Decision

[Lil Baby Stoner]

Sorry if this all over the place 

So I made the decision to do more intense trauma therapy and start therapy for my miscarriages I’m finally opening about all the abuse I dealt with and some I didn’t realize was abused but with me finally being open about it I realize I needed to change some of the stuff I do it has cause issues with my parents cause I no longer allow my tiny humans to do certain stuff and it gets thrown in my face will we let you do this and I so badly wanna scream back yes they did and I was in situations I had no business being in at a young age I have also realized for my mental sake and my tiny humans I need to limit contact with my parents I’m scared not gonna lie 

[MissAnna]

It's okay to be scared, I can't imagine what you are going through. You aren't alone and we are here for you if you ever need to talk. 

[Daddy Bear 77]

I hated cutting my family out of my life but it was the best thing for me and my kids. You can and should forgive them for yourself but you don't have to let anyone victimize you or trample your boundaries regardless your shared genes or no. 

[sheepie uwu]

I've gone no contact. It's not easy, but I'm much safer without them. 

[RoseyLittle]

You are being so incredibly brave by looking at these questions and making choices for yourself, both for healing work and on potentially limiting contact. Sometimes it can feel very powerful to protect our own tiny humans from stuff we never got the protection from.  
 

I don’t have any contact with my family beyond my siblings and my mother. Everyone else, including my father and aunts/uncles, Opa/Oma, I needed to step away from for safety because they either were my and my siblings abusers or they openly still support them. Most of my 5 siblings did the same. It makes my family very small so I learned to build chosen family along the way. And my Daddy’s family is loving and safe so I feel welcome there. Still, it is never easy making those choices.
 

Just know that you’ve got peeps here to talk anytime you need to during this process. And you are allowed to experiment and change the boundary lines as you go. ♥️