cheshirekitten Posted June 10, 2016 Report Share Posted June 10, 2016 Im hoping im not a major black sheep but how many littles here are real life mommies and daddies? I have a lil one of my own. So im often forced to adult 24/7 and struggle to find lil time aside from the fact im a single momma so i have no Daddy or partner to help give me spare time to little out. How do you find time for it? do you trade sleep for coloring and eating fruit snacks while they sleep? lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest hissubmissiveprincess Posted June 10, 2016 Report Share Posted June 10, 2016 Me! We have 5 kids and 1 on the way early next year. We just started with DDlg in the last year, but us being parents hasn't affected us and DDlg. If anything it is easier for me cause I will color with my kids or whatever. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blossom Posted June 10, 2016 Report Share Posted June 10, 2016 Me too. I have a little boy. We play all sorts of great games but the real ddlg fun has to wait until daddy and I have him tucked up in bed asleep and get some time to ourselves 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BugBug Posted June 10, 2016 Report Share Posted June 10, 2016 Me too in a single parent too. Its really hard but I really believe whatever hobby or interest a parent has you have to make time for it but its tricky. How old are your kids? And does this match your little age? Im lucky my sons 4 and my little age is similar so we do alot of stuff we both enjoy togther. I often feel very lonely because ive felt excluded as a little whos also a parent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cheshirekitten Posted June 10, 2016 Author Report Share Posted June 10, 2016 Me too in a single parent too. Its really hard but I really believe whatever hobby or interest a parent has you have to make time for it but its tricky. How old are your kids? And does this match your little age? Im lucky my sons 4 and my little age is similar so we do alot of stuff we both enjoy togther. I often feel very lonely because ive felt excluded as a little whos also a parent. My daughter is 3 and my Lil age is about 5/6. We have done stuff together a lot but it's hard cause I never truly get in my Lil space cause I always feels I need to be parent around her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BugBug Posted June 10, 2016 Report Share Posted June 10, 2016 I can relate there! Im always thinking of all the chores that i should be doing. Its a balancing act. What little things do you enjoy? My favourite is finger painting and baking. I have had to make the decision that the very few hrs i do get to myself i need to stop working and be selfish its taken me 4yrs to work this out. Ive lost friends who dont have kids and the ones left arent little so feel very alone sometimes. But I said moping about it had to stop. I used my few free hrs to look after me. Can you get any spare time? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cheshirekitten Posted June 10, 2016 Author Report Share Posted June 10, 2016 Little things i enjoy are coloring books, play doh kits, finger paints, painting ceramic figures, finger paints, stickers, baking, etc I really love my arts and crafts little time. I definitely enjoy these things and do them with my daughter. but yea i sometimes have that adult voice saying i should be doing housework lol I think i get maybe an hour or 2 sometimes after my daughter goes down to sleep. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nymph Posted June 10, 2016 Report Share Posted June 10, 2016 Daddy and I have a tiny monster running around the house, he is two... I don't know my little age, I suppose I am more of a middle, perhaps 10 or 12? I want to say 8 but I am extremely sexual... anyways, it can be hard when Daddy is away because like the single mothers here I have no choice to adult most of the time (son is very sickly) while I am used to being myself (as in little) 24/7 It can be fun but I know it will be even more fun when he is a bit older and closer to my age. He doesn't like cute stuff though so sometimes Daddy think it's funny that our child is acting more grown up than me ; I must confess there has been a time or two I want to keep coloring or playing on the ipad and that adorable demon decides we are done with it and I get a bit frustrated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cheshirekitten Posted June 11, 2016 Author Report Share Posted June 11, 2016 I know that frustration all too well lol My lil one is very much a princess. I was always a tomboy type in my own childhood but she has really brought out the princess in me. I find myself buying more nail polish, tiaras, and lip glosses but yea I can do some stuff with her cause she is only just a few years shy of my lil age so we are slowly getting there lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patches23 Posted June 11, 2016 Report Share Posted June 11, 2016 I grew up without a daddy. So I'm afraid of being selfish and taking away from her childhood to satisfy my own now that I have a daddy I can be whoever I need to be with. But he supports me and makes the time for me. I fear jealousy when she becomes daddy's girl, resent sometimes when she really really needs me and I want daddy. Its a struggle. Get support from a friend you can trust or your significant other. We can't do this alone. There is no shame in who you are and what you need. We are who we are. We need to love ourself and make the time to feel special and satisfied ourselves. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BugBug Posted June 11, 2016 Report Share Posted June 11, 2016 Hey everyone who has commented seem to have the same issues so I was thinking how about a group maybe something like kik just for ddlg real life parents? I dont like kik groups normally because they normally get petty and immature but does anyone think its good idea? