Little needing advice

[LittleTriskele]

I'm looking for help because I feel like being a little in a bblg relationship is right for me but I've never been in one. I'm a virgin and never really been interested in having sex or being in a relationship before, but this feels right. I was hoping there was someone on here who I could talk to. Just like a guiding hand in starting out or something along that line.

[Princess-P]

Hi there, and welcome to the forum.

 

First off, don't feel like there's pressure to have sex or be in a relationship if you don't want to. This is a great place to just hang out and make friends.

 

Read up in some of the forums... Even if you go waaayyyyy back. There are some really great ways to self nurture.

 

If you feel like this is the lifestyle choice for you, that you just belong here, remember that there's no right or wrong way to do this. Just be you and explore. There's no need to rush into anything.

[Guest Mr TwitchPool]

Hello Triskele,

 

As princess P said, so much advice on the forums which will be useful.  firstly I commend you being 18 and a virgin, this is an awesome achievement in todays world and 2ndly, their are A sexual relationships,  you dont have to have sex. 

 

There is someone for everyone out in this world, discover yourself and what you want and what makes you happy.

 

Welcome and good luck

[Little Miss Ambrosia]

The sexual part of a relationship doesn't always hold a huge importance. I think a lot of people here are open to have a relationship without a sexual aspect, in a way it even helps you get to know the person on a deeper level, as the lack of physical intimacy is compensated for with a stronger emotional bond. 

 

There are more than a few asexual littles here and they're more than capable of finding a loving partner as the main focus in this dynamic is rarely just the sex. It's a lifestyle and there's far more to it. And if you do in fact want to explore that aspect do it at your own pace, no one should pressure you into doing things you're not comfortable with or ready.  That includes you as well, there's no need to put any pressure on yourself to fit into the stereotypical idea of what a relationship should be like. 

 

Other than looking into this forum to understand the general idea and aspects of the dynamic, or other's opinions about it, try to figure out what you want out of this. What type of relationship, ideally what would you like to get from this.

 

The most important thing, in my opinion, is finding good positive people to surround yourself with and to help you along the way of getting to know yourself. When you get into the proper mindset you'd attract likeminded people and be in healthy relationships (all sorts of relationships really, not just romantic ones, the ones with your family, friends, coworkers and so on)