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Read carefully because failure to abide by the rules could result in you being permanently banned.

If a rule is broken, the severity of the act will determine the consequences. These consequences include: messages, warnings, moderated content, inability to create content, suspension and banning. Repeat offenses after a member has been told to stop their behavior (or depending on the severity of the behavior) will result in more severe consequences.

Rules are placed in the section that is most relevant, but are not explicitly for that section only.


No photos or media depicting minors in a sexual manner is permitted for any reason. Sharing content of this nature will result in an automatic ban.

No discussion of certain illegal activities--jokes or otherwise. It will not be tolerated and will result in immediate consequences. This includes but is not limited to:

Sexual acts involving actual minors, sexual solicitation, incest, rape, bestiality, murder, etc.

Do not discuss books, TV shows, or movies that contain references to pedophilia, rape, incest, etc., such as listed below. 


The Lover

The Teacher

You must be at least 18 years of age to participate in this community. Users found to be below 18 will be removed from the site and banned for life.

Stating that you are interested in minors, on or off site, will result in an immediate ban.

Replying to a personal in which the age clearly states they are below the age of 18 will result in an immediate ban.

Knowing a person is under the age of 18 and on this site and not reporting them will cause you to be banned also.




  • No harassment or trolling.
  • Treat Others The Way You Would Want To Be Treated- Think before you speak, if you wouldn't like someone saying to you what you're about to say, don't say it.
  • Do not gossip or talk about other members (past or present) in chat or publicly.
  • Hate speech is not tolerated. This includes but is not limited to religion, race, sexual orientation, sex, and gender.
  • Solicitation of any form, including but not limited to selling pictures or videos is strictly prohibited
  • Do not use pet names or nicknames with people without their consent. This includes but is not limited to nicknames such as “babygirl”, “princess”, “sir”, “daddy”, “sweetheart”, or “honey”. Refer to members by their Username if you don’t know them.
  • Do not post contact details or social media details of other people on the site.
  • Be mindful of other users and put a trigger warning ahead of any potentially triggering comments. Discussions about triggering subjects will be reviewed by the staff on a case by case basis. Jokes about suicide, assault, and self-harm will be removed and the member will be issued a warning point.
  • No multiple accounts. If you want to make a new account, delete the current one. If you forget your password for an old account, please contact us at staff@ddlgforum.com
  • Promotion or interest shown in minors (persons younger than 18) joining or being part of the DDLG lifestyle will result in harsh punishment that will be determined by staff on a case by case basis. This includes discussion of minors being allowed in the lifestyle, accepting or sending friend requests to members that state they are minors, replying to a personal ad in which the member states they are a minor, or stating that you are interested in minors on or off site, etc. This also includes stating you were involved in the lifestyle before the age of 18.
  • Self promotion of your creative side and posting of your art is encouraged; however, public promotion of external sites whereby you personally gain profit is not allowed. This includes threads asking for ideas for a business in which you stand to gain monetarily.
  • We do not allow the posting of any sites, links or otherwise that could allow for monetary gain. This includes but is not limited to, YouTube, Airbnb, craigslist, Facebook marketplace, onlyfans etc. (Monetary gains includes currency including crypto, goods for trade including pictures or videos or anything else one might acquire for services rendered or goods transferred between parties)

Health issues

We encourage body positivity in our community. That said we do not allow body shaming of any kind. We also do not allow discussion of pro-ana, bulimia or any other subjects that cater to rapid weight loss or unhealthy dietary habits. These topics may have an adverse effect on those that have or are currently battling such issues. Please be respectful of them and other people's beauty.


