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Hello fellow littles! Lately my daddy has been extremely busy with school and sports, since he's a professional athlete, and I just haven't felt very loved or needed lately. So what do you do when your big Is busy and what do they do, so you don't feel sad and loney?
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I pout :)

 

Usually daddy is only busy when he creating or working on a website (usually for our church) so I try to make sure he has time to do it. Other times (when I know it is not a "right now" thing.) I pout and whine for him to "play wif me!" And he almost always does. Sometimes I gotta be patient though :( If daddy is busy he always promises to play with me later and he does.

 

 

I am sorry your daddy is busy. Maybe he could get you special toys you could play with while he's gone. Like a Hello Kitty color book. That would be fun!! Or maybe he could take you on a special ice cream date!!

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My Daddy is a very busy man, so I'm alone most of the day. Even when he's home, he's doing grown up stuff so I have to try to leave him alone to concentrate. I try to help him in any way I can, while still being little. Being "Daddy's little helper" makes me feel special as well as helps him get what he needs done. (For instance, sometimes I type up some of his work stuff so I'm being a big girl, but I'll do it with my paci in my mouth so I still feel little.) 

 

Over the years, I've learned how to be little on my own without being sad about my Daddy being gone. I just do fun things like color, watch movies, cuddle with my stuffies, etc. I try not to depend on my Daddy for everything, because that's asking a little much from him when he's go other things he needs to focus on. :3

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My daddy works lots and lots. The thing I do to help me pass the time is keeping busy! Before a busy work week, he gives me a list of tasks and assignments to do, and I have to leave reports. Sometimes it's chores like cleaning or working on schoolwork (I'm in college) and stuff like that. Other times it's silly stuff like writing him a story, coloring three pictures or picking out treats that I want (: It helped me feel close to him and sufficiently reined in. Keeping up to daddy's lists gives me a surge of loyalty and feeling close to him. Writing my reports throughout the day makes me feel like we're talking with each other! It really helps a ton. Otherwise I just mope around waiting for his return. 

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My daddy lives in another country and so is several time zones away. And he has school before mine starts and he finishes before me but then is busy with finding work. Long story short, I'm left alone without daddy a lot.

 

The first thing I try is to reach out to my little friends online for a playdate, pretty much like going to sleep at a friends house, or I get a babysitter for myself if I really need someone to cuddle me.

 

when no one is around to chat or play with, I just busy myself until daddy is around, and try not to stare at my messenger until he logs in. I draw, I do my homework, I clean my room, I play my games. anything to keep me from dwelling on it.

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I focus on making things for him or doing things for him like cleaning up around the house a little more or cooking a special dinner. 

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My Daddy is currently taking a class for his job to pass this test and its REALLY important so Daddy dosent get to talk much if any.

I guess I look at it as If we get through this time we will be stronger as a couple.

Its hard cus we just started our relationship and were just going to wait till he was done but we both realized we were already falling into the relationship even when were were just trying to be friends ><. 

It helps that Daddy makes sure to send me at least Two txt a day one to tell me good morning and whats happening and one good night one.

He feels really bad about this so I try to cheer him up and in a way that also helps me. I color him pics before I go to bed, I send him txts through out the day of random things I think he would like to know or i want to tell him, even though I know he want replay most likely though he dose try. 

I also find that hopping online and chatting to friends helps or just watching something that ik makes me happy when im little.

 

 

sorry i think i ended up rambling i should really get some sleep ><

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  • 3 years later...

My daddy got a promotion at work so is busy all the times :( I try not to bother him cuz he be stressed when he comes home too.

I like to find little games that make me happy because those can distract me from the lonely a little more than a movie or show can sometimes.

It helps if I miss him lots I read old texts he sent me and wrote him letters. Also looking at pictures of his cute face.

Also talking to friends helps alots

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