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Being alone for New Years Eve


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Well the holidays are here and I'm finally off work but it will be another year alone spending it . Although i will be busy cooking and preparing stuff for it just to get my mind away from being lonely the feeling of not having someone to share that joy with . I've talked to a few potential Littles but it's either they just don't reply anymore or idk I'm doing something wrong when introducing myself and how I am as a daddy or maybe it's just that I'm better off not looking for a little so by now I really don't know what to do or how to express the frustration . Anyway any advice on what activities do you guys do to get yourself busy or to improve yourselves as a daddy ??

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Oooh I understand how holidays highlight lonely. I was brave and came here to make new friends so I'm glad you are here too. I...can't help on finding but I can tell you what I tell me and most people who are looking... You imagine and work on things that bring joy. The more you show your joy, the more will want to be near it naturally. So show the baking...join the nye chat...I and lots here love friends and and you can practice what I call Good Daddy things. Say good sharing or work to people and they might find something nice to say back. It's Praise and encouragement you want to give and littles/middles will make it so when your special person comes along, you'll be extra ready with a good snack and side of confidence in your little/middle affirmations.  Yes yes I know it's not the shared time or kinky stuff but it helps. Try it! Maybe ask for a mentor Daddy? Maybe collect stickers or ears (yes I'm biased) so you have wowwww factors. My daddy had the best ears and he wiggled them just right. That is a pro and provennnn daddy move. I get lonely too and think most of us in this forum do so keep talking and your friend will find you. I believe it. 

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I worked through New years. Then right before midnight I went to my local bar.    I have some bar friends there.  It was still very lonely.   As far as being a man and a daddy for a lovely girl I recommend the book, "How to be a 3% man" by Corey Wayne.  I'm on my tenth listen and is helps understand ones self as z man and women. 

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