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So uhm, I had this tough thought on my mind and a couple of months ago (almost a year (╯3╰) ), I realized I am very, very attracted to Daddies that are much older than me!(≧◡≦)I always liked having an older Daddy but after some time I started gettimf really attracted to Daddy doms that are from 10 to almost 20 years older than me. So uhmmm, I was thinking, isn't that a bit crazy and weird? What are your opinions on much older Daddy doms? Is it weird and disgusting? (╥_╥)
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Guest weeniehutjr
I wouldn't say it's weird and disgusting. In this life style I imagine it happens much more often than your think. I'm sure it works every way!
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Guest LaidBackDaddy

It is about what you like. Some are attracted to older Daddies, some decide that Daddies their age are not experienced enough or in control of themselves enough.  

 

Though a word of caution. Think hard about the implications of being with a much older man. What will your family say, what will his friends say. It's easy to wave a hand and say you don't care what they think, but the truth is, the words of family and friends can cut deep and can lead to a damaged relationship, with the family and friends or with the Daddy.

 

Also be careful of the Daddies that will jump into a relationship with a much younger woman. Are they just out for sex with a young woman? Are they wisely taking their time to see if it would work and if it would be good for the little to be with him?

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My daddy is 30 years old than me he's 50 I'm 20. I've always been attracted to older men and that's who I usually date. If you like older men than good for you! It still is seen as a little weird and risque my friends think I should date someone much younger, but it's who I'm attracted to and that's something you can't control sometimes.

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I can't say I find it weird or any other possibe negative term for your desire.  I've been with 10+ older  and 10+ younger, your preference is your own. I would call it unique perhaps, but certainly not weird.  I think guys sleep with women with similar age gaps they aren't weird, nasty. 

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I fell asleep while responding, sorry. I think you should also take into consideration, if you are leaning towards 20+ and wanting a long term relationship, the health of your partner. Any thing can happen in life, but generally speaking a person that much older than you may start to have health complications, of any type. Are you ready to care for them and support them when that happens, you're a little girl but your also an adult and you are expected to adult up. I suggest that you talk over possible health concerns and how the situations are to be handed if something should happen, much, much earlier than necessary. Then go back every once in a while to get a fresher of what is to happen when daddy is too sick to daddy.

 

I hope you know and understand what I mean. Best wishes to you on embracing yourself and your desires.

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My Daddy and I have an age gap, around 20yrs.

I was attracted to and/or fucking older guys quite early on in my teens. It's just something I enjoy. 

For me, there's two reasons why I'm attracted to older guys.

 

1. I love the soft wrinkling, salt and pepper grey hair, they're mature in their minds and bodies etc etc. Boys my age just really do not do it for me, they're all so immature and they want different things. They want to go out and get hammered and enjoy life, but I did all that shit way too early in my teens and now I just want to settle down. 

2. My Dad left when I was 11, I went off the rails, I felt unloved and I didn't have any strong male guidance in my life and this resulted in a lot of bad things happening to me, I let myself get involved with drugs and older guys and got hurt. I just want to be with someone who has as many qualities of my Dad as possible without the bad things. I identify traits my Daddy has that my real Dad also possesses. I like that shit.  

 

Not going to lie, a lot of guys willing to get involved with a much younger girl do have some sort of issue or bad intention. I have met a lot of older guys who only wanted me for one thing. You have to be able to be self aware and look for red flags. Once you've checked em out, go for it.  :wub:

 

Also, baby_squirrel made a great point. My relationships with older guys in the past have been very short term, but Daddy and I are planning the future. I always worry about his health, to the point where it brings me down sometimes.

 

You also have to think about children. Can a man aged 40+ be the best Dad?

My Father was 40 when I was born, and he was getting on a bit by the time I was 10.  

 

If he passed on and you were stuck single in your thirties or forties, would struggling to date bring you down? Could you move on?

I know it's hard to think about these things, but they run through my mind daily. My Daddy is sick with a few things and it just makes me wonder sometimes. 

I've already decided I want babies with Daddy before he's 40, I want to be married early. And if he passed on while I was still relatively young, I would stay married to him.

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It's not weird at all!

I've always been attracted to older guys, the last guy I was involved with was 6 years older then me and my potential Daddy is 14 years older then me. Personally I've always found older guys more attractive. 

 

-they have their shit together

-they don't play those stupid head games

-guys get more attractive with age

-they know what they want and like

-less scared to admit they want to try kinky stuff

-naturally more dominate with younger girls

-THEY HAVE THEIR SHIT TOGETHER!

