Rights and rules of bbg??

[Nola Babygirl]

My Daddy dom has told me as his babygirl i have little rights as a babygirl and im a little confused in this ive been looking online to see where it is written or stated that i have little rights as babygirl. Then with his rules they are one sided and i do as he asks but he said Daddy doms have no rules set for him. That he can do whatever he wants hes dom. I am just a little confused on this well alot.

Edited June 8, 2016 by DaddylilKitten

[Guest DaddyMN]

No.

Daddy's have rules. Some even write them out. To do otherwise abuses the title of 'daddy'. 
These rules for daddy's focus on keeping you happy, healthy, mentally okay, loved and protected.

By 'little rights' I'm guessing you mean 'few rights', I don't want to get confused by the term 'little' here. 
Littles have just as much rights as daddy's, just for the most part permission needs to be asked here or there, because your safety is a daddy's #1 concern.

I make sure that all my rules are always decided with my little when I make them, and that they can be updated every week in case a rule doesn't work out. This makes sure that the little is 100% as okay with the rules as I am, and it makes for a happier and healthier time together.

[Princess-P]

Some littles have rules, some don't. Some Caregivers have rules, some don't. He's wrong to just give you a blanket statement like that. If you don't like that scenario tell him no. You have EVERY right to tell your partner you don't like something and that your not going to do it. And you have EVERY right to tell him that relationships work when both partners agree to any rules that are set forth if that's the type of relationship you choose to have.

 

CG/l is by no means a one sided relationship. Every relationship is different and there is no guidelines on how to do anything.

 

Regardless of his "Dom" title, which you give him by the way as he can't just declare himself your Daddy Dom (he is privileged enough to be awarded the title because YOU decide), his rule is not law. Its not 100% what he says goes. All things are decided through communication.

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

If the relationship is one sided it can be considered abusive. Anything retaining to BDSM needs Consent of both parties.