Posted 04 May 2021 - 08:07 AM
I’m sorry you’re feeling like this. When I was younger I felt like this also.
I would say you’re perfectly alright , and nothing is wrong with you.
This kind of question always hurts my heart , cause whether you’re little or not you’re still just a human. Are you a good human ? Do you pick on others or stand up for them ? Do you try to make people feel better when they are down ? Do you smile at strangers , are you kind ? These are more important questions in my mind , being “soft” isn’t for everyone. I’m FAAAR FAR FAR away from “soft”.
Seeing stuff like this makes my heart hurt as I said , there’s this idea that’s perpetually sent out that to be little means to be soft spoken , angelic , cutesy , girly , baby talk and helpless in a sense.
I’m the opposite of that. I can be rambunctious , love to get dirty , hate baby talk (if people do it that’s fine I don’t care what you do but I prefer to use actual words) , I swear all the fuckin time and and by no means soft. I bark and I bite a hell of a lot worse than my bark.
There’s “types” of littles that people like to categorize themselves in , but as long as you’re happy , kind to others , and feel like you’re a little and love how you’re living... sounds like you’re doing pretty good to me. And sounds like you’re exactly what you are/wanna be. A little. Nobody is the same , especially when it comes to this lifestyle.
Baby talk and diapers make some people wanna gag , for some people it makes them feel so at peace and in tuned with their little self they feel like they’re on a cloud. Don’t let other people or categories define who you are. Be you and you’ll be alright.