Baby Bat Posted July 8, 2022 Report Posted July 8, 2022 I've seen people posting their little age and I'm wondering how everyone figured that out? Like I know I feel more like a middle. And I know they're are quizzes online. Guess I'm just curious about others' experiences. I'd love to hear your stories. 2
LittleSparklyBubbles Posted July 8, 2022 Report Posted July 8, 2022 Hiii, so I say that I’m a little from 0-4. The reason for that being sometimes I regress to a baby, diapers, not much talking, lots of coddling. But then there are days when I’m running around on the playground coloring pictures and doing things most 3-4 year olds do. I’ve felt very much any age from 0-4 at times so that’s why I post my age as that. I hope this helps a little into some insight. 3
DaddyDom3238 Posted July 8, 2022 Report Posted July 8, 2022 Hi, Although I am a Daddy/Dom my experience over the years with previous littles is that they discovered their little age by the things that they enjoy while in little space and how those things correlate to a certain age group. That being said, it was not uncommon for their age to fluctuate over the years and saw it several times in some longer relationships in the dynamic. No matter what just embrace who you are, what you enjoy and find a Daddy/Dom or Mommy/Dom that loves you for who you are and don't feel like you have to define your age:)
Ddandlittle Posted July 8, 2022 Report Posted July 8, 2022 Baby girl is mostly 12 but sometimes acts as young as 7. She's bratty , mopes ,stomps around, plays games ,watches YouTube, window shops online, sleeps with a giant stuffed lion...when she sleeps alone. She's needy sometimes and whiny when she doesn't get her way. Throws tantrums really well. Likes cute outfits, likes makeup, loves pink. I fix all her meals. She likes to be tucked in and she likes it that I make up stories that are about her. She loves her phone. It's just the way she is and the way she's always been...even before we labeled it.
Andriel_Isilien Posted July 8, 2022 Report Posted July 8, 2022 I read somewhere that your little age or mental maturity is the year when trauma happened or right before it 😬 I have been thinking about this a lot with myself. It kinda makes sense? I wonder if this true or maybe I'm overthinking it. 😔 2
WigglyBun Posted July 8, 2022 Report Posted July 8, 2022 5 minutes ago, andrielisilien said: I read somewhere that your little age or mental maturity is the year when trauma happened or right before it 😬 I have been thinking about this a lot with myself. It kinda makes sense? I wonder if this true or maybe I'm overthinking it. 😔 I'm not sure how true this is either, but for me the ages align with trauma so I believe it might be the case for me. Not sure with others. I've heard it's often the last time/age we truly felt comforted or cared for, etc. Hard to say I suppose. Before I started trauma therapy my little age was about the same as it is now, though maybe a year and a bit older with the kind of activities and things I like to do. Colouring, sippy cup and watching tv, snuggling with stuffies, baby talk with my partner, being tucked into bed and being read stories, not into diapers but I do like training pants, etc. 2
AngelwithoutWings Posted July 8, 2022 Report Posted July 8, 2022 6 hours ago, andrielisilien said: I read somewhere that your little age or mental maturity is the year when trauma happened or right before it 😬 I have been thinking about this a lot with myself. It kinda makes sense? I wonder if this true or maybe I'm overthinking it. 😔 This would actually make a lot of sense for me. There were a handful of times in my young life where trauma happened and it was between the ages of 15-19. Thank you for sharing this! 2
Babygirl2019 Posted July 10, 2022 Report Posted July 10, 2022 My first trauma happened when i was 6 months old
Little kaiya Posted July 10, 2022 Report Posted July 10, 2022 (edited) I can't say I really have trauma so it definitely wouldn't apply in my case. There are some things in my life that I'm sure people might classify as traumatic but to me they are just a part of my life. My little age just evolved naturally over time as I discovered things I like and things I don't. Edited July 10, 2022 by Little kaiya 1
Little Becca Posted July 15, 2022 Report Posted July 15, 2022 (edited) I have no REAL trauma. (Like everyone has painful things in their childhood and I do, too, but I have never experienced even a fraction of the sad things I sometimes read here. 😞😞😞😞😞 I will say that puberty was very, very hard for me, though.) It’s just that I never really enjoyed things that were intended for older children/teenagers/adults. I just got confused when my friends started to mature and I didn’t. I didn’t wanna stop the fun things we did together or fun movies we watched together and I did not understand at all why they no longer wanted to do those things. And like, it still makes no sense to me but I have learned that I need to act grown-up sometimes, and that is all there is to it. (But I had a literal existential crisis in my early teenage years and again in my 20’s.) So I just consider my “little age” to be the age with which I identify when I am just being myself. From what I can tell, this tends to be age 0-5, but I don’t really place limitations on myself!!! I just do when I enjoy, when I don’t hafta act like a grownup. And when I do, I still try to enjoy myself. Idk if this was helpful but it’s just my experience!!! I would say don’t worry about your “little age” and just do what it is you enjoy!!!! 😊😊😊😊😊 ETA: I will say, though, that I often enjoy books intended for grown-ups, especially the classics!!!! And also, while I just love my little songs, I also enjoy a WIDE variety of music, too!!! So maybe it’s not so bad being grown up sometimes, lol!!!! (But also I did enjoy these things all those years ago, at calendar age 5, too.) 😊😊😊😊😊 Edited July 15, 2022 by LittleLavenderGirl 1
LittleStarLight Posted July 20, 2022 Report Posted July 20, 2022 (edited) My reason might be the opposite of when I had trauma. I regress between 2 - 12ish. Right before my teen years which were mostly dreadful. My childhood was beautiful, exciting, full of wonder, play time, creativity, and love. So I think that's why I start to crave regressing when adult life gets to be a lot. I was bullied a lot, and terrible things happened to me in my later teens and early adulthood. Once I started feeling like I was in a safe place again (even with life stress going on), I started to feel safe enough to regress, and recreate my childhood. If that makes sense. When I feel 2 - 4ish, I feel less talkative but still silly/playful. Simple things bring me joy here. Snuggling, cartoons like Little Bear, playing with stuffies, laying on a soft blanket and pillow while staring out the window. 5-8 when I feel extra creative and curious about the world. Reading, documentaries, crafting, and lots of imagination play. And 9 -12 when I am feeling more social and bratty. Love stories, teen dramas, drawing, video games, and stories about friendship and coming-of-age are especially appealing to me when in this mindset. I am who I am, so lines are blurred between all ages for me, but this is generally the things I feel at those times. Edited July 20, 2022 by LittleStarLight
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