Profile pics

[LoverEcho]

@Ion1234 On this site specifically the profiles without any kind of profile picture are typically male. Also, it’s very much a security issue, you may not care and that’s ok, but some people do. I’m a cybersecurity professional and people are stalked from pictures of way less than their face. I see it all of the time. You are right that people shouldn’t have to hide their lifestyle, but many are forced to for a number of reasons. It’s a personal decision. 

Edited September 17, 2022 by LoverEcho

[DaddysMonkey]

2 hours ago, Ion1234 said:

Some say its because a security thing. I am a guy so I guess I dont understand that. A pic of you doesnt show you and your address or whatever. But as you see guys most of the time do have their pic up. Now if its a privacy thing then really people should like you for you and you shouldnt have to hide your lifestyle.

You don’t have to be a specific gender to be in danger. Just sayin…. Plenty of dudes get stalked by psychotic females. Have you never seen single white female dude ? Lol. Come on. 

[LeftyGuitar]

For privacy reasons is why I don't have a pic of me on here. Also, why I don't have myself or a face pic set to my avatar. I simply found an online image and used that. I think using a cartoon/anime character as your avy from a show that you watched as a kid fits in with the CG/L dynamic.

[blarghblargington]

For me, it's a matter of over all public privacy.  It's not just here but I don't typically post pictures of my self publicly anywhere.  The general public and world doesn't need to see me.  And this kink is somwthing that is heavily judged.  Add to it me being in an open marriage which is judged as well. 

 

That being said, I have absolutely no issues sharing directly.  Also I am an extremely visual person, so looks matter to me quite a lot and I never tire of pictures and videos being shared with me.  I appreciate the artistic beauty of women and when doing something like ddlg, attraction is very important to me.