Guest Ginger-Kit22 Posted May 30, 2016 Report Share Posted May 30, 2016 I'm just curious about this... For me, my Little space isn't something I consciously decide to delve into. It's just part of me? Like certain things do bring out my Little side much easier than others (stuffie hunting at store, certain snacks or shows, etc) but it's always there. I don't really distinguish between my Little side or Big side, nor can I purposefully bring out my Mommy side. Certain things trigger it. I feel kinda... Weird because I can't really choose which one I want and I see people posting about going into their little space kinda on purpose. I can't help but feel there's a mix up with me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest itsbabygirlbean Posted May 30, 2016 Report Share Posted May 30, 2016 My Littleness is always there but is more hidden when I'm working. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosie Posted May 30, 2016 Report Share Posted May 30, 2016 I feel like I'm the same as you, its always there, just certain things bring it out more than others. for me, when I say I'm getting into little space, its just doing those certain things that I feel most like my little me doing! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Strawberry Sprinkles Posted May 30, 2016 Report Share Posted May 30, 2016 I feel like my little side is always there, even when I'm acting "big." It's just a matter of triggers or comfort level. For example, I can get triggered at work as I work for a daycare. One of our boys were building with blocks and making an airport for one of our toy airplanes. I really really really wanted to help make that airport instead of surveying the class for disruptions, ideas coming to mind about how I would go about it. Or, sitting on the floor with the children around me in the toddler class and drinking out of their sippy cups made me crave my own. The other teachers think I'm just "good with kids," but little do they know I just want to play! However, sometimes I DO want to do things that would be considered "big" such as watching horror movies (despite cuddling with one of my stuffies) and playing CoD. I suppose what I'm getting at in a round about way is don't worry about being "big" or "little" and just enjoy yourself. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Shadow's Princess Posted May 30, 2016 Report Share Posted May 30, 2016 I'm just curious about this... For me, my Little space isn't something I consciously decide to delve into. It's just part of me? Like certain things do bring out my Little side much easier than others (stuffie hunting at store, certain snacks or shows, etc) but it's always there. I don't really distinguish between my Little side or Big side, nor can I purposefully bring out my Mommy side. Certain things trigger it. I feel kinda... Weird because I can't really choose which one I want and I see people posting about going into their little space kinda on purpose. I can't help but feel there's a mix up with me. I'm not in my little space 24/7 so I assume it's normal and if it's not, who cares? If you have fun as both and have fun when these feelings are triggered, then, just accept it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LavanderRabbit Posted May 30, 2016 Report Share Posted May 30, 2016 I could never imagine being in little space all the time. As much as I love it, I have little tendencies that don't go away, but it's not a true little space. I use it as to cope with stress and anxiety, but often times when I'm online and doing things with daddy ill go into more of a Middle space. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlelili Posted May 30, 2016 Report Share Posted May 30, 2016 I could never imagine being in little space all the time. As much as I love it, I have little tendencies that don't go away, but it's not a true little space. I use it as to cope with stress and anxiety, but often times when I'm online and doing things with daddy ill go into more of a Middle space.I agree a lot with Lava here. I actually enjoy my work and I can have some little tendencies at it, but it's not true little space. There are other things that I do that does not belong to my little self like running, or practicing with my band. It is not that I'm hiding or something. It's just that little me is not proficient at that stuff. And I feel ok not being little at those times. My real trigger is getting home and being barefoot at home. I feel relaxed and little fun starts!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Joe Joe Posted June 1, 2016 Report Share Posted June 1, 2016 I feel like my little space is a facet of my personality that is always under the surface. I always will have the inner child-like wonder, and may get side tracked by all things pink and pretty in a store. Although, my Papa is the only person who can fully submerge me into the little head space. Around him I am always some degree of a little, depending on how he reacts to my child-like behaviors. The better he reacts, the deeper I dive into my little persona. He also can take me right out of it with a slight shake of his head or a displeased,'Not this moment Dolly.' ^~^ Papa is my biggest trigger. