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SFW Rules and Punishments in a LDR?


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Hello, everybody! So I've recently gotten into a long distance ddlg relationship and I, personally, am grey-asexual (sometimes sex repulsed/not interested in sexy time things). Sir asked me to find some rules and punishments that wouldn't make me uncomfortable (SFW ones) and I was wondering if I could have your help?  ^_^ thankies!

 

 

~Queenie

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Well with punishment meant to be uncomfortable/teach a lesson what are some things that would work? For you personally?

 

Some ideas could be Written lines, Public apology (kik, skype, email, etc), corner time, some form of isolation/caging, another good one that could be done anywhere is your Sir expressing disappointment, body writing as a reminder (where it's hidden but you'd see/know it was there. Just some ideas. Not knowing your life/schedule I can't give good ideas without more info lol.

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"uncomfortable" meaning sexual rules/punishments which could possibly make me upset :)

I see. Hmm.

 

-Edging and Denial

-Pain & Forced Pleasure combo

-Anal stimulation (plugs and such)

-Nipple/Breast pain/stimulation

-The usual spanking (Find an implement that makes you nervous)

-Body writing

 

Just a small list to help I hope. And of course you can work it to fit your lifestyle directly.

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I can 10000000% help! There are some super duper good resources here on rules already (in the forum index), but I think that your SFW rules are a great idea! (Here's a topic specificially for "Digital Rules" https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/4140-digital-rulesconsequences-public-discipline/ )

Some basic rules that are SFW that I can think of are:

Bedtimes (e.g. you must go to bed at x time)

Taking care of yourself/pets (e.g. you must shower every x days, brush your teeth, brush your hair, feed your pets, etc.)

Call your partner x names

Sleep with x stuffie 

Thanks a bunch diana!

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You can come up with a lot of punishments that are non-sexual! from the top of my head: Extra chores, Writing lines, Extra day to the gym (if you skip one for example), no unhealthy snacks for X amount of time, Earlier bed time for a day ( or more days ).

 

Just a few suggestions :).

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Early bedtime

 

No new treats or stuffies

 

Extra chores

 

Lines

 

Corner time (depending on age)

 

Grounding

 

Inability to use household furniture

 

 

I apologize I misunderstood your past earlier

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