My new partner is perfect

[Senneri]

After a break up 4 months ago with my last long term partner and daddy, with whom I had been for about 2 years and a half (in an online relationship), I thought it would be extremely hard, if not impossible, to find someone I could love as much and that would be fine providing to my emotional and little needs, as well as sharing common interests.

 

I was proven completely wrong when about two months ago I met my current partner. I have no words to describe him, and at the same time, I could talk about him for hours without getting tired or running out of things to say.

 

For starters and most important, the communication with him is impeccable, it's amazing. We can talk about everything and anything without feeling ashamed or avoiding topics.

 

He is so passionate about his interests, and I love hearing him talk about them.

He always finds time each day to spend with me (we are also online for now, but much much closer so I'm hoping we will meet soon, hopefully Christmas), we hang out on vc, sometimes to chat and watch stuff together and sometimes to just be there while we do our own thing.

 

He had no previous experience in a ddlg relationship or even knew much about it, but he told me yesterday he started researching about it as soon as I told him I was a little, when we were first talking just as friends. He is absolutely amazing at caring for me, and he says he loves it so much. I just melt all the time, he is the sweetest person in my world.

 

I'm nonbinary, and his care and respect for my pronouns and comfort it's outstanding (but also what should be expected). He goes above and beyond to make me comfortable though.

 

I could go on and on about him, but I guess my point aside from gushing about him is that if you are in a bad moment, if your last relationship ended and you don't think you'll find someone again or if you are looking for your perfect partner, they are out there, and you'll find them when the moment is right.

 

Of course my relationship with him has just begun (we did 1 month about a week ago) but if this first month is any indication of what's to come, I'm never letting go of him if the decision is on me.

[bbubbless]

Hiya, 

 

I just wanted to thank you for sharing your wholesome story here with us. I am so happy to hear that you have found someone whom you love so so much and that is the most precious thing ever! Reading this made my heart so happy       

 

And you are absolutely right, the right person for you is out there somewhere!!! 

 

Thank you for melting my heart today XD 

 

- Bubbles 

[Guest Teasing Tink]

I felt the same way after my last relationship/marriage ended. I'm insanely picky and didn't think I had another soulmate out there waiting for me. I was prepared to just make peace with being single for the rest of my life, cuz I'd rather be alone than settle for anything less than a soulmate connection. I got a bit discouraged along the way, but my ex (we're still friends) encouraged me and helped give me clarity so I stopped throwing a pity party for myself. I may have not responded to the man who became my Daddy and partner if I hadn't just looked at things in a different way like that, and boy, I'm glad I did. I've never been this into someone before and to still be this crazy about each other two years in. It's nice when things just flow and are harmonious like that on all levels.

 

It pays to be patient and to be open to how you will meet someone. Sometimes you don't meet them in the way that you think, so I think it's best not to place limits on how or where it will happen. And yeah, just enjoy the journey of it. I know easier said than done when you're feeling discouraged, but I think that's a sign to take a break so you don't get burnt out, as I've probably said a million times on here before.

 

Anyway, all that to say -- I agree and grats to you.

[Vampiress]

Sounds like a beautiful and very fulfilling relationship. You're both very lucky to have each other! Happy for you that you've found happiness together. Thank you for sharing your story with us!