Easy to walk away from

[Daddy_Bunny]

It seems I’m easy to walk away from and I have no choice in it.  About ready to be done with this. It’s easier not to try. 

[beanbean]

Sometimes it's easier to walk away yes. but will that make you happy. Sometimes it takes a long time for good things to happen. sometimes lots of patience is required 

[Kittyara207]

Unfortunately it happens a lot matter where or who you are.  What's nice though if you get one that actually says sorry not interested or something.  But happiness is never perfect or easy.  Waiting for things to happen or just work out doesn't work for most.  That's why one should never stop trying and that is what makes it so much better and more appreciated when it does happen.

[MissNMTX]

It does seem easier to give up on not try. This is at least my third maybe my fourth time here. But if it's really part of who you are, you'll be back. So, in the long run it's easier to try and just keep going.

We're all been made to feel easy to leave or not enough at some point. Part of it is the nature of the dynamic (desiring something specific) some of it is just people. I've, been ghosted, cheated on, pushed aside, just dropped...all of it.  But my partner is out there somewhere and I want to remain open so that maybe I find him.

[LittleNyx]

I know how you feel...I truly do. Please don't think it's your fault. Sometimes people don't match, other times someone deceives us, sometimes we grow each other out. There are so many factors. It can be hard everywhere, regardless of the nature of the relationship.

I agree with everything the others said before me here. 

[Daddy_Bunny]

Thank you everyone for your kind responses. I’m sorry I’m having a rough night.  

[shadowrider]

Rough nights are allowed, giving up not so much. None of us have come as far as we have just to give up now. Take your time and relax a bit. The only thing rushing will get you is more failed attempts. Finding the perfect person is just like a relationship, it's not a sprint, it's a marathon. I know it sounds easy and it's not. But taking the time to find the right one beats the heck out of wasting that same time with 10 wrong ones. Sleep on it, tomorrow will be brighter.

[AspiringDaddy]

Chin up!

[Cebakes]

So sorry this happened to you, especially since it appears to have happened more than once.   This type of thing has happened to most of us, but you don’t want it to become a common occurrence.

You need to first heal over this, and I would recommend trying to learn from these past experiences.  Do you notice similar patterns of behavior or personality traits in these daddies that you are meeting and attracting? Are you being selective and critical enough in the daddies that you are talking to?

 Do you look for early red flags? Do you overlook things that kind of bother you early in a relationship, because you want things to work out?   Are you comfortable discussing your wants and desires early in a relationship and telling  a daddy if something is off? 

Do you journal?  Have you taken a hard look at yourself to see if there are things that you can do to grow and help have good relationships?  After breakups I’ve looked back to see what I could have done differently as well as seek insight on the internet on relationships.

You can’t give up, you have to have the mindset that you are one day closer to meeting the right person…

[sweetgirl222]

Maybe reevaluate how you’re going about it? I know I’m sensitive about how I’m approached. If I see someone messaging a bunch of people the same way at the same time, I will not be one to respond well. Posting in the personals, finding a person to contact by profile, participating in the boards, those might help you. Many are in the same spot as you. Sometimes it’s totally not who you are it’s how you are being seen.

[DaddyUmbreon]

@Daddy_Bunny I’m sorry you felt like this. It’s important to listen to all the advice on here. I’ll touch on a few and expand more. @Kittyara207is quite right in that this happens in any and all situations. It doesn’t matter the relationship dynamic, the role you are, and even how much you guard yourself. 
@shadowrider is so very true in his words. Be kind to yourself. Take your time. A lot of people are too quick to rush these things. 

@sweetgirl222and @Cebakes bring up good points to use this to expand and learn and reflect. We often hate these situations and turn to blame ourselves. Take time to heal and explore yourself. Whether you are little or Dom, we all have room to grow and learn. Often times we forget about this. Take time to learn to set boundaries, read red flags, be kinder to yourself, and more. There are many good subjects to read on in this forum. People to talk with and share with. These aren’t topics exclusive to DDlg either. Learning better communication skills, coping mechanisms, identifying triggers, warning signs, and even your own interests can go a long way in helping you find a better partner. Find someone who values you, cares for you, and is also taking the time to put the work into the relationship. Don’t let things be one sided.