daddyslittleprincesss Posted June 1, 2016 Report Share Posted June 1, 2016 Saw this little clip on Facebook the other day (hope you can all access the link) This one comment on the video I can agree with ----- The DDLG community is very misunderstood and this has actually hurt alot of our feelings. Daddies and littles are not wrong peoples misconceptions is whats wrong. I stand tall for my culture, it's not a fetish, it's a choice of life, stop degrading us. https://www.facebook.com/JerrySpringer/videos/10153156491837824/?pnref=story Lemme know what you all think!? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dnswd Posted June 1, 2016 Report Share Posted June 1, 2016 Personally it doesnt bother me cause I dont pay attention to what others think. Have grown a thick skin over the years. I enjoy what I like, be it food, games, career, books and lifestyle. If someone is judgmental of me I simply laugh to myself and move on. I have no cause or reason nor do I feel the need to explain it to those who dont understand, though at times I do make fun of those who are just plain dumb. While this might not be fully pertinent to your question all I can say is this.... As kids, teens, young adults, middle age, old you go through a lot of things. People as individuals might be decent but as a group are bunch of animals and tend to hurt others. Think of it as a tempering process, like a blacksmith repeatedly heating up and hitting the same piece of metal. And the day you realize that its not you but others, your outlook on life changes. All the things that people that used to bother you and hurt your feelings will now make you laugh at their own misconceptions, stupidity, lack of awareness etc. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadameButterfly Posted June 1, 2016 Report Share Posted June 1, 2016 (edited) I didn't expect so many comments for that video to hurt my feelings a lot. Edited June 1, 2016 by MadameButterfly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest AmberDoll Posted June 1, 2016 Report Share Posted June 1, 2016 The whole thing- Well the whole thing to me anyway seemed "Fake" Acted like they were showing it as a weird thing, I didn't like it I thought it portrayed everything wrong and they didn't really get into details it was mostly just a second of what people outside the DDLG world think even the little was off and the dom wasn't very dominate I know it's on a show but it really was just a spoof. Bummer that people have to see it on the show like that. It's sad how the BDSM Community get's portrayed these days in the media you would think with this generation it would be more open minded and actually have real stuff on movies/tv shows. This is also how people get confused on what DDLG really is. In the 70's this was tame but now this is like oh god no...even though everyone idolizes the Kardashians and Kim got started by leaking sex tapes but when they see DDLG they instantly like omg perverts, what a bummer. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dnswd Posted June 1, 2016 Report Share Posted June 1, 2016 Actually having watched the clip I have to say......took me few minutes to stop laughing. If someone is trying to make a parody of DDlg this would be it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustLeilah Posted June 1, 2016 Report Share Posted June 1, 2016 Personally it doesnt bother me cause I dont pay attention to what others think. Have grown a thick skin over the years. I enjoy what I like, be it food, games, career, books and lifestyle. If someone is judgmental of me I simply laugh to myself and move on. I have no cause or reason nor do I feel the need to explain it to those who dont understand, though at times I do make fun of those who are just plain dumb. While this might not be fully pertinent to your question all I can say is this.... As kids, teens, young adults, middle age, old you go through a lot of things. People as individuals might be decent but as a group are bunch of animals and tend to hurt others. Think of it as a tempering process, like a blacksmith repeatedly heating up and hitting the same piece of metal. And the day you realize that its not you but others, your outlook on life changes. All the things that people that used to bother you and hurt your feelings will now make you laugh at their own misconceptions, stupidity, lack of awareness etc. That's an awesome way to think about life..... thanks for posting this comment Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ToraHime Posted June 1, 2016 Report Share Posted June 1, 2016 The actors are trying so hard I'm cringing and laughing at the same time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest glitter bunny Posted June 2, 2016 Report Share Posted June 2, 2016 The actors are trying so hard I'm cringing and laughing at the same time yes i agree! Trying way too hard. scripted improv. also i dont know about you but that kiss was not convincing enough for me. id guess theyre either platonic friends or strangers. the thing about Jerry Springer is that.....its JERRY SPRINGER. Its been around since the 90s so i hope people have caught on to the fact that it is 100% fake. They do tend to poke fun or even shame everything. slut shame, fat shame, kink shame, whatever. its all right there for all the world to see. i do find it a little upsetting but the people who are going to cast judgement on us based on that skit are people who would probably never understand it if we explained it to them clear as day. so, we like to get spanked. so what. we obviously like to have fun. im gonna keep doin' me, you keep doin' you, and dont let the crappy people in this world get ya down Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadameButterfly Posted June 2, 2016 Report Share Posted June 2, 2016 The video itself is ridiculous. It's the comments that are upsetting, and how people cast judgement so easily on something they hardly know nothing about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest algernon Posted June 2, 2016 Report Share Posted June 2, 2016 Haha wow. Just wow. Even for Jerry Springer, that was bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Little_Miss Posted June 3, 2016 Report Share Posted June 3, 2016 I feel like I need to do some thinking about the dynamics and why i like them and what they represent. but i only think of myself as a child not another real life child... It's a complicated subject for me at least and people normally that have no idea about anything like bdsm or ddlg so quickly assume it's because we're sickos towards real children.. :/ I also just came across anti-ddlg blogs comments on tumblr and it was a mess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Purple_Panda Posted June 7, 2016 Report Share Posted June 7, 2016 It's so forced! why would they go to so much trouble to decorate the stage and dress up if it wasn't fake... and most littles would not be open publicly about being little, as it would be a conflict of interest for them, in regards their day to day adult life example being their jobs...ugh people think we're weird already without, bloody Jerry Springer showing signs of running out of ideas for their shows so they decide to stereotype this community and put us in a bad light to keep their show going... its honestly so pathetic XD Grr, fight me. lol this kitty got claws XD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest WaterNymphh Posted August 18, 2017 Report Share Posted August 18, 2017 I JUST saw this on tv the other day, my mom was in the living room while it was on and I was washing the dishes. I cringed so hard I wanted to vomit... no joke... I literally wanted to die at the cringe. I reeeeeeeeeally hope there are no Littles who act like this in public. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frog Posted August 18, 2017 Report Share Posted August 18, 2017 I can't watch it or view comments, but I think I get the gist. I wouldn't worry too much. After all, it's Jerry Springer. I believe about 2% of what goes on that show. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincexPaci Posted August 19, 2017 Report Share Posted August 19, 2017 This video is a bad representation of the dynamic and my first thought was "why would you act like this in public in front of strangers" this is something you'd do in your own privacy and seems a little over the top. Its not fully explained the dynamic clearly either. If you want a better example check out Binkie Princess' interview with Shane Dawson Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincexPaci Posted August 19, 2017 Report Share Posted August 19, 2017 Oh so just read the comments as well and the guy isn't actually into the community it was just set up so he could be on J Springer's show which explains a lot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boomslang Posted August 23, 2017 Report Share Posted August 23, 2017 My mother always told me to "consider the source." It's a Jerry Springer clip followed by comments from people that have zero experience with ddlg and likely didn't even know it existed until they saw... *a Jerry Springer clip* lol... Everyone has a right to disagree with stuff. But meanness is meanness and you just have to let it roll off your back. The people making jackhole comments probably know a Daddy or little and don't realize it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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