Finding my way

[mypieceym]

A very close friend of mine told me about ddlg and gave me resources to educate myself. I've only read several hours of information but I have soooo many questions. Can a little have a daddy Dom and a mommy Dom? If yes, who handles the caregiver role, especially if the doms don't live together? I enjoy being dominant and submissive so I'm not sure which category I'm in, if any but can a little also be dominant and submissive? If we age play, is the little always the same age or just at certain times? Always the same age for sexual pleasure? Can I be a dom to a little for only certain aspects of the Little's life or if you commit, it is for all things in the little's life? What if the little or Dom is married? These are my first questions ☺️😁 I'm sure I'll have more.

[mypieceym]

Oh ya. Two more questions. Is it possible to just be a Dom without the daddy piece to a little if her husband already fills that role? Can there be two doms and one little? I'm sorry if any of these questions come across wrong or are offensive in some way, I am admittedly completely new to this and aptly ignorant. I appreciate any help - either from doms or littles!!!! 🙃

[beanbean]

It works different for all of us but yes you can be dominant and little both that's a switch but by all means read the forums and learn what works for them . explore you and see what best fits you

[Vampiress]

On 6/15/2023 at 1:52 AM, mypieceym said:

A very close friend of mine told me about ddlg and gave me resources to educate myself. I've only read several hours of information but I have soooo many questions. Can a little have a daddy Dom and a mommy Dom? If yes, who handles the caregiver role, especially if the doms don't live together? I enjoy being dominant and submissive so I'm not sure which category I'm in, if any but can a little also be dominant and submissive? If we age play, is the little always the same age or just at certain times? Always the same age for sexual pleasure? Can I be a dom to a little for only certain aspects of the Little's life or if you commit, it is for all things in the little's life? What if the little or Dom is married? These are my first questions ☺️😁 I'm sure I'll have more.

 

On 6/15/2023 at 1:53 AM, mypieceym said:

Oh ya. Two more questions. Is it possible to just be a Dom without the daddy piece to a little if her husband already fills that role? Can there be two doms and one little? I'm sorry if any of these questions come across wrong or are offensive in some way, I am admittedly completely new to this and aptly ignorant. I appreciate any help - either from doms or littles!!!! 🙃

• A little can have a Mommy Domme and a Daddy Dom, and can even have more than that I suppose. How those roles are handled depends on the people involved and whatever agreement they come to.
• A little can be Dominant and submissive, or neither! But if they are both, that makes them a switch. A Mommy/Daddy/Caregiver can also be a switch, or even submissive.
• If a little identifies with any age or age range it can fluctuate, or they can take aspects from several ages all at once. There is no right way to do this. And no, if they are a sexual little it doesn't always have to be the same age.
• If you are a Dom to a little you can be a Dom to whatever extent you both agree to, so it can be just for some things or it can be for every thing.
• If the little or Dom is married then you have to sort out how that works. Hopefully it is something their spouse consents to. How you fit into that person's life has to be again be negotiated by the two of you to whatever extent works for both parties.
• You can be a Dom without being a Daddy to a little if they already have a Daddy. If their Daddy consents then maybe you can also be Daddy.
• Yes there can be more than one Dominant or Caregiver, just like there can be more than one little. Consent is important, though. This is best if all parties are in agreement and nothing is kept secret.