From master to daddy

[Everyonesdaddy0002]

Hey. I'm new to being a daddy but both me and my little have experience in master/slave.

I actually am just learning about this type of dom/sun today as I pushed my little to hard. We have never been master and slave together we just both have experience with it.

Our relationship involves a lot of sexual aspects as well as severe punishments.

How do other daddy's deal with apologising and making up for mistakes?

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

I presume the just say sorry and make sure they mean it. Why are you trying to change so dramatically? Thats rarely a good idea. My daddy is also my master, but to us its seamless. Its just how our relationship has progressed. But to completely switch from master to daddy? It sounds very unlikely to be successful.

[Clairbear]

I think that yew'll be okay as long as yew apologize and make sure you show her that you are genuinely sorry. When I do something stupid like that I normally end up apologizing even weeks after, just randomly out of the blue. :< That's how you know I'm sorry.

[Princess-P]

Your post confuses me...

 

"I actually am just learning about this type of dom/sun today as I pushed my little to hard. We have never been master and slave together we just both have experience with it."

 

You've never heard about DDlg until today? But you have a little? And you've never been M/s with this girl but your already pushing her too hard? Past her limits?

 

This just doesn't sound right to me. It seems like you need to do some serious reflecting, apologize profusely, and sit down and have a very serious talk with this girl about what you both expect from the rrlationship.

 

DDlg is about waaaayyyyyy nore then sex and punishments. You should read up on the dynamic some more, through this forum and other resources, to see if this is the lifestyle for you.

 

Everyone makes mistakes and Daddy's who may need to make it up to their littles know exactly what to do as they know their littles better then anyone.

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

Yeah it made very little sense to me too. The whole thing confused me.

[Guest Mr TwitchPool]

pushing your sub too hard? I mean the fact you are wanting to know how to apologies suggests she is angry with you.

 

Your post as pointed out doesn't make much sense.

 

In a DDLG relationship should be one of nurturing and care, discipline is part of it yes but master slave to DD/LG requires control, experience, if your sub is in little space and you treat her as a slave could be damaging.

 

My advice is to sit and write out guidelines as to what you want and why didnt she have a safe word?  

 

I am very concerned by your post maybe you could explain more.

 

All relationships are different, everyone enjoys different things but if youre not communicating then nothing will work.  Any sub or little are still people, with feelings, not just for your amusement.