Desperate Little! Help!!

[plumplilprincess]

So, my Daddy and I discovered the DD/lg lifestyle back in November. Everything was going great up until this past month. Every time I would go into littlespace, he'd just ignore me, or he'd immediately want to have sex, so I never stayed in littlespace long. The other day I made the comment "Sometimes I don't want to be a grownup." to which his response was "I do it all the time. Get over it." I feel like he's giving up on the whole DD/lg thing and I don't know what to do...

[Guest Teagan (means little poet)]

I can't say for him, it sound like he could have been having a good day or that maybe you Daddy might not really like being a Daddy. I think maybe you need to sit down and talk to him about it but instead of saying "Sometimes I don't want to be grownup," since apparently it made him feel defensive instead of understanding, you could say something like how you really miss DD/lg because and then tell him what DD/lg does for you and makes you feel and why you like it. Then you could ask him if he still likes DD/lg with you and if he says yes you can ask him if Saturday (or what ever day you want and have a few back ups if he says a specific day is not good) could be a DD/lg day. Don't bring up any prior conversations about DD/lg or bring up the non-understanding thing to you that might make him defensive. 

 

Do you know if maybe your Daddy wants to be the little and that is what he is resentful about?

 

These are all just ideas but I really hope some of them can help.

[plumplilprincess]

My Daddy and I are switches, yes. And I try to give him little time whenever he wants it, but he never seems to want to.