Trying to figure things out.....

[MusicNoteGirl]

As I said in my intro, I was scared to join for a few reasons. One being I'm still trying to figure out where I fit in. I'm pretty sure I'm a Middle but can't figure out what age. But I also have Little tendencies when it comes to certain things. Another problem being I have no one really in my personal life to help me find my way through everything so feel lost. Yet I'm scared to even ask anyone in my personal life because the idea makes me feel really tiny.

 

Thanks for reading my rambling. 

[ALittleCurious]

Hi! I'm pretty new here too but I would be happy to talk if you need someone.

[Littlest_Bee]

Hi MusicNoteGirl,

 

first: you don't have to fit into a box somebody else has made. If you don't figure out a specific age that's fine. There are other Middles/Littles who don't identify as fitting into a specific age group when they play or regress.

And even if there weren't, the most important thing is that you figure out what *you're* comfortable with and what not.

 

Take care and take your time.

[MusicNoteGirl]

 

 

first: you don't have to fit into a box somebody else has made. If you don't figure out a specific age that's fine. There are other Middles/Littles who don't identify as fitting into a specific age group when they play or regress.

And even if there weren't, the most important thing is that you figure out what *you're* comfortable with and what not.

Thanks Littlest_Bee

 

I just feel if I could figure out an age it might make things easier for me. Or at least an age-range. But you are totally right about figuring out what I'm comfortable with and not. Thanks for the replying

[Littlest_Bee]

You're very welcome. I do understand that it can be difficult to figure this stuff out - I've been there myself not too long ago.

And I definitely am still finding out more things about myself. It is just really important to keep in mind that everyone has their own way.