Why should I try

[Daddydomlovexx]

So. I met a little and we really really liked each other started talking getting to know each other then I stayed off this site and ddlgfriends I stopped messaging other littles I stopped adding friends I basically stopped using this and all dating apps we got a bit close and we started using pet names and then things didn’t work out all because I was clingy she said I was too clingy and I sent messages for her to wake up too and messaging like goodnight texts and stuff and I’m just hurt because I thought I found someone finally

[Guest Delete please]

Some people love good morning and good night texts. It’s a way to keep the conversation going. Others get overwhelmed because they can’t handle that type of love. It varies person to person. She should have communicated with you what she liked and didn’t like and them found a way to work on the issues you had. But that said the ocean is full of fish.

[(not) Narancia]

Obviously this is very little information to go on, so I'll just say this. Don't make it a chore to talk to you. You don't always have to say good morning and goodnight. You don't have to talk for the sake of talking.

 

It sounds like you wanted too much, too soon. It is not fun to feel like you're being rushed, trust me.

 

It is easy for guys to quickly let go of everything and latch onto one woman and not let go. Next time you find someone, don't be quick to abandon the entire forum or even talking to others. Allow yourself and them to make a connection and build upon it.

 

None of this is an indictment of your character (did I use that right? I feel so fancy) but more a reminder that you should be fun to talk to and to take your time.

 

Chin up, mate.

[mia_doll]

some people love goodmorning texts and told when to get up because they can’t find themself to do it just matters who you talk to and it’s ok if one does work you can always try again when you feel like it so don’t be so down or do what i do find nini donuts and bam your happy

[Guest Account deleted]

(...)  things didn’t work out all because I was clingy she said I was too clingy and I sent messages for her to wake up too and messaging like goodnight texts and stuff and I’m just hurt because I thought I found someone finally

 

Some people love good morning and good night texts. It’s a way to keep the conversation going. Others get overwhelmed because they can’t handle that type of love. It varies person to person. She should have communicated with you what she liked and didn’t like and them found a way to work on the issues you had. (...)

 

Hey.. I'm sorry this happened to you.. It's normal to feel hurt. It happens in any relationship. You tried to do well, and it didn't meet her expectations and instead of talking things out, she blamed you and fled... She got overwhelmed! I agree with AlisonS, communication is always the key and your Little probably wasn't very good at voicing her concerns about the texts.. Maybe she just hasn't learned to do that yet.. Voicing needs and worries is a learning process.   ..Good morning and Good night texts mean the world to me yet I fully understand some other Littles might find that overwhelming.. It is not your fault. You are not a mind reader. Being a Little doesn't exempt her from being open about her feelings. This being said, maybe the question you should ask yourself isn't "Why should I try".. But... "What can I try differently?".. Because being a Daddy doesn't exempt you from trying again if things don't turn out the way you wanted.. Communication goes both ways. If there really is something solid going on between the two of you, I am sure it's not too late to reach out and start discussing these things openly. 

[Akuchiakuba]

I'm so sorry you had to go through this. :c I agree with the others that this was probably due to some short-sightedness when it came to communications, most likely on both sides. There's no guarantee that trying again will work out, either. I've been looking for a caregiver for a very very long time and have never had any luck. That being said though, whenever I feel like giving up, I'm always pushed to keep going and try again. Because no matter how long it takes, that person that'll fit you just right is definitely out there somewhere. As a friend of mine likes to put it, "Only nothing is impossible." I know it's really hard sometimes, but keep going! Maybe we'll both find what we're looking for one day. ^^

[Guest UnicornPuff]

People love in different ways. Love, like anything, is a form of communication. I think it is important to discuss these things. If a partner does or says something the other doesn’t like … they should talk about it. Meaning no disrespect, or hurt feelings, but the way you express your love and affection may not appeal to everyone.

 

Don’t give up. You will find someone who appreciates you.

Edited July 27, 2021 by Jayniepuff