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Hello Everyone, I'm very new here and am in need of some feedback. I have more recently discovered I'm a natural sub/little/middle. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 Years and we've talked about it a little bit. He's not a dominant guy but has some softer caregiver qualities. How might I talk with him about my expanding needs without it coming across poorly ? Thank you in advance for any input. He means alot to me and has been overall very loving and supportive bf.
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My advice is always going to be to just be blunt about what you're wanting. Sit down with him and explain what it is that appeals to you about this lifestyle. Let him know how you feel. Ask him how he feels about it and if he'd be willing to give it a try. Just because he isn't dominant doesn't mean he can't possibly enjoy the CG role! Especially if you say he already has those qualities! Open and clear communication is key. If he's been overall very supportive, and you two have a great foundation as it is, having a nice little chat about what you'd like to do shouldn't be too hard to do at all!

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Thank you , I appreciate your response ! It's both thrilling and kinda nerve-racking exploring this new world.
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Hello Bethblue, 

He can certainly be a caregiver it really just depends on the dynamic that he is looking for. If he is naturally loving and caring there is no reason that he cannot also be a CG for you. Be open and honest, he will respect that and I know I would appreciate my partner telling me what she needs and desires in our relationship. 

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Honesty is always the best policy, especially in D/s DDlg. Or any version BDSM dynamics. I tell any woman up front if they're interested in Me, or learning. Lying is a deal breaker with Me in almost all cases. 

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Thanks DaddyDom3238. Very well said. It's good to hear that from a Daddy. I think myself and many others have challenges sharing our desires and wants as many are taught its not okay to.
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