I need some help.

[Littl3mis]

So I'm with this new guy and we've been talking and he mentioned he likes being called daddy. Which at first I thought was great because I'm a little. Unfortunately he's the kind who thinks it's just a kink during play time and wants to "switch roles". I don't know how to describe to him what a actual DD/lg relationship is. Any help????

[Princess-P]

If your confident in what you want from a CG/l relationship then tell him what you want. However him liking being called Daddy as a kink doesn't make him wrong. For some this is nothing more that a kink or a role play, and will never be more than that, which is perfectly acceptable.

 

The best you can do is just be honest with him about what you want from this dynamic and hope for the best. Maybe he will be interested maybe not. No one is a mind reader so the best approach is always the direct one.

[Guest Shadow's Princess]

Technically DDlg is a fetish, so he's not wrong. However there are multiple different types of DDlg. The type he's into seems to be just the sexual kind, you seem to want what is called "caregiver and little", it's pretty much the caregiver takes care of their little and the little gives complete control to the caregiver. This style is the original form of Daddy and little and eventually became the fetish we know as DDlg.

Anyway, If you don't want it to be just for sex or as littles call it "playtime", then simply tell him. If he loves you then he'd give it a shot, if not then you two should have a long discussion on the matter and hopefully come to an agreement.