wackadoodle Posted August 21 Report Posted August 21 🌸 ʟᴏᴀᴅɪɴɢ… 🌸✨ ... .......... TW: Attack of the self love affirmations! P.S. Some of the affirmations are specific cos ahem....they were for me T-T ❀Take what you need❀ ︵‿︵‿୨♡୧‿︵‿︵ 🌸 I am safe and protected right now 🌸 ︵‿︵‿୨♡୧‿︵‿︵ 🌸I deserve to feel cozy and calm right now.🌸 🌸I am allowed to ask for help when I need it.🌸 🌸I am precious just the way I am.🌸 🎀🌷 I am lovable when I’m little, and lovable when I’m big 🌷🎀 🎀🌷I am always enough.🌷🎀 🎀🌷It is okay to be me.🌷🎀 🎀🌷I am safe to be whatever I want to be.🌷🎀 🎀🌷I am safe to sound however I want to sound.🌷🎀 🎀🌷I am safe to talk however I want to talk.🌷🎀 🎀🌷It is safe for me to be cute.🌷🎀 It is safe for me to be little. I am loved. It is safe for me to be loved. I feel loved. I love myself. I am easy to love. It is safe for me to ask for things. It is safe for me to ask for help. It is okay for me to need help. 🌟I am loved even when I want things🌟 🌟I am loved even when I ask for things🌟 🌟It is okay for me to be cherished🌟 🌟It is safe for me to be cherished🌟 🌟I believe in myself🌟 🌟I believe I can get everything I want🌟 🌟I believe I can be whatever I want to be🌟 🌟I believe that I am magical🌟 🌟I believe that I am adorable🌟 🌟I believe that I am safe🌟 🌷I believe that I am good🌷 🌷I believe that I am loved🌷 🌷I believe that I am safe now🌷 🌷I am safe now🌷 🌷I am loved now🌷 🌷I believe that I am a good person🌷 🌷I believe that I am a kind person🌷 🌷It is safe for me to be sweet and lovable🌷 🌷It is safe for me to be good🌷 🌷It is safe for me to be silly🌷 🌷It is safe for me to be myself🌷 🌷It is safe for me to make mistakes🌷 I am loved even when I am silly. • I am loved even when I make mistakes. • I am loved because I am me. • I trust and believe in myself. • I love myself even when I am silly. • I love myself even when I make mistakes. • I love drinking water. • I love drinking milk. (unless I am lactose intolerant...) • I love drinking juice. • I love being hydrated. • I love to hydrate my body. • I love being healthy. • It is safe for me to hydrate my body. • It is safe for me to p. • It is safe for me to p a lot. • It is safe for me to take my time. • It is safe for me to be slow. • It is safe for me to be happy. • It is safe for me to relax. • It is safe for me to be energetic. • It is safe for me to be sleepy. ｡･:˚:✧｡ I am precious just the way I am ｡✧:˚:･｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I am thinking so many good thoughts right now! ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I am thinking so many happy thoughts right now! ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I am thinking so many positive thoughts right now! ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I am lovely. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I know I am lovely. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I feel so relaxed and refreshed reading this. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I feel relaxed and refreshed now. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I feel so refreshed now. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I am at peace now. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ My life is so peaceful now. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡✦ It is safe for me to feel comfy and happy.✦｡ ｡✦ I always have good things happen for me, because I am a good person.✦｡ ｡✦ I am a lucky star.✦｡ ｡✦ I love to wish on stars.✦｡ ｡✦ It is safe for me to wish on stars.✦｡ ｡✦ It is safe for me to be a kid. ✦｡ ｡✦ It is safe for me to have hopes and dreams.✦｡ ｡✦ It is safe for me to be positive. ✦｡ ｡✦ I am always grateful. ✦｡ ｡✦ I am super grateful and happy now.✦｡ ｡✦ I am super easy to love.✦｡ ₊˚⊹♡ I always have the best luck. ₊˚⊹♡ I always meet the best people. ₊˚⊹♡ I always bring out the best in others. ₊˚⊹♡ I always use the bathroom when I need to. ₊˚⊹♡ I always remember to use the bathroom when I need to. ₊˚⊹♡ I always have positive thoughts about my appearance. ₊˚⊹♡ I always have positive thoughts about my body. ₊˚⊹♡ I love my body. ₊˚⊹♡ I love my appearance. ₊˚⊹♡ I love how I look in the mirror. ₊˚⊹♡ I love how I look on camera. ₊˚⊹♡ I feel happy every day. ₊˚⊹♡ I feel super happy and calm right now. