How did u come across this lifestyle?

[Cutelilgirl]

So we all know that India is not very progressive.. i guess only reason people are aware of kinks is fifty shades of grey and i don't think it depicted properly the dynamic of bdsm..not that I m expert of any kind but still

So I came across this lifestyle from reading novels.. took a while to get good kind.. what about u guys..? 

 

[MasterPhotog]

Thank you @Cutelilgirl for posting the very first, but exciting topic in this group. 

To answer your question, here's how I came across with DDlg: 
Since my late teens, I had considered myself as a 'caring Dom', however many years ago when I used to shoot with aspiring models, I heard a few of them thanking me for treating them in a 'father-like' manner.  Transition to DDlg has been an amazing journey; I have not only met most amazing people but have also loved every minute of this  exciting dynamic. 

Thank you again @Cutelilgirl for starting this first and interesting topic, please keep up the good work. 

P.S. On a side note, please let me know your opinion on the icon and banner of our group and changes, if any, do you recommend for coming up Valentine's Day! Thank you. 

Edited February 4, 2024 by MasterPhotog

[Cutelilgirl]

@MasterPhotog thank you for sharing your experience!!! Also, i like the icon and banner..

I don't know if we should do anything special for valentine's day... As @shadowrider mentioned in one of his posts that these groups shouldn't be used for dating purpose but aa a safe space to share the problems we face being part of this lifestyle in our community..

I m. Not sure if other people agree.. 

[MasterPhotog]

Thank you @Cutelilgirl for  liking the  group icon and banner. 
I fully agree about the group not becoming a dating place. However,  I was referring to making the icon and/or banner decorative for Valentine's day and was wondering if you agreed and had any ideas. 

[Cutelilgirl]

I don't have any particular ideas.. 

[SimpleNJguy]

Hello members, 

so my story is bit different, since young age I had that soft dom kind of a nature I enjoyed the feeling I had did not know what it was at that time.  Reading bit helped but not enough book in early 90’s but did loved reading about trantric sex.  Then came the boom of internet and opened the “knowledge ka pitara”.  I read kamasutra and read about trantric sex all over again and felt I am made for this life style and went on this journey.  I am middle age man now 47 and my search continues.

[daddy007]

It all started 10 years ago when i used to read articles.There was an articale about ddlg with picture of cute girl sitting on a giant man(daddy). I  was curious just because of that pic and I started reading  that article.  I strted liking the lifestyle even before finished reading the article. I started experimenting and I am into the lifestyle since then

Edited February 19, 2024 by daddy007

[Little__Rosy]

Well I have loved reading since young, and I stumbled upon a book related to BDSM. And I liked reading it. So I dug deeper. And eventually stumbled upon DDLG. I felt my inner self resonate with the girl in the book, and so I started reading more about the lifestyle. I have known I am little for over 3 years now but seems like forever.

[Cutelilgirl]

@Little__Rosysame pinch!! Our stories match...did you get to experiment..??