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Guest Difabulous

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I doubt that there are much men that are shorter than me (I'm 1,55 m). :)

But jokes aside. I think it depends one the personal opinion. Some doesn't like it, some doesn't mind. But I think that the hight doesn't make one a daddy. It's important how the one is in their personality, behaviour etc. Like little come in every shape, different likes, personalities so do daddies.

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I wouldn't mind it! But I'm 5 feet 3 inches so.. lots of people are taller than me. Height shouldn't be a determining factor in a relationship and it's pretty sexist to assume all men have to be taller than their partner. (It's also kind of a rude thing to do because you can't help your height.) :heart:

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There are other ways to remind one that they are a little. Height does help that, but it's not the only way. For example, using methods that remind your little that they are small. Say you're in a situation where they want to take a shower- you could remind them that theyre too small to do it on their own and go help them bathe. Um or give them a sippy cup because they're "too small and might spill their drink"

 

But this also depends on what you guys like in a relationship. If neither of you guys are cool with that then there are more ways to remind your little how small they are. Just get creative!~  :D

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Then talk to your caregiver about how to help your issue and your insecurities.~ Any real caregiver would be more than happy to help you :D

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Height can be a factor, that's a given. Especially considering that me, and Faerie.bunny's height difference is around one foot, she's 5'8 (1.72M), and I'm 6'7 (2.00M). I think the biggest factor though is behavior, and tendencies.

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Guest LavanderRabbit
Daddy is only an inch taller than me. I don't mind it because we can wear the same sizes for a lot of stuff, so it's easier for me to shop for him. (He cross dresses, or at least we are trying)
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I can understand why having a Daddy much taller than them can help them feel llittle however I think its bad idea to make decisions on who you want to be with based on such a superficial detail. Personally I dont mind what height my Baby-Girl is; its her personality that counts.

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There are no physical attributes that make one more of a Daddy than anyone else. Each person has there own personal preference. I for one have never been attracted to short men. Not just shorter than me, but men under say 5'10 have never interested me.

 

Personal preferences is acceptable, judging people who don't meet yours isn't. To each their own.

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I wouldn't have any problem if a potential daddy was a nice guy. If I'm completely honest, I am attracted to taller men, simply because I don't want to look their height in heels.

 

Plus, I don't feel as dominated by men who aren't taller, and I'm not just into DDLG, I am into extreme BDSM. Really fucked up stuff. Being dominated that intensely by a man shorter than me would be pretty strange. 

 

My daddy is over 6ft though so no worries for me :p

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Guest BugBug
Im nearly 5'2 ive never dated anyone smaller and its abig kink of mine to date taller men. However, dominance comes in all sizes. Ever hear the saying its not the size of the dog its the fight inside the dog? Very true words.
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A friend told me that wasn't really important but I always feel like it's sort of a problem, I am 5'3" and that would probably be a little bit of a problem for a guy trying to be a daddy :c but It's ok I am confident and I try to avoid making it a huge deal c:

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It doesn't really matter to me, BUT I think I frightened someone I met online when I later met him in person and turned out to be about 8 inches taller than him. :/

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I'm not short so its rarely an issue but I have met girls the same height or taller than me; its not a problem for me but some people (male and female) get hung up about relatively superficial details

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Height isn't an issue. I'm told the short one out of all of my friends (I'm 5"6 1/2) but if I were to find a Mommy or Daddy shorter or my height it wouldn't bother me personally. As long as they have the personality that fits with mine, your height doesn't matter because I'll always feel small. ^_^

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Guest SeraMoon
Hm I wouldn't mind it, but then again I hate my height >< I'm 6'0ft so I don't see too many Daddy's that are taller than me, usually they are around my height. But they prefer shorter littles which sucks, but oh wells .-. If I happen to find a Daddy who fits me and he happens to be shorter, so be it. I won't allow myself to miss out on a great person over a couple inches.
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I'm a 5'9 heels lover and my daddy is 5'5. Sometimes it's a little disappointing whenever we hug standing up and I'm the one smothering him lol but all in all he is still a wonderful daddy nonetheless! It took a bit of time to get used to because as he is my boyfriend as well, I've only been able to date people that are my height, so this was a big change. But I can't see him any other way so im not complaining  :wub:

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Guest Pr1nc3ss

Well I prefer to have my daddy taller than me so I can properly feel little.... but i'm 5'10 so that's not really an option most of the time.

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My Daddy is shorter than me, but I don't notice this when I am not wearing shoes and he is lol. I actually rarely ever notice, it's only about 2 inches if that. But he has a very BIG presence, he seems really tall and very big and for his shorter stature, he is very strong. I think its about the way they carry themselves and not their actual physical height. 

 

I used to be afraid that I looked funny next to a shorter guy, but Daddy really doesn't seem to make me look taller. Again, it is about how they carry themselves. My Daddy is originally a traditional Dominant, he's good at making you feel strength without actually touching you etc:wub:  :D  :heart:

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Me, personally my male parent has to be taller than me. Which being 5'2 isn't very hard to do. It might make me sound horrible but I'm just not attracted to men who are shorter than me. Height is an attraction for me, like giant people... But funny thing about that is it's the opposite for women. I'm attracted to women around my height or shorter.  I don't know why, just am. When I see other couples where the female is taller than the male I don't think theirs anything wrong with it. I've turned down guys before because they where shorter, I felt completely horrible about it because morally speaking that shouldn't matter, but at the same it I can't help what I am or am not attracted to and I like to be honest about it.

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