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ I am a happy marshmallow! ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ I am super smart and intelligent. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ I am super creative. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ It is safe for me to be smart. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ It is safe for me to be curious. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ I am always curious and learning things. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ It is safe for me to watch the kids channels on T.V. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ I love having positive thoughts. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ I love being healthy. ♡⊹˚₊ I feel like I just drank a super strong health potion. ♡⊹˚₊ I feel like I just drank a potent happiness potion. ♡⊹˚₊ I feel super healthy and happy. ♡⊹˚₊ I feel like I took all the best multivitamins in the world. ♡⊹˚₊ I love listening to positive songs. ♡⊹˚₊ I always have new and amazing ideas. ♡⊹˚₊ I have the best handwriting. ♡⊹˚₊ My handwriting is so cute and neat. ♡⊹˚₊ I write cutely even when I am rushing. ♡⊹˚₊ My handwriting is adorable even when I write fast. ♡⊹˚₊ My handwriting is adorable even when I write quickly. ♡⊹˚₊ I am proud of myself now. ♡⊹˚₊ • I always look up to myself. • I always speak highly of myself. • I always talk positively about myself. • I love being kind to myself • I love to trust myself • ᴛʜᴀɴᴋ ʏᴏᴜ ꜰᴏʀ ʀᴇᴀᴅɪɴɢ ᴀʟʟ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴀʏ! ɪ ᴡᴀs ᴡʀɪᴛɪɴɢ sᴏᴍᴇ ᴀꜰꜰɪʀᴍᴀᴛɪᴏɴs ꜰᴏʀ ᴍʏsᴇʟꜰ ᴀɴᴅ ᴅᴇᴄɪᴅᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ sʜᴀʀᴇ ᴛʜᴇᴍ (ᴛʜᴀᴛ’s ᴡʜʏ sᴏᴍᴇ ᴀʀᴇ sᴏ sᴘᴇᴄɪꜰɪᴄ). ɪ ʜᴏᴘᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ʟɪᴋᴇᴅ ᴛʜᴇᴍ! ꜰᴇᴇʟ ꜰʀᴇᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴡʀɪᴛᴇ sᴏᴍᴇ ᴏꜰ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴏᴡɴ ɪɴ ᴛʜᴇ ʀᴇᴘʟɪᴇꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ᴄᴏᴍᴇ ʙᴀᴄᴋ ᴛᴏ ᴛʜɪꜱ ᴘᴏꜱᴛ ᴡʜᴇɴᴇᴠᴇʀ ʏᴏᴜ ɴᴇᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ🌸✨ ꜱᴇɴᴅɪɴɢ ʏᴏᴜ ʟᴏᴀᴅꜱ ᴏꜰ ʟᴏᴠᴇ, ʜᴜɢs ᴀɴᴅ ʟᴀᴅʏʙᴜɢs! 2 4
baby_butterfly Posted August 21 Report Posted August 21 how do you get over fear of feeling selfish for asking for attention when needed? I ask this because I was raised my whole life to feel like i am selfish for wanting love and attention and to always put others first and to never put yourself in a position of giving yourself boundaries and wants 1
MissAnna Posted August 21 Report Posted August 21 1 hour ago, baby_butterfly said: how do you get over fear of feeling selfish for asking for attention when needed? I ask this because I was raised my whole life to feel like i am selfish for wanting love and attention and to always put others first and to never put yourself in a position of giving yourself boundaries and wants Such a good question that so many face today, it comes down to finding someone you want to in your life as a caregiver/mommy/daddy or just friend and be yourself around them. It takes time to unlearn traits that were forced wrongly upon us, and I'm so sorry you had to go through any of that. Asking for attention or if you need help doesn't make you selfish or bad, it just simply shows other you trust them and enjoy their company. 2
