Using Diapers

[Peydiddle]

I’m 4 when I’m little and I really want to try diapers but just for peeing nothing else, I feel like I would really really like it but I don’t know how to being it up to my Daddy. We’ve talked about it before but we were talking about how it would be a little strange for me but I really really want to do it! Any tips on talking about it?

[Guest BabyBug]

As someone who occasionally uses diapers in my littlespace, I would first think about what it is your wanting. Are you wanting to wear them just in your space or will it be 24-7? Do you want him to change you and be apart of it or is this just for you? If he doesn't want to change you maybe a compromise can be met, such as you change yourself but the initial diapering of that day maybe he helps to put it on you. Be open to hearing his concerns. Ultimately if he doesn't want to be apart of the diapers you have to respect that decision and be prepared for that. Be honest about why your wanting it and how you're feeling. He may agree to a trial even to test the waters lol.

Keep in mind the downside! While diapers are cute and really help me in my space when I'm feeling more baby, they can often being confusing to your partner. They are expensive and they're not really something you can go cheap on if you're a flooder! Trust me you'll be mopping a mess. And you can actually un-potty train yourself! You may grow so used to wearing one that you wet yourself when your not. And then theirs then smell and hygiene. Staying clean and giving yourself time to air out is important. Their are some cool cotton candy smelling dips that are fun so others don't smell the urine.

Feel free to ask if you have any questions, I have a few resources and even go to brands. I can even answer questions based on my experiences! Good luck!!!

[Peydiddle]

3 hours ago, Babysaurus said:

As someone who occasionally uses diapers in my littlespace, I would first think about what it is your wanting. Are you wanting to wear them just in your space or will it be 24-7? Do you want him to change you and be apart of it or is this just for you? If he doesn't want to change you maybe a compromise can be met, such as you change yourself but the initial diapering of that day maybe he helps to put it on you. Be open to hearing his concerns. Ultimately if he doesn't want to be apart of the diapers you have to respect that decision and be prepared for that. Be honest about why your wanting it and how you're feeling. He may agree to a trial even to test the waters lol.

Keep in mind the downside! While diapers are cute and really help me in my space when I'm feeling more baby, they can often being confusing to your partner. They are expensive and they're not really something you can go cheap on if you're a flooder! Trust me you'll be mopping a mess. And you can actually un-potty train yourself! You may grow so used to wearing one that you wet yourself when your not. And then theirs then smell and hygiene. Staying clean and giving yourself time to air out is important. Their are some cool cotton candy smelling dips that are fun so others don't smell the urine.

Feel free to ask if you have any questions, I have a few resources and even go to brands. I can even answer questions based on my experiences! Good luck!!!

I want to wear them just while I’m little, I have a hard time staying in little space so it wouldn’t be for a super long time, but I definitely want to try them out, not sure id want him to change me, i like the idea of pull ups more but you can never find cute designs so I’d have to stick with regular diapers, I’ve seen some on websites before and I’ve seen some samples, like $10 for two, but I’d definitely appreciate websites!

[Guest BabyBug]

You have even less options for pull ups but if the look is important some sites have landing strip stickers to help coordinate your diapers with a onsie, that could possibly be put on a pull up. There are also diaper mods that would probably work just as well for a pull up. Also consider cloth training pants and diapers, I've seen some really cute covers that may do the trick for you.

[Peydiddle]

29 minutes ago, Babysaurus said:

You have even less options for pull ups but if the look is important some sites have landing strip stickers to help coordinate your diapers with a onsie, that could possibly be put on a pull up. There are also diaper mods that would probably work just as well for a pull up. Also consider cloth training pants and diapers, I've seen some really cute covers that may do the trick for you.

It’s not the most important thing, I just think they might be more comfortable, but regular diapers would also be fine, I’ve looked at a few websites, my favourite design is sold out right now  

[Guest BabyBug]

Yup, that's been a regular thing since covid! I'm not sure I can actually mention brands and sellers on here though. I can DM you what has worked for me if you'd like. There are some really good diaper reviews on YouTube to help you navigate as well! When looking at sizes... measurements should be hip measurements not waist size and always look at capacity!

[Little kaiya]

The biggest recommendation I would offer is making sure you are clear on whether you want acceptance or participation from your partner, as they are two VERY different things. Once you are clear on your motivation sit down as adults and have a conversation with your partner. Be prepared to answer questions openly and honestly.

After that conversation, depending on how it goes, then go looking into brands, etc.

My Daddy has been diapering me for almost 6 years now, He absolutely loves it, and my Wife has been doing so for about 15 years. It only works when there's open, honest, two way communication.

[Peydiddle]

7 hours ago, Babysaurus said:

Yup, that's been a regular thing since covid! I'm not sure I can actually mention brands and sellers on here though. I can DM you what has worked for me if you'd like. There are some really good diaper reviews on YouTube to help you navigate as well! When looking at sizes... measurements should be hip measurements not waist size and always look at capacity!

I would be okay with a dm! 

[Erasmeus71]

I find the diaper issue is different for all. Some it is feel for part of time. Some it is 24 hour time and its not really a kink issue I noticed. Its a medical issue. They have mentioned that. Yes I know they want to be accepted but ABDL is a kink. 

[LeftyGuitar]

For me its more about wearing the diaper. Using them not so much. I will make an exception if a mommy/CG wants me too. Its more about how the diaper feels than using it.

[Guest DaddyDoug]

I use them and enjoy doing so even as a Daddy dom. I also love changing a little wet diaper. I'd recommend bringing it up with Daddy just as a trial thing. Ask him if he is willing g to give it a try and see where it goes from there!