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Feeling too needy...


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Hi everyone!

I've been having this problem for a little while...I feel like I'm a bit too needy when I'm both little and big. I've been called too clingy and needy and annoying before by people I considered important to me, so its always a thought in my head now.

 

I guess I feel like I'm being too needy when I want more attention than Daddy can give me. Like if I get sad while he is at work or baseball practice. Today I wanted him to sit next to me while we were working (me on my coloring, him on his work) and he said he couldn't and then told me to go play... I know Daddy is busy, but still :( he's not mean at all and he usually gives me so so SO much attention and affection but it makes me sad when he can't, cuz I feel like I'm asking for too much cuz he gives me so much already...

 

He's always been the type of Daddy to answer my calls at the second ring, even when he is at work or sleeping (cuz he knows I need him if I call him without asking first). But I feel bad for calling in the first place...

 

So my question is, am I being too needy? Do you ever feel the same way? How to you get over this feeling?

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I struggle with this and always have. I have lost most of my relationships due to my issues with needing attention, and jealousy.

Its much easier in the DD/lg dynamic. Daddy's are much more understanding and good with that.

 

This hits little close to home, but if you feel you're very happy amd your relationship is healthy, I suggest talking to your daddy.

My daddy and I have a very healthy relationship and that's because we talk about things. He's very understanding of my problems and listens to me while I struggle to talk about how to help.

 

COMPRISE is the most important thing. If you talk to him, calmly, thats the best way to come up with a fix

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Need: verb

 
  1. 1.
    require (something) because it is essential or very important.
     
     
    noun
     
    1. 1.
      circumstances in which something is necessary, or that require some course of action; necessity.
       
       
       

if you are needy it is because it is a need, some people just need more attention than others. there is noting wrong with that it is just how it is.

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I understand what you're saying, I get super self conscious when I think about being too clingy and annoying as well, but your daddy should understand and definitely not be bothered by it. It's his job to be there for you, as I'm sure you are for him. People express love differently, and your emotions are always 100% valid. <3

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