MissAnna Posted August 21 Report Posted August 21 4 hours ago, wackadoodle said: 🌸 ʟᴏᴀᴅɪɴɢ… 🌸✨ ... .......... TW: Attack of the self love affirmations! P.S. Some of the affirmations are specific cos ahem....they were for me T-T ❀Take what you need❀ ︵‿︵‿୨♡୧‿︵‿︵ 🌸 I am safe and protected right now 🌸 ︵‿︵‿୨♡୧‿︵‿︵ 🌸I deserve to feel cozy and calm right now.🌸 🌸I am allowed to ask for help when I need it.🌸 🌸I am precious just the way I am.🌸 🎀🌷 I am lovable when I’m little, and lovable when I’m big 🌷🎀 🎀🌷I am always enough.🌷🎀 🎀🌷It is okay to be me.🌷🎀 🎀🌷I am safe to be whatever I want to be.🌷🎀 🎀🌷I am safe to sound however I want to sound.🌷🎀 🎀🌷I am safe to talk however I want to talk.🌷🎀 🎀🌷It is safe for me to be cute.🌷🎀 It is safe for me to be little. I am loved. It is safe for me to be loved. I feel loved. I love myself. I am easy to love. It is safe for me to ask for things. It is safe for me to ask for help. It is okay for me to need help. 🌟I am loved even when I want things🌟 🌟I am loved even when I ask for things🌟 🌟It is okay for me to be cherished🌟 🌟It is safe for me to be cherished🌟 🌟I believe in myself🌟 🌟I believe I can get everything I want🌟 🌟I believe I can be whatever I want to be🌟 🌟I believe that I am magical🌟 🌟I believe that I am adorable🌟 🌟I believe that I am safe🌟 🌷I believe that I am good🌷 🌷I believe that I am loved🌷 🌷I believe that I am safe now🌷 🌷I am safe now🌷 🌷I am loved now🌷 🌷I believe that I am a good person🌷 🌷I believe that I am a kind person🌷 🌷It is safe for me to be sweet and lovable🌷 🌷It is safe for me to be good🌷 🌷It is safe for me to be silly🌷 🌷It is safe for me to be myself🌷 🌷It is safe for me to make mistakes🌷 I am loved even when I am silly. • I am loved even when I make mistakes. • I am loved because I am me. • I trust and believe in myself. • I love myself even when I am silly. • I love myself even when I make mistakes. • I love drinking water. • I love drinking milk. (unless I am lactose intolerant...) • I love drinking juice. • I love being hydrated. • I love to hydrate my body. • I love being healthy. • It is safe for me to hydrate my body. • It is safe for me to p. • It is safe for me to p a lot. • It is safe for me to take my time. • It is safe for me to be slow. • It is safe for me to be happy. • It is safe for me to relax. • It is safe for me to be energetic. • It is safe for me to be sleepy. ｡･:˚:✧｡ I am precious just the way I am ｡✧:˚:･｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I am thinking so many good thoughts right now! ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I am thinking so many happy thoughts right now! ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I am thinking so many positive thoughts right now! ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I am lovely. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I know I am lovely. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I feel so relaxed and refreshed reading this. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I feel relaxed and refreshed now. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I feel so refreshed now. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I am at peace now. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ My life is so peaceful now. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡✦ It is safe for me to feel comfy and happy.✦｡ ｡✦ I always have good things happen for me, because I am a good person.✦｡ ｡✦ I am a lucky star.✦｡ ｡✦ I love to wish on stars.✦｡ ｡✦ It is safe for me to wish on stars.✦｡ ｡✦ It is safe for me to be a kid. ✦｡ ｡✦ It is safe for me to have hopes and dreams.✦｡ ｡✦ It is safe for me to be positive. ✦｡ ｡✦ I am always grateful. ✦｡ ｡✦ I am super grateful and happy now.✦｡ ｡✦ I am super easy to love.✦｡ ₊˚⊹♡ I always have the best luck. ₊˚⊹♡ I always meet the best people. ₊˚⊹♡ I always bring out the best in others. ₊˚⊹♡ I always use the bathroom when I need to. ₊˚⊹♡ I always remember to use the bathroom when I need to. ₊˚⊹♡ I always have positive thoughts about my appearance. ₊˚⊹♡ I always have positive thoughts about my body. ₊˚⊹♡ I love my body. ₊˚⊹♡ I love my appearance. ₊˚⊹♡ I love how I look in the mirror. ₊˚⊹♡ I love how I look on camera. ₊˚⊹♡ I feel happy every day. ₊˚⊹♡ I feel super happy and calm right now. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ I am a happy marshmallow! ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ I am super smart and intelligent. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ I am super creative. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ It is safe for me to be smart. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ It is safe for me to be curious. