Guest PeachyAquaria Posted June 8, 2016 Report Share Posted June 8, 2016 (edited) So after I joined this forum, my s/o had an inkling something was going on in my head. I told her and she says it's not a big deal. She still thinks that ddlg is just sexual and separate from self. Since I am a non sexual little and my age is pretty dependent (5-7) , my little space can appear to be childish and cute but not an actual space. Because of this she doesn't think that every time we color together, bubble bath together, watch cartoons together, and cuddle in my little space means I'm a little. It's frustrating for me, because she (IMO) shows daddy characteristics consistently. The other day I got excited about an ice cream truck and begged her for a dollar (in little space) and she joked about being a mommy. Earlier today we were in the store and I was being a bratty little not getting off my phone so she took away my phone and tickled me to get it (in front or everyone). To me, that screams ddlg dynamics. I'm worried that now I've labeled it she's nervous. Also I'm scared to get into little space with her because now she knows it's labeled in my life as being a little. Anyone offer advice or can help me gain another perspective? I said 3 days ago on my first post here I would never talk about it in person and now I have. Is it possible that I my little space takes her daddy-like characteristics too close to hurt? Im just worried it's going to cause tension. Also, we have been together for 3 years and this isn't new to our relationship. Sorry for the long post and thank you for reading Edited June 8, 2016 by PeachyAquaria Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LavanderRabbit Posted June 8, 2016 Report Share Posted June 8, 2016 Slowly show her what is non sexual ddlg. Ask if she would be okay reading up on stuff for it. Maybe even get her to read some of the forum. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlelili Posted June 9, 2016 Report Share Posted June 9, 2016 I agree with Lava, there is a lot of information on the Internet about the dynamic, and the non-sexual aspects of it. Maybe e-mailing her some articles or texting some links would get her more interested into it. Good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PeachyPantsu Posted June 9, 2016 Report Share Posted June 9, 2016 You can use the forums as references to help you out! There are lots of topics about non sexual activities♡ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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