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hi i'm new to this forum but not as new to ddlg :)  i started getting into it about a year or 2 ago but nobody knows and it's really sad since i have nobody to discuss or bond over this topic with :( i wish i could open up to my close friends or family but i'm 100% sure they will either judge, shame, or not understand me. i'm looking for other littles though who'd like to talk or have the same problem as me!! just know you're not alone <3

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It is a scary thing to open up about what you're into to people who are close. You're also right about not being alone, you got this! 

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Oh gosh, you are absolutely not alone! 

 

I keep my little stuff locked away when people are over and my poor stuffies are all put up on a shelf- except George, he stays on my bed regardless. There's one friend I have IRL that I MIGHT be able to share with, and I've been slowly giving hints- like once I mentioned that I had 'little' on my profile when I was venting about being stood up and called high maintenance once... She had no idea what that meant, but it hasn't really been brought up since. Family, on the other hand?

 

I don't really think they need to know. My mom once joked about me getting a daddy... I think they meant sugar daddy, though. It gets very lonely not being able to talk about it, that's part of the reason why I'm here! :)

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It is a scary thing to open up about what you're into to people who are close. You're also right about not being alone, you got this!

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Oh gosh, you are absolutely not alone!

 

I keep my little stuff locked away when people are over and my poor stuffies are all put up on a shelf- except George, he stays on my bed regardless. There's one friend I have IRL that I MIGHT be able to share with, and I've been slowly giving hints- like once I mentioned that I had 'little' on my profile when I was venting about being stood up and called high maintenance once... She had no idea what that meant, but it hasn't really been brought up since. Family, on the other hand?

 

I don't really think they need to know. My mom once joked about me getting a daddy... I think they meant sugar daddy, though. It gets very lonely not being able to talk about it, that's part of the reason why I'm here! :)

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aw i’m sorry you have to hide stuff when others are over :( i honestly do the same but i also have one or a few of my favorite plushies always laying around on my bed hehe. also yeah it doesn’t seem like she knows exactly what you meant by that lol. the joke your mom made.. little does she know haha- i’m glad you’re here too!! <3
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"Little" does she know? Hahaha, Bri!! You're a comedian! But one day maybe with  more exposure, people will understand more about us, and we won't have to hide anymore. That would be so nice! <3 

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"Little" does she know? Hahaha, Bri!! You're a comedian! But one day maybe with more exposure, people will understand more about us, and we won't have to hide anymore. That would be so nice! <3

please i didn’t even know if you’d catch the pun or not haha, i really hope so too!! <33

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I am also new to exploring this whole thing. Up until fairly recently I didn't even know that there were other people who felt the same way as I do. Most of what I have come across has been sexual in nature. Personally that's not why I'm here.
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hi i'm new to this forum but not as new to ddlg :)  i started getting into it about a year or 2 ago but nobody knows and it's really sad since i have nobody to discuss or bond over this topic with :( i wish i could open up to my close friends or family but i'm 100% sure they will either judge, shame, or not understand me. i'm looking for other littles though who'd like to talk or have the same problem as me!! just know you're not alone <3

i'm exactly the same! I'm really scared of telling people as well and i feel like if i do they'll judge me. I have given out some hints to my realllly close girl friends and sometimes i dress up in public. I would be down to talk about things, i also have no one I can talk to and I was I've been into it for a bit

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For me being a little is a part of the bdsm community so that info is not for everyone to enjoy. It is not that it secret, it is that it is none of their business. Yet when it comes to having a partner, then having to be a "secret little" for me was soul killing. I have learned a person should not be with someone they cannot be 100% with. There is something I heard in therapy that I think was a good thing. It is that not everyone deserves your story. Not everyone needs to know all about you. I recently went camping and brought my stuffie with me. If someone had asked me what was up with that, I would have said I like bears, not that I am a little. Really I would have said @i*&h do I know you? LOL. It is great that we have a community to share and bond and grow. I would never expect those things from people in general. How can they bond if it is not their thing? DDLG seems to have a really good community. There is the Tiny Tea Time discord and also this forum is pretty extensive. Everything from non-sexual littles to bdsm Deities lol. I hope you get to really use this forum and bond and grow.

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I’m right there with you! I could never tell my family, it’s a part of myself they will never know about. I don’t even think they know this dynamic exists tbh. Edited by Knickerbockers
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This video shares some fantastic tips about incorporating little stuff into your adult life that you can "get away with"  :lol:  How to be SECRETLY little | age.re little space - YouTube 

 

I call it taking care of or indulging my little child. I suppose I can get away with it because I'm female. I know that males aren't allowed in society to like "cute things" which is sad. We should be able to like what we like especially when it makes us happy and causes no harm to others.

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