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Just a daddy's observation... (Edited)

 

I think it's natural for littles to regress back to a younger earlier self (even though many of you are still in your teens or just past it recently into the adult world), they are beautiful & natural tendencies.

 

"Daddies are special"; I think we are a special breed by nature, or by experience, to our littles that need us to be for their sake. In general, what makes us special are our patience, our "forever" love, our collective life experiences & our desires 1st & formost be there for our littles' well being, in general, not our own fantasy wants such as "I want this... I want that... in my little..."

 

The "OBSERVATION" is, it seems many presumed daddies come off as just using dd/lg forum or fetlife just to hook up with beautiful & innocent littles, ruining their hopes & expectations of feeling truly loved, cared for & "played" with. Which, if I understand correctly is the consensus of this forum.

 

Don't get me wrong (& guess what...?), anyway, all fetish has that component territory, but as a daddy in dd/lg, you got to know in your heart to 1st love, selflessly, care for your little. That's not to say they are your all, not in the totally infactuted by them way, instead in mature understanding of overall life dynamics, even when playing.

 

I can say, there is nothing as compared to the joy of being a daddy. But those pretending to be daddy to just want to hook up & not wanting the responsibilities of caring for a little, which leaves the newbie trying dd/lg relationship dynamics deeply hurt, & it shows.

 

Again, this is just my observation from a daddy. With that, feel free to ask or comment, for your little's benefit. ;) All the best.

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This post does nothing but provoke people in a very non-constructive way. Nor are you actually trying to get a discussion of some kind started. If all you want to do is share an observation, especially one as condescending as this, then you'd be much better off doing so in a blog post. Thread locked.

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It's probably the presumption that only men with kids can be any good as daddy's. That's just one thing I picked up quickly scanning up. Didn't look further.
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And there are fakes and players of every title,gender or persuasion. You are throwing out quite a lot of stereotypical blanket statements.

Daddies are special,but so are Doms, masters, little girls, sadists, masochists,mummies, subs, sirs, dommes, slaves, brats, possessions and owners.....add to the list into infinity.

Your posts had a few good points, but all in all it was prejudiced, arrogant, judgemental and "one truism" based.

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Fair enough, that's why I included about having been responsible for others...

Just trying to help cut down some unhealthy expectations.

So, how do I delete from the forum section & move it to the arrogant opinions section?

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Appreciate that input.. not my intention to put anyone at odds with who they are, my apologies. As best as I could, I had hoped to reflect the characters from experience, not biological.

As per consensus or protocol.. can this be moved or delete? That is my request.

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