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ I am always curious and learning things. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ It is safe for me to watch the kids channels on T.V. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ I love having positive thoughts. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ I love being healthy. ♡⊹˚₊ I feel like I just drank a super strong health potion. ♡⊹˚₊ I feel like I just drank a potent happiness potion. ♡⊹˚₊ I feel super healthy and happy. ♡⊹˚₊ I feel like I took all the best multivitamins in the world. ♡⊹˚₊ I love listening to positive songs. ♡⊹˚₊ I always have new and amazing ideas. ♡⊹˚₊ I have the best handwriting. ♡⊹˚₊ My handwriting is so cute and neat. ♡⊹˚₊ I write cutely even when I am rushing. ♡⊹˚₊ My handwriting is adorable even when I write fast. ♡⊹˚₊ My handwriting is adorable even when I write quickly. ♡⊹˚₊ I am proud of myself now. ♡⊹˚₊ • I always look up to myself. • I always speak highly of myself. • I always talk positively about myself. • I love being kind to myself • I love to trust myself • ᴛʜᴀɴᴋ ʏᴏᴜ ꜰᴏʀ ʀᴇᴀᴅɪɴɢ ᴀʟʟ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴀʏ! ɪ ᴡᴀs ᴡʀɪᴛɪɴɢ sᴏᴍᴇ ᴀꜰꜰɪʀᴍᴀᴛɪᴏɴs ꜰᴏʀ ᴍʏsᴇʟꜰ ᴀɴᴅ ᴅᴇᴄɪᴅᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ sʜᴀʀᴇ ᴛʜᴇᴍ (ᴛʜᴀᴛ’s ᴡʜʏ sᴏᴍᴇ ᴀʀᴇ sᴏ sᴘᴇᴄɪꜰɪᴄ). ɪ ʜᴏᴘᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ʟɪᴋᴇᴅ ᴛʜᴇᴍ! ꜰᴇᴇʟ ꜰʀᴇᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴡʀɪᴛᴇ sᴏᴍᴇ ᴏꜰ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴏᴡɴ ɪɴ ᴛʜᴇ ʀᴇᴘʟɪᴇꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ᴄᴏᴍᴇ ʙᴀᴄᴋ ᴛᴏ ᴛʜɪꜱ ᴘᴏꜱᴛ ᴡʜᴇɴᴇᴠᴇʀ ʏᴏᴜ ɴᴇᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ🌸✨ ꜱᴇɴᴅɪɴɢ ʏᴏᴜ ʟᴏᴀᴅꜱ ᴏꜰ ʟᴏᴠᴇ, ʜᴜɢs ᴀɴᴅ ʟᴀᴅʏʙᴜɢs! 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wackadoodle Posted August 21 Author Report Posted August 21 (edited) 5 hours ago, baby_butterfly said: how do you get over fear of feeling selfish for asking for attention when needed? I ask this because I was raised my whole life to feel like i am selfish for wanting love and attention and to always put others first and to never put yourself in a position of giving yourself boundaries and wants The answer differs for everyone, but for me, I still have that fear (old habits die hard😭💔), but I've learned to love myself enough to understand that someone who loves me and WANTS to spend time with me will be okay with me asking for more attention🫡 sometimes they will be busy or they might not be able to and then I will learn to be okay with that and if they really love me/you, they will also try to help you feel better when they can❤️ However, if they're busy TOO much or there's always an excuse to not give you/me the attention you/I need then the relationship won't work out as both sides will probably get hurt so it's best to end that quickly.... So hmmm I guess it's kind of a test of if the dynamic/relationship will work? If they can't-because they don't have your best intentions at heart or simply they're unable to, then that kind of shows that it won't work. 😭I know I get sour if a person starts being inexplicably distant or having a lot of excuses to not give me attention (it's a defense mechanism T-T, I have some trust issues), so to kind of protect them from that side of me I kind of just nip the relationship in the bud before that can happen if I realise they're a really busy person or they're unable to give me the amount of attention I need. 🫡Although that kind of sounds unhealthy, but I swear it works for me, after all if they still try after that then it's worth giving them a shot. So in summary T-T, if I need more attention in a dynamic, I will probably mention it the first 3 times (maybe 4 even), but afterwards if it doesn't really seem like they're making much of an effort to spend more time with me then🫡I pretty moch start withdrawing, because I hate being a nag and I kind of get hurt if they haven't realized I need more attention, because to me that means they weren't listening or it wasn't really that important to them. Plus one of my deepest fears is becoming that stereotypical nagging wife T-T. So anyways I just know that in my heart of hearts, if someone asked me about 3-4 times for something, I PROBABLY would be making a big effort to do it for them and I would be making an EVEN BIGGER effort to do it in a way that they don't feel bad and it's completely on me and because I want to. So if a person who says that they care about me can't even make the small effort for me to see that they're TRYING for me... 