A little in frustration!

[Prettypumpkinprincess]

Okay I posted a similar thing yesterday but it's really beginning to frustrate me! :c I have told my boyfriend how I'm interested in Dd/lg however he just seems like he was quick to toss the idea aside...

 

My problem is, I seem to be getting more and more into littlespace more frequently, and I just want to go to the pound shops with him and buy toys and stuffies and Princess cups and I just want to let this side out me out, however I'm limited to do so and I can't keep just pushing a part of me away I really want him to at least talk to me about it which he won't and I know I shouldn't be mad at him about it because it's not his fault but it's really making me upset :'( I need some advice I can't keep hiding a huge part of me but I love my boyfriend and want him to look after me

[Xeneler]

Hello pumpkin, I can only speak from my own experience and feelings but I would say there's two ways to handle this.

One, if you really love him there is some compromise like be a little with him on a weekend or something

Two, if you feel that your little side is more important then leave him and look for a daddy.

Now I know these ansaws seem drastic or it looks like I think it's easier than it is, but these are just two straight to the point ansaws I've put here that's all. You do need to sit down and talk with him about this, in truth you can't shut who you are out but if he won't talk it makes it very hard. I don't know all the ins and outs of your relationship with him or the time you have had together, in the end you must decide what is best for you ok. I hope this helps in some way.

[Prettypumpkinprincess]

'if you really love him there is some compromise like be a little with him on a weekend or something'

 

Yeah I think I will send him a big message on how I really feel and try to compromise thankyou

[Xeneler]

No problem I'm glad I could help in some way, I hope it works out for you.

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

I would have advised to slowly introduce him to things rather than outright say it because it can have a lot of negative effects. Talk to him and let him know it's important to you. If he isn't willing to try and shakes it off as a phase you may need to look for a new boyfriend.

[Princess-P]

I also think there are two ways to go about this situation.

 

There's no reason to hide being a little. If you've had a serious, adult, conversation with him explaining how you feel and he still isn't interested... Then so be it. You don't need a Daddy to be little but if you love him he can still be your boyfriend. You can buy your own little things and have little space time on your own. There's no reason you can't do the little things you love while he's around... He doesn't have to take part. Why not colour while he watches TV or plays video games or whatever he does. Drink from your sippy cup at dinner if that's what you want to do. Your a grown up. Do what ever you want, and any partner who loves you won't care, that's just you, it doesn't have to be their thing because loving YOU is their thing.

 

The other option of course is if you can't stand him not being a Daddy to you then find a Daddy. If the dynamic is more important to you then he is as a person and not a Daddy then your bond with him probably isn't lasting anyway. I don't mean to be harsh, but I do mean to be blunt. That's just the way it is sometimes.