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cheshirekitten Posted June 11, 2016 Author Report Share Posted June 11, 2016 Hey everyone who has commented seem to have the same issues so I was thinking how about a group maybe something like kik just for ddlg real life parents? I dont like kik groups normally because they normally get petty and immature but does anyone think its good idea? I like this idea altho i am a bit bad at staying up with chat groups so id probably be in an out or active mostly at night. I use Telegram and Kik both Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alice0809 Posted June 11, 2016 Report Share Posted June 11, 2016 I have 4 kids, my Dom has 2. We're currently in a long distance relationship, waiting for him to be able to transfer. My kids are older, they range 14 to 5. But I can't mix adult/little time. I can't be little with them. As previously mentioned, I can't truly get into little space while I feel responsible for them. I have to wait until they are in bed to be able to get into little space. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alice0809 Posted June 11, 2016 Report Share Posted June 11, 2016 Hey everyone who has commented seem to have the same issues so I was thinking how about a group maybe something like kik just for ddlg real life parents? I dont like kik groups normally because they normally get petty and immature but does anyone think its good idea? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alice0809 Posted June 11, 2016 Report Share Posted June 11, 2016 I like this idea too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KittyBlau Posted June 12, 2016 Report Share Posted June 12, 2016 I am a mom to two kids and I love little space I am starting soon being in little space in front of them, they won't know it only my mommy will so I feel it will help with my complete well-being. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BugBug Posted June 13, 2016 Report Share Posted June 13, 2016 Hmmm ok il have a think whats best. My main issue with groups is they are alot of work to keep up with but id really like little friends who understand the parent side.So are we thinking kik? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Little_Kitt Posted June 13, 2016 Report Share Posted June 13, 2016 I'm a single mom with kids ages 6 and 2. Sometimes I try to watch Disney movies with them around but I don't really get much little space. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BugBug Posted June 14, 2016 Report Share Posted June 14, 2016 Whats your favourite little Kitt? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daddy's Princess Katie Posted June 22, 2016 Report Share Posted June 22, 2016 My husband/Daddy and I have five children, though only one 17 year old living in the house. We have a 22 year old who lives on our property but not in the house with us. Though we are still new to the lifestyle so far it's not been an issue. Our 17 year old spends a lot of time with her boyfriend/friends so the hubs and I have a lot of alone time. We've always been a very affectionate couple so the kids were already used to seeing mommy sitting in Daddy's lap and lots of cuddling. I do draw the line at calling him Daddy in front of them. I just switch to 'baby' instead. It is probably easier since I'm a middle, not a little so my behavior doesn't have to change too much. I do wish I could wear my tutu, knee highs and tiara 24/7 but that is something we save for the bedroom when the kiddies are around. Occasionally if I'm really stressed and need my middlespace bad we will pull an all nighter out in Daddy's workshop, listening to music, watching movies I like and doing arts & crafts - along with some playtime, of course. We both feel like crap at work the next day, but it's well worth it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabyDddoll Posted July 6, 2016 Report Share Posted July 6, 2016 We have three munchkins and so Daddy will sit and play board games with us allot crafting drawing etc. basically we all sit and do an activity at our own ages... Between 3-10yo. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrFox's Princess Posted July 13, 2016 Report Share Posted July 13, 2016 I do, but my situation is a little different. Daddy has two kiddos, biologically not mine. We are not married or engaged but I do treat them as my own children and love them to pieces. He gets them on weekends so anything during weekdays is easy. But lately I'm not in little space on weekdays. When they are over, anything little happens after they go to bed. There is times where his 5yo will find my little toys or coloring books or my little games my tablet and want to play with me which I'm game for, but I also treat it as my secret side and don't want them to touch. I honestly think me being a little helps me help parent them better cause i can share their same mindset. The good plus is I can call Daddy Daddy as much as I want around them in public without odd looks :3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angel_dms8 Posted September 5, 2016 Report Share Posted September 5, 2016 Hi all. New here and new to DDlg. We're married with 3 kids, we've always had this type of relationship but just recently discovered DDlg and are just getting into the lifestyle. So we're definitely new at navigating how to be in front of the kids. I think a ddlg parents telegram/kik group is great idea! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleLoveyOtter Posted September 5, 2016 Report Share Posted September 5, 2016 I'm so happy I'm not the only little here who is a parent!! My son is 1 and its hard being Momma all day and I love him so much, but I love being able to be little once he's in bed. I never got to enjoy being a Little before him, because my Daddy and I weren't "DDLG" back then. Daddy discovered DDLG while we were dating and realized I had all the signs of a little but didn't know how to bring it up to me until a few months ago and it's been amazing ever since! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willa14 Posted September 6, 2016 Report Share Posted September 6, 2016 I'm a Mommy too! I feel like it helps me relate to my own kids being little myself. Its easy to respect them as little people, and play together and stuff... I do have a hard time with my Daddy's kids though. As bad as that sounds. Its just different. We are a blended family and he has 3 little girls... Who have been soooo spoiled compared to mine. They have one of everything! Always with the new clothes and toys.. And tons of Daddy's attention. So its really easy for me to get possessive and jealous. Unfortunately It goes both ways! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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