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I was thinking the other day how much fun a "first" can be. All the feelings that are often associated with something that happens for the first time; being scared, being excited, anticipation, sometimes relief that it's happened, etc. Then I started thinking of my favorite "first" things...and started wondering about others favorite "first" things. So I thought we should share!

 

It can be anything...Your favorite first stuffie, first kiss, the first time you met someone, your first paci, your first concert, the first time your parents let you do something, your first paycheck, your first car, your first apartment or house, your first date with someone special, etc. 

 

My favorite first......Meeting my Daddy for the first time, face to face.

 

It's pretty significant for me and it's my favorite because it was before we even knew this lifestyle existed. We had been friends and then started a relationship with the intention to eventually meet. We had spoken on the phone, traded lots and lots of pictures, and had known each other for years prior.

 

It was quite nerve racking. I was so excited, scared, full of anticipation and adrenaline was crazy. *Don't tell him that!!!!!  ;)* You know how sometimes things are one way when you're not face to face, you build things up, imagine them going one way or see them one way..and sometimes it's just not the same in person? That's what I was scared of, we both were, we talked about it but decided we'd let it ride and see what happened. We planned a day to meet, the location *A zoo!!!*, and picked a time.

 

It's my favorite first because none of it happened! When we met, it was just like we had known each other for years. I couldn't imagine a better first meeting...It was amazing. So much fun, the location was great, the zoo was great, the weather was perfect and everything was just the way it was online but better. 

 

It was a huge relief to me to know that what was online translated into the real world. That it was just as easy, just as much fun, that the feelings, emotions, and thoughts were all real, like really real. 

 

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Meeting my little princess was the most amazing thing I had ever felt. It was truly like meeting an old friend.

 

My favorite first kiss was the one we shared at the end of this date. It was amazingly full of passion, and love and need and want. To that time it was by far the best kiss of my life. I will remember this for the rest of my life.

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So other than being in love for the first (and only) time... yes, much sap, I'll shush about that, I'd have to say one particular exam/competition type thingy I took in my last year of high school. I think it's one of the most memorable things I've ever experienced, the exam itself wasn't that hard, wasn't all that important either, but the thing that to this day makes it special was that I was calm. I didn't stress beforehand, I didn't cry, I didn't have multiple panic attacks, one would say I almost acted normal. Probably one of the biggest fears I have is of disappointing people, of underperforming and just being a let-down in people's eyes, I assume there are plenty of others that share this exact same fear with me. So for me to not stress about it, not have a tantrum, not spend the entire night before crying, was quite an achievement. Not sure if it's my most favourite "first," but it's up there in the list. 

 

Now seeing everyone post about lovey dovey stuff makes my egocentrism shine even more xD

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That's a great favorite first amby!

 

Outside of love stuff...I'd say my favorite first would have been buying my first car.

 

It was huge for me because at the time I was in college, working full time while going to school full time and I did it by myself. Even though the car sucked mostly, it did the job until it crapped out on me.

 

But I was still proud of it.

 

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Guest MyDaddyMyWorld

My first experience of being in a sub/dom ddlg relationship obviously lol. But seriously.

I didn't realise how dead I was in every relationship before he brought me to life.

Seven months in and I'm still on cloud nine. Pretty much everything with him is a first. Genuinely.

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Mister Master told me no to something small and unnecessary that I wanted for the first time the other day. I was so happy he finally told me no that the disappointment from not getting to do what I wanted done didn't even hit me. He was even super sweet and said he was sorry he had to tell me no, he doesn't really like dening me things I want, even really small unnecessary and unimportant.
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I don't know if I'm allowed to say this, but one of the most memorable firsts I have was smoking cannabis for the first time. It wasn't all about the cannabis as such, more so about the location and the people I was with.

It was summer during my GCSE exams and I was with a couple of really awesome people/friends. It was sunny and it was just a great atmosphere. I remember laughing a lot.