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pastels & bongrips Posted June 1, 2016 Report Share Posted June 1, 2016 I make sure if I'm slipping to get offline. It's mostly because when I'm little I'm usually saying things that are best kept private hehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daddyslittleblaze Posted June 2, 2016 Report Share Posted June 2, 2016 I'm always in little space! Sometimes it's hard trying to contain it when I have to be big like in class or so,etching. I find it hard to get out of little space. At home with daddy I'm in constant little space and I love it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlexkittenx Posted June 2, 2016 Report Share Posted June 2, 2016 Nope. I keep it hidden most of the time unfortunately Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabyTigerkitten11017 Posted June 3, 2016 Report Share Posted June 3, 2016 (edited) I'm little or in a halfway state most of the time it is like I act little but talk like an adult. Fortunaly my job doesn't require a lot of face to face interaction so I can act little but speak big. It must be hard to have to fully transition Edited June 3, 2016 by BabyTigerkitten11017 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Kitten_Mae Posted June 5, 2016 Report Share Posted June 5, 2016 I think mine is hidden yet always there.. When i'm working or going to class it's buried deep inside of my brain, waiting. But it definitely seems like I am constantly little or middle whether I express it outwardly or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabyDddoll Posted July 6, 2016 Report Share Posted July 6, 2016 It was explained to me that DDlg is diff Bc littles ARE littles. We don't role play our 'sub' or 'bottom' role... It more feels like we have to role play the adult ins. Also the role play we may step in and out of may be the bondage or other BDSM characters. Other subs may role play to be a little bit they step out of the role after the scene. So basically we don't role play, we ARE. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirenaophelia Posted July 7, 2016 Report Share Posted July 7, 2016 I fall into little space easily. And most usually all the time except for certain times. But I get the joy/stress of NOT working. I live on social security disability for my mental health issues so I don't work (which is stressful in itself even though I'm NOT working because money budgeting is hard)... So I'm home most of the day every day. Alone with my four legged furchild most days. When Daddy can come over he comes... but that just means I'm going to be in little and/or subspace.... I'm craving a play session with Daddy to slip into subspace... To have the release of weakness and pain leaving my body I've been so stressed. But I'm constantly having to switch gears in my head which is again stressful... i have to be "big" around my family... and my friends... Which I only have like 1 friend and she's my bff.... but she just doesn't understand nor does she want to... I don't blame her, she says it's my business and if anything came in where I was being harmed... she'd step in but if I'm happy she's good and she's fine and she's happy and glad.... When I first started with my Daddy... she asked "Is this kind of relationship really what you want???" And since then I've flourished. I've become a better person... somehow... through all of this. A lot more patient and relaxed and when I can be in little space as much as possible I deal with the stress so much better... but part of my always wants subspace, play sessions.... the masochist in me. Which Daddy isn't a sadist but he sees how much pleasure I derive from it so he's alright with indulging my masochist. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabyGiraffe Posted July 9, 2016 Report Share Posted July 9, 2016 Im happy I not the only one that's always in little space. It's definitely 24/7 for me and like some of the other girls said there are things that put me deeper into little space. Sometimes even when I'm working my little is out and nobody really notices. My personality is generally always bubbly. But there are those times when I've realized I'm not at all in little space and it feels so weird. