Long Distance Struggles.

[moondust mochi]

i know there's a lot of topics out there about long distance relationships & tips, but many of them are outdated or use websites that are no longer in use. so, it's time for a refresher! 

context: my Daddy & i have been together over a year, and we're long distance. we visit pretty frequently, several times a year for a week or two at a time. He lives alone & i don't, so it's a lot easier to engage in regression activities together when we're in a person. He's an extremely attentive Daddy & we spend most of our time together on calls when we're not in person. we sleep on a call, He'll watch over me while i nap, we watch movies & shows together, lots of virtual intimacy, we do virtual dinner dates, game together, the whole nine yards. however, we're always looking for more ideas on how to bring that feeling of safety & regression back into our virtual dynamic. i live with family & am not comfortable being overtly regressed, which does make things like wearing a onesie or playing with toys difficult. 

if you're in an ldr & live in a place where you can't express your little side, how do you cope? does anyone have tools or tricks of the trade? we're open to apps or even just date night ideas! (we love obedience & paired.) 

thanks in advance, friends!

[Ricky Harleman,]

moondust mochi; Try to set rules even when your not around each other. Also keep a chart, when you do good, you get a mark for that task for the day. and when you meet up, if you complete so many in the time your part or what you guys set, you get something good. If you don't and have too any many bad marks, there some kind of punishment you have to do, and it can't be fun for you or you will not do those task and it not to help you grow. Also found things you both like to do and try to do those. I'm still learning and want to know apps myself for my little as well... Can you tell me anything we can as well, if you got any pointer seen you been doing a LDR longer??

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   She going through things and have to stay with her family right now, is the only reason we not living together. So we have to do a LDR, it hard for sure, but any idea's will help. Also my family really don't fully understand DDLG and her family not fully either, so it hard for her to be a little when she need to be. 
I ramble a lot.... But in the core of it, Would like ideas as well. 

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Picture one is just different kinds of rules and picture 2 is the chart I was talking about but you can change it up with Excel or another program that does the same things seen every little is different with day to day things.

[moondust mochi]

2 hours ago, Daddy Ricky said:

moondust mochi; Try to set rules even when your not around each other. Also keep a chart, when you do good, you get a mark for that task for the day. and when you meet up, if you complete so many in the time your part or what you guys set, you get something good. If you don't and have too any many bad marks, there some kind of punishment you have to do, and it can't be fun for you or you will not do those task and it not to help you grow. Also found things you both like to do and try to do those. I'm still learning and want to know apps myself for my little as well... Can you tell me anything we can as well, if you got any pointer seen you been doing a LDR longer??

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   She going through things and have to stay with her family right now, is the only reason we not living together. So we have to do a LDR, it hard for sure, but any idea's will help. Also my family really don't fully understand DDLG and her family not fully either, so it hard for her to be a little when she need to be. 
I ramble a lot.... But in the core of it, Would like ideas as well. 

 

Hi there! Yeah, we do a lot of virtual dates. Get on a call and make the same meal together. Order each other dinner or breakfast through a DoorDash-like delivery app. Care packages and handwritten letters are also always great. I **highly** recommend the Paired App and the Obedience App.