  • You are free to express any opinions so long as they don't go against any other rules.
  • Be considerate towards others.
  • Chat is not a battleground for relationship disagreements or arguments. Do this in private.
  • Try to avoid excessive PDA and role playing, it makes other members uncomfortable and can make it hard for others to join in.
  • Be respectful and civil of all members in chat regardless of your personal feelings towards them.
  • Keep your “hands” to yourself unless you have permission to sit on, hug, poke, or in any way touch another member.
  • Tag links as SFW (Safe For Work) or NSFW (Not Safe For Work). If a staff member asks you to give more detail about the link, please give more detail.
  • NSFW content includes violence, lingerie, sex toys, excessive swearing.
  • No photos or media depicting minors in a sexual manner is permitted for any reason. Sharing content of this nature will result in an automatic ban
  • If a member of the moderation team asks you to stop doing something, please stop. Feel free to message them privately for more information if you are confused.
  • If a mod asks you to stop, but you continue, you will be kicked from the room.
  • If a mod is not there and there is screen shot proof that you continue after members ask you to stop discussion of a topic that is highly offensive or triggering, you may risk receiving a warning point.
  • Chat room kicks are based on behavior. If you are kicked twice within a short period of time, you risk your chat privileges being revoked for a period of suitable time or harsher consequences, depending on the severity of the act.
  • No "mini-modding". This is defined as a normal member acting like a staff member while a staff member is present. Leave warnings and enforcing rules to the forum staff. It’s likely you will just escalate the situation otherwise. It is acceptable to direct new members to forum section or to our rules and guidelines if a staff member is not present.


  • Do not upload photos or videos of anyone under the age of 18. Infractions of this nature will be handled on a case by case basis
  • Do not upload or share pornographic or suggestive content. This includes sexual organs, nude buttocks, or nipples--regardless of sex or gender.


  • Follow the personals format. Failure to do this will result in your personal ad being deleted and you having to start again.
  • The format is provided to you when creating one, and is as follows:

Age (Your Age Required):

Little Age:




Sexual Orientation:

Looking for:

Relationship preference (Polyamory , Monogamous , or other):

Number of partners I have:


  • Personal responses addressed to anyone other than the original poster will be deleted.
  • Multiple personal ads are not allowed; if changes are needed you can edit or bump your original ad.  New ads will be considered duplicates and will be deleted.
  • Personal ads should be in the personals section only. Personal ads are not permitted outside of the personals section for any reason.
  • We do not allow the creation of personal ads for anyone other than yourself.



  • Follow the Friend Zone format. Failure to do this will result in your friend ad being deleted and you having to start again
  • The format is provided to you when creating one, and is as follows:

Age: Required

Little Age:




Looking for:


  • Multiple friend ads are not allowed; if changes are needed you can edit or bump your original ad.  New ads will be considered duplicates and will be deleted.
  • Friend ads should be in the Friend Zone section only. Friend ads are not permitted outside of the Friend Zone section for any reason.
  • We do not allow the creation of friend ads for anyone other than yourself.



  • Groups must be 18+. Posting a group allowing members under 18 will result in a ban.
  • Do not post groups or stores where monetary gain is the goal.  
  • Do not include anything that makes your group sound official. It could be confused for having an affiliation with this site.
  • We do not allow posting an individual's social media that is not your own.
  • Do not link to another forum.
  • Do not post about your group in any section other than the Social Media section, this includes commenting to others about your group.
  • Do no make multiple posts about your group or the same group. Multiple will be seen as spam and will be removed.
  • For your safety we only allow members to post their social media on their profiles, in ads, or in the social media section. These sections are only visible by members. If we see social media contacts in status updates we will remove them. Let's all be safe out there.


Staff reserve the right to:

Terminate a user’s account at their discretion. If you violate a concern not explicitly outlined in the Community Rules & Guidelines, staff may terminate, suspend or post restrict your account provided a majority of the staff agree that action must be taken.

Update and/or modify the rules. We cannot always foresee future problems. If a situation does arise that is not clearly written in the rules, we will alter the rules and act upon the situation.



The staff is here to help. Remember that you can contact us for any of the following reasons: (always screenshot suspicious behavior or rule breaking)

If someone breaks the rules.

If you have a question about a warning or message you’ve received.

If someone shows predatory behavior.

If you have evidence or hints that someone is underage.

If you are not sure where to post something, or if it is allowed at all.

Contact us for other questions you may have.

Report minors found on the site.

If you wish to have a thread or post deleted, contact a member of the Moderating Team.

You are allowed to bump any of your threads once every 24 hours.

No off-topic replies to threads.

Try to put things in the appropriate sections. If you're not sure where to put something, ask forum staff.

You can make as many topics, status updates, comments on others' pages, and threads as you please, as long as you aren’t spamming the forum. Check first to see if the topic has already been discussed (use the search feature).

You can find the mods and admins on this page and contact us here.


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