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I found this on Tumblr, I think it's a great list of what daddies aren't supposed to do. No little wants to be taken advantage of, so please respect them and don't do things out of your own personal pleasure. Warning: NSFW words


The post:

"How to Spot a Fake “Daddy”


Unfortunately Tumblr is becoming filled with “Daddies” that don’t deserve to ever be called Daddy by any little, because these guys are just perverts/creeps in disguise. Here’s some ways to spot these “fuckboy fake daddies” as I like to call them, before they hurt you.


1. He asks for nudes and insists you do whatever he says within hours of meeting you.

2. Doesn’t give you structure. Doesn’t act like a Daddy. There are no rules. No bed times. Nothing.

3. His compliments exclusively focus on your appearance, so he says things like “you look great” and “your boobs are amazing”, but you never get a compliment on your personality or character.

4. Is suspiciously quick to punish you. You’re always being told you’ve “been a bad girl”, you always feel like you’re not doing enough to make him happy.

5. He’s only ever really engaged in the convo when he needs something. Other times he’s distant and barely tolerates you. You feel like you’re bugging him.

6. His profile icon is a picture of his dick, or of him shirtless, or something dumb like that.

7. He never really feels like your Daddy, the relationship feels empty and hollow. You still feel alone.

8. Calls you pet names so often that it becomes nauseating. Ends every sentence with “little one” and “princess” and “little girl”; it comes across like he’s trying too hard.

9. He doesn’t seem interested about learning more about DD/lg and BDSM. You won’t find him reblogging long text posts such as this on his blog (instead it’ll be 100% sexual content).

10. Can be very mean and hurtful when he doesn’t get his way. Doesn’t understand how sensitive littles can be and is quick to make harsh personal comments.


Please help spread the word about these people. Reblog this. Like this. Share this with a friend. We need to put a stop to this behaviour NOW."


source: aslut4bbc on Tumblr.

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It's great to know how to spot a fake daddy. I fell for one before, I think all littles should know about this.

Thank god I didn't get attached to him but i could have. It really hurts be careful.

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I still think the best way to not be tricked is to take it slow. I wouldn't consider a DDlg dynamic with someone I was in the dark with about the other half of their life. 95% percent of the people seeking solace, or advice for this rushed into the relationship immediately.
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This list is nice but it seems kind of obvious that most of these would be bad qualities in any relationship. I've never used Tumblr so I don't know what the community is like but from what I hear from most here, it's not a place to find a Daddy. Even though this is not a dating site, I'd be more comfortable using the personals section here, at least it's moderated along with its users.


I also agree wuth slowing down. Yes the want/need for a caregiver is strong, but most posts here asking for help or advice are from people who jumped right in. Good looking out for others though!



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13) Never tries to know you as a person

14) Won't talk to you for days on end and will be mad at you for wanting his attention

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15) caught off - guard by any question revolving around " when did you know you were a daddy " ,

" how did you become a daddy " ...

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