 

I don't have daddy issues, even though stupid people online think I do. Some times it's weird to think about how when I was learning to walk Daddy was learning how to drive but I think the age gap also helps with the Daddy-Princess dynamic.

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My fiance is 11 years older than me.

 

I like to think that's why he's so much wiser than I am!! And a wonderful caregiver who really has this life thing figured out. Plus, I've always been attracted to older men too. So our love life is to die for.

 

(As long as you're careful, obviously) it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Go for what you want! You'll never be fully satisfied otherwise. ;)

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Guest RedDragon
I don't mean to intrude into Little Space so my apologies if I shouldn't be here. I'm an "older" Daddy I guess. Well I'm 37 so "old" is relative. But I just wanted to say in response to anyone regarding age, it's all about who you feel comfortable with. When I was in my 20's, there is no way I would have been ready for a Ddlg relationship. Well to be honest I wasn't ready to settle down with anybody in any type of relationship. But other guys I'm sure are mature enough in their 20's or any other legal age, but not me. Now that I've matured (some people call this getting old I think) I don't question whether or not I'm ready anymore. I just know it. I'm guessing it's no different than a little knowing she's a little. I just know I'm a Daddy now. But also, I'm really only attracted to girls younger than me. I wouldn't feel like a Daddy if the girl I was with was older than me. Anyone else feel this way? Sorry I hope I added something of value here!
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Its not weird at all. It all has to do with preference and comfort level. And for me age is just a number and I'm all about the personality. Whats the saying? Your as old as you feel? I think it applies to the life style a lot. Just my thoughts.
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Also, I hope I didn't offend anyone. I'm sure there are littles who are older than their Daddy's and that is wonderful for you. I simply have my own preference:)
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My Daddy is twice my age and I could not be happier. It's a personal preference thing for sure but in my case I see it as the perfect exchange. In many ways I'm always his baby girl. It's not weird. I don't focus on the social implications at all. So what if some find our relationship taboo. I'm happy, he's happy and all of friends think it's great.
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I used to date older men (30-40's) When I was 18, and I loved it as they were more mature. In the end I regretted this decision and I found that they are not as mature as they seem. Some only want younger women because they can't find women their age who can take them seriously. I guess it depends on the person, but I don't think i'll ever date older again. 

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I used to date older men (30-40's) When I was 18, and I loved it as they were more mature. In the end I regretted this decision and I found that they are not as mature as they seem. Some only want younger women because they can't find women their age who can take them seriously. I guess it depends on the person, but I don't think i'll ever date older again.

 

I think age is just a number. I don't think age and maturity correlate the way many people think they should. I respect your opinion brebunny. All we have is our experience to draw from, so what you say above is true for you.

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  • 4 years later...

so far my experience with the older daddies has not been too good and ive only delt with 3. one was too comfortable with me and didnt seem to have experience even though he said he had for years behind him, and the 2 others ghosted me. of course that was online and only 3 so i cant go on that too much. that being said i think its just one of those things where you really gotta look at the red flags more then the age, but i just prefer people closer to my age. 

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My Daddy and I are the reverse, im 42 and He is 21 and will be 22 in August. We've been together for 3 and a half years and talked a lot about our future together. Age is a consideration certainly but for us maturity is more important.
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No, not weird at all.

I think it's all about the feelings the other person provokes in you, regardless of age. There are considerations that need to be taken into account as with any person you start a relationship with such as are they kind, trustworthy, funny, serious etc. Things such as health, however old they actually are etc that's relative, I may god forbid get an incurable disease next week, or get run over by a car. Yes the older a person maybe the less time they have on this earth but, then anyone can be the same. If the memories you create together are great, why deny yourself and the other person that experience?

I have no issue re age, my preference is that a daddy dom is older, even significantly older. But that's personal choice. You have to do what's best for you, your imediate family and the other person. If you make each other happy, those extended family members who love you should be able to recognise that fact and be happy for you. As they can dislike anyone you date whether it be for religious, age, culture or colour reasons unfortunately. So my ideals are be happy, reach for what will make you smile every day, but to be truly happy you need to take into account how the other person makes you feel (loved, safe, cherished, comfortable,) and if you do the same for them. That's my ideals anyway, I probably missed bits out but that's the gist.

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Guest AlisonS23
You like what you like. No shame in that. When I was 20 I dated my friends dad. He was 56. I didn’t care though because you like what you like. Love is love you know?
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The older the better imo, Anthony Hopkins is 83 and I still swoon about him.

It’s all just preference really. I like grumpy people , old people are usually grumpy. :3

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