Guest Lizabth Posted May 31, 2016 Report Share Posted May 31, 2016 So my fiancé is a dom and I want to let him know that I am a little and want to ask if he's interested in the ddlg lifestyle but I don't know how. Advice? And if your s/o already wasn't in the lifestyle how did you tell him about you being a little? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LavanderRabbit Posted May 31, 2016 Report Share Posted May 31, 2016 Leave small hints like asking if they want to color with you or having an interest in little activities as well. Not everyone is comfortable with dd/lg and many are misinformed about it, so it's good to take it slow as to not overstimulate or freak out. Communication is important in any relationship and it's a part of you, so if they care they can understand, which is why you need to take it slow. Since he is already a Dom there should be more understanding towards it and just let him know you have an interest in it. I've noticed there are a ton of relationships that go bad because one of them wasn't willing to learn or got freaked out because they thought DD/lg was daddy kink. Showing an interest in little activities can be huge hints that wont directly scare anyone, and although they can be seen as odd, it's not a huge red flag. More like a sparkly rainbow one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lizabth Posted May 31, 2016 Report Share Posted May 31, 2016 Thank you for that advice i will try doing those things Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lizabth Posted June 1, 2016 Report Share Posted June 1, 2016 Leave small hints like asking if they want to color with you or having an interest in little activities as well. Not everyone is comfortable with dd/lg and many are misinformed about it, so it's good to take it slow as to not overstimulate or freak out. Communication is important in any relationship and it's a part of you, so if they care they can understand, which is why you need to take it slow. Since he is already a Dom there should be more understanding towards it and just let him know you have an interest in it. I've noticed there are a ton of relationships that go bad because one of them wasn't willing to learn or got freaked out because they thought DD/lg was daddy kink. Showing an interest in little activities can be huge hints that wont directly scare anyone, and although they can be seen as odd, it's not a huge red flag. More like a sparkly rainbow one. He agreed to be my daddy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Teagan (means little poet) Posted June 1, 2016 Report Share Posted June 1, 2016 (edited) He agreed to be my daddy Oh My GOODNESS! That is so Wonderful Lizabth!!!!!!!!! So So So Happy for you Edited June 1, 2016 by Teagan (means little poet) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lizabth Posted June 1, 2016 Report Share Posted June 1, 2016 Oh My GOODNESS! That is so Wonderful Lizabth!!!!!!!!! So So So Happy for you Thank yeww! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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