Starting to feel like I'm doing something wrong .

[Grogugirl16]

Every single time I start talking to someone and things actually going well they block me out of nowhere.  Deep down I know it's a "them problem" but wow..dont sit and talk to be for days and then do that.. I don't trust easily...idk sorry just venting i guess.

[beanbean]

eh depends how look at it if your talking to someone and they leave or block you .  most likely it would not hae worked out anyway and its better in the long run for both of you ,we take people leaving personal its probably not just handled not great ,  

[DaddysMonkey]

I’m sorry you’re hurting that this keeps happening. It’s not fun for anyone to just be left hanging like that. 
 

I do believe it is good to self reflect though. You said every time you start talking to someone they block you after a while , but that’s a little vague right ?

How many times is that ?

Is it enough times to review your behavior ? 
 

Are all of these people blocking you after a specific topic comes up ?

After you send pictures (Sfw or Nsfw) ? 
 

Is the time they block you around the same amount of time for each person ? 

Are they getting overwhelmed by you if you’re clingy ? 

Are they bored ? 

What are the conversations like ?

 

I’m empathetic and am very aware that people suck but on the other side of the same token , reflecting on why this keeps happening is never a bad thing. 
 

In my humble opinion if ghosting happens to someone more than three times in a row or more , it’s time to self reflect. Like I said , people do suck and it does happen that people just dip out of nowhere for no good reason. Over and over again though ? Maybe there’s something you could try doing different. 
 

If you have answers to any of those questions or more information that’s less vague I would have more advice to give. I hope you have better luck on your search. 
 

And please remember your worth even tho it sucks that this is happening to you. 💪🏻

[Grogugirl16]

Oh I absolutely agree on self reflection.  I don't send any NSFW stuff. In fact I don't ever like to do that for this reason. It's happened  maybe 3 or 4 times but not in a row.  I notice it usually happens after they tend to say they have been feeling depressed or I notice it happens when I say I have to go do something and will be away for a bit.

[Grogugirl16]

I'm far from perfect I'm aware of that...and always want to work to better myself. 

[Boomer]

Yeah, it sucks.  Their loss.  And your gain because you don't need to be talking to weak asshole ghosters.  I have a playlist with songs by strong female artists like Good as Hello, I Will Survive,  and It's Raining Men for these occasions.

[Skeezix]

That sucks. I've been there and it's not a good feeling. 

As a person who has dealt with depression most of my life, I can understand why someone who was feeling depressed might flake on you and disappear. It can hit you like a brick in the face, and suddenly interacting with the world is more than you can cope with. It's not an excuse for ghosting, but it happens.

I hope that you find someone that you can talk to long term.