 

I can't say it was the first time falling in love/ meeting my SO for the first time, because I've never actually been in a relationship before.

I'm not even friends with any girls... ._.

 

But yeah, I apologise in advance if I'm not allowed to talk about 'drugs'...

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Guest Elencha
I think my favorite first is still my first kiss. Looking back on it from an adult perspective, I find it to be just adorable. I was thirteen, and though we knew each other from school it was our first "date." We went for a walk in a park big enough to be a small forest that had huge hills, some of which were hella steep (I'm terrified of inclines. Shut up.) We'd been talking and walking for hours and were getting nearish to the edge of the park. Except that we were on this horrendous steep incline. He turns to me and says "Kiss me, you fool." Seriously. But of course I ruined it by responding, "Fool? We met in Mentally Gifted class." Yeah, I was that girl. He gave me an exasperated huff and said, "Fine! Kiss me, you smart person." So I did. It was clumsy and awkward cuz I was standing on a freaking incline trying to simultaneously kiss someone nearly a foot taller than I and not tumble to my freaking death. But it was kind of adorable.
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Oh this is hard! I have to say it was mine and Daddy's first dinner together in our apartment when we moved in together. I cooked dinner, bought wine (which turned out to be awful because I don't drink wine I am a beer girl I just thought wine would be fancy and special) and I got a bouquet of flowers to put on our little table. I did it all to surprise Daddy and I will never forget the way he lit up when he came through the door after work and I had dinner waiting on him. We got a good laugh out of the horrid wine I bought, and he almost cried saying he never had anyone do anything this nice for him. We slow danced in the kitchen and just laughed and enjoyed being together.  :wub:

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In terms of not related to lovestuffs first times, I would have to say my favourite first was the first time I sang in front of people. It sounds horribly conceited, but it's not, I promise lol.

 

I associated singing with my father, who I lost when I was 11. He and I would go bombing around in his old truck singing along to old country songs. When he passed away, singing became a big escape for me and a way to feel close to him even though he was gone. It was "our" thing.

 

When I was in the 9th grade, fresh into high school, I decided that I would try out for the school musical (how cliché hahaha). I really love Charlie Brown and the school production was You're a Good Man, Charlie Brown. I gathered up all my guts, which were close to being thrown up out of my face, and I sang Part of Your World from The Little Mermaid.

 

It wasn't the praise that came along afterwards that made me feel so good, it was feeling that this special part of me that I had only ever shared with my father was finally being let loose, along with a whole bunch of sadness that I had bottled up inside. It felt like I took a huge step that day in moving on from losing him and feeling so alone. I played Lucy in the school show, and it was the greatest experience I've had to date with musical theatre. Never will forget it :)

 

Thanks for posting this! I've been really loving reading these <3

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My favorite first is maybe something most people take for granted. It was the first time someone hugged me and i felt safe! The first time i heard the words "I love you" and knew they actually meant it! These were all from my Grandma who came into my life and rescued me. Sometimes, firsts can change your life!

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I have a few mine would be the first time my dad saw me dance. I started when I was five but due to my dad being in the military he didn't get to see me dance till I was 13!

 

My next one was meeting my first penpal we where both so excited and nervous all we could do was hug and say omg!

 

And last my first day of highschool!

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Guest WildBunny

I have a few memorable "firsts".

One that might seem silly to others but was really special to me was the first time I ever got to ride in my Daddy's new jaguar he bought :-) I loved that car and I still do :-)

 

Another first that was special to me was the first time I ever gave my Daddy a present. I had just gone on a trip to the beach and I saw a stuffed rabbit that had a saying on the T-shirt it was wearing that made me think of him. My daddy calls me Bunny so I knew I had to get it for him :-) I remember how he smiled and said how much he liked it. It felt so good to know I did something that he didn't expect and that I was able to make him happy. Daddy makes me happy all the time and I just want to give back to him the joy he gives to me :-)

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