes i m  going to have to be extra careful in his lectures..even thou they are online,lossing my guard down in front of others is never good.i'll try and focus more on the theory part of what is trying to say now...thenks for the comment <3 hope you have a great day ahead

[DaddysMonkey]

... hi ! *waves*

 

As Cloudcat said , you’re not alone at all !

 

For myself , there is four people I can think of immediately that throw me into my space. I feel absolutely no sexual attraction towards them at all. One of them is my best friend / brother , because we just act like big kids around each other. The other three are customers of mine that I’ve known for probably 5-6 years each person. All males , all around the age of 40-60. Like I said , I have no sexual attraction to these men at all. Their demeanor, and how they speak to me and how they address me is what does it. All of the customers mentioned , call me Kid , Kiddo , Sport , or some other variation of cute tomboy names. One of them specifically pats my head every time since I shaved my head. The other always brings in his dogs for me to pet and play with while he buys his items. The three of them have very dense energy , sometimes you can just tell someone is used to being in charge when they walk into a room. All three of these old grumps are military too , which feels like the structure I enjoy.

 

I don’t think there’s anything weird or wrong about it , as long as you aren’t putting them on the spot or trying to flirt with them (which if you’re not attracted wouldn’t happen anyway). I always make a point to just make sure I’m not doing anything to make them uncomfortable. Being little is just a state of being for me , so it’s very fluid and most people just think I always act like that so it’s not very different from adult me.

 

I can understand why it can be distracting, especially if you don’t have a partner. You can be attracted to someone mentally and still swoon over them. Just try your best to not let it effect your education , and if you genuinely can’t focus .. you could always ask to switch teachers or classes.

[Guest awkward kitty]

... hi ! *waves*

 

As Cloudcat said , you’re not alone at all !

 

For myself , there is four people I can think of immediately that throw me into my space. I feel absolutely no sexual attraction towards them at all. One of them is my best friend / brother , because we just act like big kids around each other. The other three are customers of mine that I’ve known for probably 5-6 years each person. All males , all around the age of 40-60. Like I said , I have no sexual attraction to these men at all. Their demeanor, and how they speak to me and how they address me is what does it. All of the customers mentioned , call me Kid , Kiddo , Sport , or some other variation of cute tomboy names. One of them specifically pats my head every time since I shaved my head. The other always brings in his dogs for me to pet and play with while he buys his items. The three of them have very dense energy , sometimes you can just tell someone is used to being in charge when they walk into a room. All three of these old grumps are military too , which feels like the structure I enjoy.

 

I don’t think there’s anything weird or wrong about it , as long as you aren’t putting them on the spot or trying to flirt with them (which if you’re not attracted wouldn’t happen anyway). I always make a point to just make sure I’m not doing anything to make them uncomfortable. Being little is just a state of being for me , so it’s very fluid and most people just think I always act like that so it’s not very different from adult me.

 

I can understand why it can be distracting, especially if you don’t have a partner. You can be attracted to someone mentally and still swoon over them. Just try your best to not let it effect your education , and if you genuinely can’t focus .. you could always ask to switch teachers or classes.

thou i would never flirt with a teacher..my little space makes me sometimes loose my control over  my excited hands.lol  .fortunately.since this is more of a online setting..i ask for a bathroom break and try and calm down away from the camera.he is honestly a great teacher..and knows what he is talking about,so i really dont wanna change him .i m so glad reading that its kinda common.since i m still new to my little space..sometimes my own behaviour suprises me,and makes me doubt myself.thenks a lot for sharing ur experince with me.it honestly helps a lot

[RainDoeSprinkles]

Aaaaah! This happens to me too! I was in a Zoom meeting with colleagues and someone commented playfully about whether I was being mischievous. That did it! I actually giggled! Oh dear...

[Guest awkward kitty]

Aaaaah! This happens to me too! I was in a Zoom meeting with colleagues and someone commented playfully about whether I was being mischievous. That did it! I actually giggled! Oh dear...

lol,thats my legit biggest fear...imma be extra careful..also hope it didnt cause any trouble to u (but i bet you looked cute!)<3

[LilDemonBaby]

im going thru the same thing! Im taking this art class except in person. my professor gives me this look like he sees INTO me. very direct. and he seems to see me as delicate, but not on purpose im sure. im aware that i may act Little without noticing,,,,, it doesnt help that i might dress brightly and wear ....youthful outfits?