A little being a mom?

[MotoDaddy]

So, I'm 33 and kids are in the plan. Parents are asking about being grandparents.  But, I feel a Little may be a little less little if parenting is involved. And that worries me.  The ddlg dynamic of a relationship would be important to me. Not saying to have a child with them I wouldn't love them for them and just their little. I just worry after the Littlespace ability with the parenthood aspect.  What do you think? Littles please give me your 100%

[LittleOceans]

Being a parent is work for sure, but my daughter has opened me up and allowed me to be little in public. At the park, I can run around and play with her and not worry about my little side coming out. We can watch Disney on repeat 🤭. She enjoys bath time just as much as I do. Sure, I have to be an adult more often to keep her alive and be firm with her.  That doesn’t take away from my little side, it just makes me stronger. I consider her to be the only thing to bring out the dominant side in me. Usually I’m easy to agree or at least acquiesce, but when it comes to her I'm not submissive. 

I’ve had to learn how to jump out of little mindset quick with a young child. I consider this a useful skill, though. I don’t know how it works in a dynamic, never had the chance to explore and learn parenting with a partner. I fully believe that littles can make great parents! 

[MotoDaddy]

25 minutes ago, LittleOceans said:

Being a parent is work for sure, but my daughter has opened me up and allowed me to be little in public. At the park, I can run around and play with her and not worry about my little side coming out. We can watch Disney on repeat 🤭. She enjoys bath time just as much as I do. Sure, I have to be an adult more often to keep her alive and be firm with her.  That doesn’t take away from my little side, it just makes me stronger. I consider her to be the only thing to bring out the dominant side in me. Usually I’m easy to agree or at least acquiesce, but when it comes to her I'm not submissive. 

I’ve had to learn how to jump out of little mindset quick with a young child. I consider this a useful skill, though. I don’t know how it works in a dynamic, never had the chance to explore and learn parenting with a partner. I fully believe that littles can make great parents! 

This is great. Gives me relief tbh.  I would hate for something to get in between the dynamic and create resentment or of the such

[LittleOceans]

I am glad I could help. I remember when I was fully embracing this part of me: I was scared. I have wanted children from a young age (I was obsessed with baby dolls growing up) and I was scared that having this part of me would hinder that goal. 

I typed children into the search bar here on the forum and found some good threads with stories that have eased this worry. 

[MotoDaddy]

2 minutes ago, LittleOceans said:

I am glad I could help. I remember when I was fully embracing this part of me: I was scared. I have wanted children from a young age (I was obsessed with baby dolls growing up) and I was scared that having this part of me would hinder that goal. 

I typed children into the search bar here on the forum and found some good threads with stories that have eased this worry. 

*types ludicrously in search bar

[Lil Baby Stoner]

My partner and me have two kids and I think being a mom has helped my little side out a lot people don’t question why I have so many stuffies and coloring books and sippy cups my daddy makes sure I get little time in without the kids and have us time rather that involves me being in little space or not it works perfectly for us it actually brought us closer together in my opinion 

[MotoDaddy]

6 minutes ago, Lil Stoner Baby said:

My partner and me have two kids and I think being a mom has helped my little side out a lot people don’t question why I have so many stuffies and coloring books and sippy cups my daddy makes sure I get little time in without the kids and have us time rather that involves me being in little space or not it works perfectly for us it actually brought us closer together in my opinion 

Hmm... this brings me hope that I can find such a dynamic.  Thanks for sharing

[xolilbunnyprincessxo]

Honestly it’s hard for me it changed a lot. But people are all different and will have different experiences. It changed how I interacted with my partner at the time (now my ex) on a daily basis completely, but I had my school age child move in with me so kinda different.