Do you and your little sign a contract?

[Mama_Molly]

If you have a LDR with your little, do you both sign a contract? And follow up, soft dommes: how you charge for Mommy/little experiences? Just to clarify, I am not a Mommy to make money! I want an enriching experience with my little. The realities of being a virtual Domme do include paid services though. Any Mommies or Daddies care to weigh in? 🥰

[Littlest]

Interesting. 
I am not a mommy nor daddy but I certainly would not be okay with paying for any such services. I think the dynamic in its purest form is no more once money is exchanged. I do hope some mommies or daddies will chime in with some advice. They might charge you for it though 🤭

[Old_Stinky]

Contract? Signing a actual contract? Realities of being a virtual dom include paid services? I'm curious what you're looking for.

I don't want you to feel attacked. I'm just confused. Really confused. 

Edited February 17, 2024 by Old_Stinky

[shadowrider]

 Never signed a contract, never needed one.  In my experience contracts are more on the BDSM side than DDlg. Sure you could sign a contract if you wanted to. 

As far as paid services you are either thinking of financial domination or a form a pay per experience which is in my eyes a form of solicitation and not allowed here.  

The only way I see there being paid services online would be if one were a cammer, in which case those services or any services where there is a potential for a financial transfer to occur are not allowed to be discussed on the forum.

[SadyDaddy]

I know those contracts from a Master-Slave agreement, but never seen one for a DD/lg. As long as it helps both parties, why not

[Old_Stinky]

15 minutes ago, SadyDaddy said:

I know those contracts from a Master-Slave agreement, but never seen one for a DD/lg. As long as it helps both parties, why not

That's what I was thinking, but the context of it all in this post has me confused.

I'd just like to see more of an explanation really.

[SadyDaddy]

2 minutes ago, Old_Stinky said:

[...] the context of it all [...]

For me it's all kind of a game. DD/lg as well as the whole life. That's how I see it at least. We play the game of life. Sometimes we roll high, sometimes low, but all that matters is that it's fun

But, what I wanted to say: A contract does not fit into a DD/lg relationship as from a contextual or themed point of view. You would never do a contract, with a real 3 year old, would you? I am with @Old_Stinky here: How do you explain to have a contract. In Master/Slave you can explain a contract by "owning" a slave. In Dom/Sub it sets the borders and limits. For DD/lg, I think it is not something you can formalise, in my humble opinion.

However, that said, if it helps both parties - do it. Always do, what fits best for your relationship. Just keep in mind that formulated texts, like contracts decreased the personal site and can limit your flexibility. 

[Dangertoworld]

In a past relationship I have signed a contract, but that was more because she was into a Master/Sub dynamic and overtime it evolved into CG/ and little and the control was agreed to go away.