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimi Posted July 10, 2016 Report Share Posted July 10, 2016 (edited) Perhaps I'm just not proficient at transitioning between the 'little' me and the 'other' me yet. Maybe it's just because I am both at the very same time. I catch myself being the 'little' me, on the outside, when it can be considered an inappropriate time but it never ever seems to happen the other way around. I know no other way of being me so I just am and surprisingly nobody ever seems to question it, and that's a very good thing because that's really all I can be. Me. Edited July 10, 2016 by kimi 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirenaophelia Posted July 10, 2016 Report Share Posted July 10, 2016 A lot of times I find it hard to NOT be in little space. It's just such a dominant feeling/state of mind for me. I love "little space" ... But "subspace" is... invigorating. Little Space is just one facet of me. I tend to not purposefully slip into "little space" all the time... but it's a dominant feeling. The tattoo on my left hand going down my pinky finger says "i want my innocence back" .. I feel I lost my innocence at such a young age... And *THAT* as well as sexual abuse and being forced to grow up faster due to military family... And also, ALSO, I've not had a lot of time or ability to experience the freedom of my little side.. I miss the masochism and pain ... It just... Wow. I get so... amazingly empty of stress. Just that easy. So lately I've been in little space a lot recently... I feel bad cuz Daddy is a Dom and Master but I haven't let him explore that side of him... And I also haven't seen the deepest of these feelings of his. I love him. He's amazing and he is supportive of my little ages and my masochism.. He's so awesome!!! Little space is just wonderful though. It feels so good to let go and be the age you feel you are at those times! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cuddlebug Posted July 10, 2016 Report Share Posted July 10, 2016 For me, I tend to be in and out of little space kinda randomly. Some days I'm more little than big, here recently this has been the case. For the most part, I am little, it's not role playing for me, it's just a part of who I am naturally. I still haven't figured out all of the triggers that put me into, or bring me outta, little space. Just my thoughts on things. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittlePupChickpea Posted July 13, 2016 Report Share Posted July 13, 2016 For me, I believe little space is more of a state of mind for me rather than a part of me, I don't feel like being little is a part of my personality. When I'm working or watching a grown up movie or just not in the mood, I have no signs of little in me. I'm loud, I like doing dangerous/adventurous stuff and I'm defiant, which is the total opposite of when I'm in little space, quiet, sleepy and obedient. In my eyes, it's important for me to keep the two separate, to have a balance. As much as I like coming home from college and going into little space, I just couldn't do it all the time. After all, my best moments with daddy are when I'm being a big girl, because it's my true personality rather than a coping mechanism to make me feel safe (which is what little space is to me). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest annemarie Posted July 16, 2016 Report Share Posted July 16, 2016 tbqh i'm only rly in littlespace when i'm at home. otherwise i'm either only mostly in littlespace or not in littlespace at all depending on the situation. i think, though, if i had the space and time i might be constantly in littlespace. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil' Miss Dolly Posted July 21, 2016 Report Share Posted July 21, 2016 I don't even know if I can classify it as little space....that's pretty much who I am all the time. My little age is around 7 - I'm easily excitable, giggly, and prone to outbursts of Squeeing. I think I have a Big Space that I go into when adulting is needed - otherwise I'm Dolly. I am in a TPE and I am off work right now so I am home a lot which gives me lots of time to be a princess - maybe once I get cleared to go back to workies it will change! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
14400_1655600390 Posted July 21, 2016 Report Share Posted July 21, 2016 If I had the time and space, I'd have more little time. I don't exactly hate that I'm always adulting but at the same time; it's been my life for too long a time. I have bursts of little, I love being a little. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pandababy Posted July 21, 2016 Report Share Posted July 21, 2016 I'm actually really glad to see this topic and the varied responses to it. I've been reading a lot of things on this forum and for me being little is something i've been for a long time but only just recently allowed myself to express openly so when i read about people intentionally going in and out of little space i found it confusing and like maybe i wasn't really a little if it didn't work that way for me. But then i read some of the responses here about people who just are little and it's part of them and that is how i feel. It can be frustrating sometimes when i have to adult and would rather be in a blanket fort, coloring and eating goldfish crackers, but that is life i suppose. Kinda curious what ways others use to mesh little world and adult world... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harley_Quinn Posted July 23, 2016 Report Share Posted July 23, 2016 Daddy and me started in a Dom sub only relationship so I'm usually in sub space (more over little space but if I can't reach there I'm in sub space) I always have a paci with me or my favorite Stuffie or my blankie. Daddy encourages me to be little. A lot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now