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Curiousowl2097
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hello there beautiful doms and littles, whoever happens to read this,

i am back here on this forum and truth be told im not very happy or finding it joyful as i used to to be here. the last time i was here i ended up attatching myself to this monster and in the end he ended up ghosting me, that experience was...destroying because..as a girl who is studying neuroscience and someone who doesn´t take poop from anyone, i showed this man the most vulnerable side of me and it ended so horribly, as a little that was damaging too much. now im here after almost 5 months or so and the moment i open my inbox there are friend requests and messages, from these wonderful people but im way too scared to reply or getting to know them or letting them get to know me. im not someone  who often runs from challenges or fights but rather confronts them head on, but i dont think my little side can handle that sort of an incident again. so what do i do? i believe maybe this is the only site i can be who i am but on the other hand this forum has scared me to death to be vulnarable infront of anyone ever again. so what do i do? being a little is who i am and i do not want to lose who i am but..who i am is also not accepted sometimes, so what does one do then? what do i do now? need some guidance please. 

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Hi, because you are here again, you have decided. It seems to me that you will have to deal with your fear of being hurt again. But what might help you more this time is time. Take your time. Don't let little you rush the more rational and protective big you. Plus going slower let's you smell the flowers along the way, or let's your taste buds linger on delectable flavors. Building a solid, balanced relationship is something that you can always treasure and enjoy, take your time to do it right. I wish you well.
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We all take a chance with online relationships, alot changed by I can say I met my husband on a hook up site. He's the most wonderful man I have ever met in my life. So hang in there.
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Trust me being ghosted is one of the worst things I've ever been through but I forced myself to open up to another person and now we are trying to be in a relationship. So it's ok to move on and move at your pace.
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