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Kalynstark18

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Yes I'm a big girl, but I still love being a little... But it seems like nobody wants a big little... I want a daddy but I can't find one who wants a fat little...
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Guest Mr TwitchPool

Firstly, Their are full communities of BBW's (Big Beautiful women)  It has nothing to do with size,. 

 

Secondly, Beauty is skin deep, we all get old, get wrinkles, gain weight, lose weight, what doesn't change are the people we are on the inside

 

Thirdly, Just because you "Want" a Daddy doesnt mean you should just have one.

 

Being little is a life style, having a CG of course can add to a relationship but its something that should develop and grow, like any other relationship.

 

If you were vanilla and wanted "a boyfriend", same rules apply, you wouldnt just date someone for having someone and again size and looks come second to that person personality.

 

Yes their are shallow people who go for looks, but everyone has their preferences.  Keep your chin up and enjoy exploring yourself as a little, When you least expect it I am sure someone will come across your path.

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More than half the women I've ever slept with weighed more than me. The question isn't how much you weigh, but how easily can men see what else is attractive about you?

 

In our culture, we're often told to just be ourselves, which I think is the wrong message. Don't just be yourself -- be the best you that you can be. Have you ever wanted to be a painter, or a dancer, or an actress, or a musician? Make it happen! I promise you, there are men who will find a fat musician girl 100 times more attractive than a fat girl. But do it for yourself, not for them. Just know that being attractive is a happy side effect of being the best you that you can be.

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As a fellow plus sized little (I'm a middle but that's beside the point) I understand your frustration. Most of the time it seems that Daddies want slim petite women. Several say so on their Personals. However, we must stay hopeful in trying times. I agree with sushishui, pick up a hobby. A person is a million times more attractive when they are talking about and doing something they love. And while I need to take this advice myself... be confident and own you. Be comfortable in your own skin. Just because you're considered plus sized, queen sized, chubby, or thick doesn't mean that there is no one out there for you. You just haven't found the right person for you yet. And just remember that there is more of you to love and that's okay. If you want to be fit then do it but only do it for yourself. Not because you think that will get you a boyfriend or a Daddy.

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I definitely understand the frustration that comes along with being a fat little. The preference for slender/petite, pale littles is really prevalent in the DD/lg community, but there are Daddies out there who have other preferences. Don't let that frustration stop you from being your awesome little self. There's some great advice in this thread, so try to follow it and don't lose hope.

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Guest DaddyXavier

The same way you want a Daddy who's within a specific age range, some Daddy's want littles who are within a certain physical type.

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Love yourself first. A daddy will come. Engage in the forums, and other blogging sites/dating sites. Express yourself and just focus on you. 

 

I can assure you that a Daddy will come along. I'm 280 lbs and my Daddy loves every inch of me, he practically worships my body. 

 

My best advice is to focus on yourself, love and be comfortable with yourself. Once you realize that your body is beautiful and that you are worth of an awesome love- then you can move forward and accept a love you deserve. For me, I was desperate for a Daddy and that is what landed me with my last Daddy- it turned very abusive and not pleasant. I was so focused on a relationship and having a Daddy that my judgement was compromised and I landed myself in a HORRIBLE, abusive situation. I would hate to see that happen to someone else.

 

But, I'am now with the love of my life whom is also my Daddy. I know that he has a preference towards this body type and I know that PLENTY of men do as well. All hope is not lost. 

 

Plus size littles are just soft squishy stuffies for Daddy's and I can promise that one day you will find a Daddy that loves that about you.

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Guest littlekittenragdoll
Hehe my daddy says I'm his squishy stuffie! I am trying to get more fit, but I am on the bigger side even when I am really fit. So that's a plus hehe
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Confidence my dear! I am far from a 10. I am definitely plus sized, I have big gappy teeth etc but I take my flaws and own them! Confidence will attract men because sadly in this day and age - it's rare. Learn how to dress in a way that accents your body, if you wear make up then learn wat colours look good on you, my face is round so I learned to subtle contour... Take the things that make you who you are and make them shine. At the end of the day if a person dislikes you because of your weight or the gap in your teeth... They aren't meant for you. Work on yourself and the one that is meant for you might just find you!
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My Daddy likes me thick.

Healthy is the goal not a certain size or weight.

 

I think confidence is a huge factor. I really think that women specifically have a hard time loving themselves. We need to do better. This includes building each other up instead of being catty.

 

Now about the caregiver types...

I mean it's just kinda sad that people limit themselves. They could be missing out on someone pretty amazing just because they are being dookie head about size.

 

You don't fall in love with a body you fall in love with the person.

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It seems like fining a daddy who likes plus sized girls is hard. All the daddy's that I have ever been with dont want me to lose weight. Daddies who care about your looks only aren't real daddies and are most likely just looking for sex. One guy tried that and when he found out I was chubby I said "Im a little bigger but it's mainly boobs and butt. No you know what you are just a stereotypical douche bag that will never did real love. You will eventually be exploited for what you are and by them you probably have some kind of std and don't nobody wanna hit that where as I will be happy with my plump self getting banged by the guy who loves me."

 

Just don't think of what others think of you. All it doeskin cause pain and heart break and everything else that hurts in life. My step father is verbally and emotionally abusive and calls me fat all the time. I have tried getting help but he always wins. So I just say I'm moving out as soon as I can and once I do this god forsaken family will never see me again.

 

You have to look to the better parts of your life not the negative sides. If you focus on the bad stuff then you will never be able to fin the happiness in life. It will only drag you down and cause you pain. It is terrible being alone but you will find true love eventually

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It's not just you dude

I mean my cg Loves me a lot and Loves my body too but I don't feel /little/. Personally, i think that chubbyish girls look more little than skinny ones.

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I know what you mean, it seems like most daddies want petite, small littles and tend to ignore the more cury littles

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​I say some chub is adorable! Those daddies don't know what they're talking about and should boost your confidence, not put it down. And from your profile pic you just look adorable! Not a Lot of Daddies are into bigger littles, But If they loved you they wouldn't care ~!    ~ Love Edi

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