🫡Then it's not really a person I want to be with. 😭💔Besides, again, as I said.... I know I get sour and turn into a crazy sassy dragon when I give a person too much of the benefit of doubt and let them disappoint me.... And I don't want to be that dragon🫡even for a person who might be a super bad person! Cos I imagine a bad ex being able to tell a bad story about me and the people pleaser in me who needs the external validation of the public cannauwt let that happen😤 Some sort of useful and practical tips after my amazingly rambly storytelling skills: - Try to think of traits about yourself that are lovable! Even if you worry that other people don't like it, do YOU like it? Then why wouldn't a person want to spend time with a person who does that?! It's so lovable! For example🫡 I know I'm silly and I love silly people so I love it about me. I fear that people won't like me cos I'm silly.... But since I like silly people, I would spend time with myself😤and just knowing that certain things about myself are likable, adleast to myself, make me feel a bit more confident that I AM likable and that I CAN ask for more attention, because.... I'm likable.... So I can get away with it muehehehe😋 - Being scared to ask someone for attention is because you're scared it will cause a negative reaction and that they'll possibly leave... Welllll, would you want to be with someone who only likes you when you're a version of yourself that is sad or scared? No! 😤I definitely would not want you to be with someone like that, so hmmmm try to think of your happiness. That's probably a hard ask if you need advice😔(because you've probably already thought of thatttt), but think how much better of a relationship/dynamic you will be in if the person DOES try. Think of the positive outcomes! If it's a negative outcome then that person probably does not deserve you honey.... -It' s kind of a leap of faith thing. It definitely takes strength too. I know the first times I ask a person for more attention, I'm really scared-sometimes the person can help that immediately and then I feel really relieved and happy and kind of more confident that it's okay if I need to ask them again. If I'm scared that I'm asking too much, I'll probably mention that to them, because communication is key to any healthy dynamic/relationship! And if they can help ease your concerns about asking then they're a good person❤️ if they say some not so smart junk about how asking for attention bothers them.... Run as fast as you can, it's a red flag😭 I try to think of how I would respond in certain situations(not that I'm a narcissist or the greenest of flags) and I can definitely not imagine me telling someone that them ASKING for something bothers me (well I mean....... 🌚there's one or two things that are exceptions to that rule), because you can always say no! I think they teach that in first grade. But yeah, someone merely asking for attention definitely does not seem like something that could bother me🫡 if they demand attention and force me to stop other important things to give them attention then🥲that's dictatorship. So asking is fine😤and talking is always fine! Sometimes peeps won't be able to respond immediately, but that's okay❤️ (this tip is just, try to put yourself in their shoes and think about how YOU would respond) - Healthy relationships are always about compromise! 