I want to learn more

[MrEus]

Hi everyone, I'm completely new to ddlg and I want to learn more. Like questions for littles. What do you look for in a big? What happens if your big is sometimes as childish like you? How did you get into ddlg. Questions for the bigs. How did you get into ddlg? How does it feel being a big? How do you deal with the a little that's too stubborn? What do you think makes a big? I'm genuinely interested I just need someone to show me the ropes i guess.

[DaddyPenguin]

Well as for me, I came over from a more D/s lifestyle. I believe I am naturally meant to be a Daddy Dom. Hard to explain, it's just how I am filled with total joy when I am a Daddy Dom to a little, it's like I feel complete. I feel normal when I am big as I always am big. Dealing with a stubborn little varies with me, depends what she is being stubborn about. Usually a little love and coaching and she will do what is needed. If she is not liayenior breaking a rule that a punishment that will fit the crime. What makes me a big/Daddy Dom is I am naturally a loving, kind, nurturing, dominant man. Who feels only complete when I am caring for a little.

[MrEus]

Thank you guys for answering my questions. I'm learning little more each time i come to the forums. Also thank you Charm for answering with detail.

[bj5485]

I too am brand new to ddlg. I am a bit older I suppose than most new people, but I came about my interest quite naturally. I met a girl on line and she brought it up about 2 weeks after we began chatting. I found myself attracted to this girl and an overwhelming desire to protect her even without knowing that she was a member of the ddlg community. This was last night, by the way, that she brought the subject up. I was up most of the night reading all I could find and joining this forum this morning. I wonder if I am doing the right thing by this little that seems to be attracted to me despite our age difference and despite the fact that I have never participated in anything like this. But I am open minded and I am a willing to learn. The one thing I worry about most is the long distance bet ween us. I don't know if historically it has worked but again I feel I have to try because already I cannot imagine not being able to talk with her every day. so thanks to all of you that ask great questions and all who provide great answers. Wish me luck and I hope to be seen and heard on here in due time.

[MrEus]

Good luck!