2 Daddies too many?

[blingsing]

I am considering stating another relationship..it would be a ddlg dynamic too. My main relationship is LDR. Although we do have overnights every few weeks. This new one is more local and has another primary relationship.

Has anyone here had 2 Daddies and what issues did it bring?

[jazmynMyddle_]

This has always been something I'd want. I never have thought too much about how it could be like that, where, like you mentioneded; where one of them has their own things going on, or just whatever.  Interesting how there's always different way people do things!

[Little kaiya]

I haven't had two Daddies but my wife and my bf are both my Caregivers. 

Having more than one partner definitely takes adjustments and it won't be for everyone. There are things like what do you do on special days like Christmas or Valentines Day? How do you handle vacations? Is one partner a primary partner? How do you split up travel costs? If one partner us closer than the other how do you handle proximal jealousy if it comes up? Does everyone get an equal vote in relationship rules? What if one caregiver wants another little but the other folks don't agree?

These are just the tip of the iceberg of considerations when it comes to adding another person into any relationship dynamic.

[blingsing]

On 3/16/2024 at 4:37 AM, Little kaiya said:

These are just the tip of the iceberg of considerations when it comes to adding another person into any relationship dynamic.

Thank you @Little kaiya that takes the rose coloured glasses off which is exactly what i needed. 

My thinking was selfish. I think what really focused my thoughts was you asking if one of them wanted another little. No! Mine. So if they can't have more than one. Then neither can I. Jealousy would be a factor for me. I don't mind the 2nd man's primary because she is not little. But if one came along... no. 

Wow, you have really helped. 

That's a road I won't be going down.

 

[polyDdlg]

Hi. I go by Princess on here, and we're a poly couple. I've never had two daddy's before, but I have had little sisters before. I've noticed that when it comes to multiple partners there's a lot of communication that goes into this, and all parties would have to be on the same page. My daddy says communication and clear set boundaries are the biggest things you'll need. Beware of jealousy and make sure your partners know your limitations.