😤Think, are you the only one compromising? If so, the person can adleast compromise and give you more attention! If not, as your internet advisor, I say they still have to give you more attention😤 attention is probably one of the easiest currencies of love to give! I mean, people scroll their attention away everyday on social media (I know I do😔), so sending a text message or spending a few minutes with a person is probably no big deal. And if it's a person you care about? It's pretty moch a reward, so I make my case.... Attention is the easiest thing a person can give in a relationship/dynamic. (this tip is just me saying.... It's okay, human, you're not asking them for a yacht or a planet named after you (I think this is expensive, but I don't quite remember....), you're asking them to exchange some carbon dioxide for oxygen with the planet whilst talking to you. It's very easy, I'm doing that right now T-T) -one last tip cos the other two were not tips (disclaimer: this also isn't really a tip) is Just Do It! Try it once. As I said, it's a leap of faith thing, but it's also a practice thing. You need to do it over and over, kind of like learning to walk, for the fear to kind of subside. Maybe imagine yourself stomping on the fear before asking them. Say "No!" to that pesky belief/weight/burden your family gave you😤(no hate to them unless they deserve it😔💔) You are not selfish for wanting love❤️ EVERYONE wants love! And you deserve the love you want! 😤 You deserve the love YOU give, because I bet you give super high quality love! I hope you save some high quality love for yourself too, stranger and good luck with your venture! ❤️ P. S. Super sorry if I came on strong in here.... 😭It just upsets me that you feel selfish for wanting love, even though you recognise it as a learned behaviour and something you want to change, I just really hope my words helped you feel a bit more confident that it's not the case! That you're not selfish for it😤 it's completely natural (literally everything on the planet probably wants to be loved. Animals want love and plants grow better when they're spoken to nicely and etc.). Oo ya, and you can try affirming that it's so okay! Whenever you have the bad thought or the fear, challenge it and tell it why it's wrong! You be the good voice in your head😤❤️ Edited August 21 by wackadoodle I love yapping 2
Lil_K47 Posted August 22 Report Posted August 22 Beautiful post!! thank you for sharing all your affirmations! I I'll definitely be using a lot of of these! 🥰 1
tressygirl1119 Posted August 22 Report Posted August 22 omgggg these were amazingggg! i legit teared up reading most of them 😭 i deffffo needed this today, so thank you sooo much for taking the time to not only create them, but post them here for all of us to enjoy. you're the best! 💖 1
NickyMoon Posted August 22 Report Posted August 22 "I am proud of myself now." Thank you for posting so many wonderful affirmations. I definitely needed this one today. I have so much to be proud of myself for right now but I felt myself falling down into that rabbit hole of "you need to do this/that better". Luckily I decided to read through the affirmations you posted and this one stopped me in my tracks. Big hugs to you @wackadoodle 🫂🤗 1
wackadoodle Posted August 22 Author Report Posted August 22 2 hours ago, NickyMoon said: "I am proud of myself now." Thank you for posting so many wonderful affirmations. I definitely needed this one today. I have so much to be proud of myself for right now but I felt myself falling down into that rabbit hole of "you need to do this/that better". Luckily I decided to read through the affirmations you posted and this one stopped me in my tracks. Big hugs to you @wackadoodle 🫂🤗 I'm so happy you found something you needed🫂🤗❤️and thank you for the hugs! I'm proud of you for reading through the affirmations and being able to recognize what felt right for you💕🍪🥳! 1
Cranius Posted August 23 Report Posted August 23 On 8/21/2025 at 9:43 AM, wackadoodle said: 🎀🌷I am safe to sound however I want to sound.🌷🎀 Yes! This! I sometimes wonder if I sound "the right age" or I get wrapped up in the labels. This is so important to remind myself of! 1
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