We don't look like your average CGl couple

[peachprince]

Hey everyone! I was musing over my little boy and our relationship a bit. It made me think about the lack of diversity portrayed for a lot of community! Of course, every person and relationship are going to be different. But it n most content and media for CG/l it's portrayed as a physically small girl and a tall, strong man as her Dom. Which is perfect! You know, but it leaves a lot of people feeling that if they don't look and/or act like their role and how it's portrayed they're doing it wrong or not just not ideal for the community.

 

This is completely bogus!!

So! I wanted to make this post for people (myself included) to take pride in our differences and talk about how we vary from the status quo.

 

With my boyfriend, he's over 6 feet tall, thick and buff as all get out! Looking at him you would think he was a super manly man, yet he melts when I call him pet names and wants a pacifier. Me on the other hand- I'm super short at 5ft tall, fat, and pretty femme looking! Hell based on most of my clothes people might assume I was a little. But I'm not! I'm proudly a Daddy Dom and I love my baby boy for everything he is!

 

I hope y'all can find pride in who you are and your representation, and I also hope this can help reassure everyone that it doesn't matter what you look like! You can be anyone and still have a place in this community!!

[Little kaiya]

My Daddy and I certainly don't fit the stereotypes for Cgl and honestly could care less. I'm a genderfluid male, man/woman, 43 and on the slightly more robust side of someone who is 5'8. My Daddy is a trans man, 22 and probably about 5'2.

 

Sure, lots of people make look at us funny but that's their issue and not ours. We've been together almost 4 years (4 this Nov) and I've been his collared little for the past 2 and a half years. All folks and couples should just be themselves and not worry about what others say or think.

[peachprince]

My Daddy and I certainly don't fit the stereotypes for Cgl and honestly could care less. I'm a genderfluid male, man/woman, 43 and on the slightly more robust side of someone who is 5'8. My Daddy is a trans man, 22 and probably about 5'2.

 

Sure, lots of people make look at us funny but that's their issue and not ours. We've been together almost 4 years (4 this Nov) and I've been his collared little for the past 2 and a half years. All folks and couples should just be themselves and not worry about what others say or think.

 

Yes exactly!!! Im so happy for you and your Daddy btw! Happy (almost) 4 years!

[DaddyDomination]

In the end all that matters is you're both happy. Wishing you continued success in your adventure. 

[peachprince]

In the end all that matters is you're both happy. Wishing you continued success in your adventure.

 

Yes exactly!! As long as you're both happy and healthy the rest doesn't matter.

 

Thank you!