Much older daddies!

[redruffle41]

Yes!!!! Oldeeeeer. Please, if I'm gonna submit to someone I have to actually FEEL subby around them. Age helps with that. It's not a guarantee but it helps. I tend to value experience, intelligence, confidence, and stability in a partner. That's much easier to find in an older guy. At the very least the same age as me. 

[BabyPoppy]

1 hour ago, redruffle41 said:

Yes!!!! Oldeeeeer. Please, if I'm gonna submit to someone I have to actually FEEL subby around them. Age helps with that. It's not a guarantee but it helps. I tend to value experience, intelligence, confidence, and stability in a partner. That's much easier to find in an older guy. At the very least the same age as me. 

I agree older CAN help, IF they have their life figured out and together... but I don't think age should be a limiting factor either. Once I passed 28 I kinda just became an "adult"(full-time job with benefits, daughter in school and after school activities, single Mom crushing it in a routine!) Any partners I had after that needed to have things figured out or else I ran the show. A lot of single men in my real life are single because they don't know how to be responsible and respectful in a relationship.  Once I learned I was a little it finally made sense why these relationships failed so badly, but it has nothing to do with the actual age-gap and more to do with the person. I think the desire in me for an older man has always been about my desire for a Daddy Dom, but I didn't have the words. Now that I have the words, the age isn't as important.  

[bigdaddyCG]

I think In looking for a daddy it kind of makes sense to be with a man who is mature too you and older so you feel submissive and you look at him like a daddy, I know I'm kind of on the cusp on getting older at 41 but I know personally when looking for my little I need them to be younger it just helps the whole look and feel of the dynamic and that I can feel like a daddy to someone that is younger at least 10 years younger my ex is 15 years younger, (could probably go 20 years younger but it all depends on the person of course) she was a little, age regressor but it also helped that she was tiny like short and only 100lbs so it really increased the whole dynamic and the clothes she could wear etc but of course littles can come in all sizes! 

[Mogwai]

It's really interesting reading people's thoughts on this! 

I don't think wanting someone older is weird or disgusting.  I think it's disapproved of but I've never really understood why.  Surely if the people involved are consenting adults then it shouldn't matter how old they are?  There are going to be different things to consider in every relationship and this isn't any different.