Ashamed of littlespace? (Possible TW) Have a good day.

[Bunnyyybunbun]

So i have been taking myself off of the opportunity to be little lately, because i have been ashamed of it, i have also been incredibly busy for the last month, As quick as i turned eighteen, i got really busy. Littlespace has always been a way for me to cope, to calm down and be able to release some stress, in a more healthy enviorment, but i have not had the time, and now it has also occured to me that i might just be ashamed of it. Because of the stigma around it, i follow a few littlespace/agregressors on tik tok, and i know they get hate, which always pains me.

I don't know i just- Being an adult is really difficult, especially when you can not allow yourself to be little because of everything you've read.

Does anyone else have this issue?

[Kittykat83]

I sometimes find it tricky to be little and can get lost in the adult world. At times even with daddy I feel embarrassed doing or getting into little and then when I explained. Daddy reminded me he loved that about me and I'm not to be embarrassed. But I've only just started to consciously uncover and explore this part of me so need to remind myself that what I want is OK. It doesn't cause harm to anyone so I just got to remember that.

[MJA78]

My opinion, we live in a society that is trying to take away our individuality, the ability to think for ourselves. That we have to comply to social norms. This world is chaotic and you need to do what you need to do in order to keep your sanity. No reason to be ashamed and you are not hurting anybody, so go for it. Be you.

[SweetLilBumbleBee]

I feel like this is totally normal. The older I get the harder it is to embrace my little space. I get embarrassed of it because I'm struggling to be who society wants me to be, as well as having this feeling of like.. I need to be a strong, confident woman in my day to day and professional life and how can I do that while being a little? Personally for me, I tried to step away from my little side. And I regretted it. I think it's important to find a space to let go and embrace your little side, there's nothing to be ashamed of, you aren't hurting anyone by being little.

[Vampiress]

I understand where you're coming from. At times I deal with shame, embarassment, and questioning myself a LOT. Then I have to reframe my thinking and look at it from varying perspectives.

 

Look at it this way, if we all did what society wanted we'd all be alike and pretty boring. You're not doing anything harmful. It's okay for other people to dislike it, but what isn't okay is when people attack others for being into something they dislike. We're entitled to dislike anything we want to dislike, but it crosses a line when it turns into anger and harassment. Are these really the kind of people you want to please and let them take away something you enjoy because they've decided they hate it so much that they think they're entitled to awful to others about it? I certainly don't. They don't deserve any consideration because they are crossing a line and being horribly rude and discriminating against something they don't have to partake in and doesn't harm anybody at all. Don't enable toxic people by giving them what they want. Be you, do what you love.   

[Bunnyyybunbun]

Yo these responces actually helped me, thank you yall. I really appreciate it, and it feels better to know that it is not just me that struggles with this, i bought cupcake earrings recently, something little for being little, instead of actually covering it completly, but it is still really difficult, although the earrings are really pretty

[Vampiress]

Yo these responces actually helped me, thank you yall. I really appreciate it, and it feels better to know that it is not just me that struggles with this, i bought cupcake earrings recently, something little for being little, instead of actually covering it completly, but it is still really difficult, although the earrings are really pretty

Those sound really cute, and those styles are totally acceptable for adults! When I used to sell designer jewelry at the mall a very popular brand of jewelry was Betsey Johnson that I think is just perfect for littles with all the cute designs! They've used cupcakes quite a bit in the past. I have a lot of Betsey Johnson jewelry myself, and have never gotten weird looks wearing it as an adult. Usually I get compliments about how interesting and fun my earrings are!