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    #1 I-Am-Princess-Maddie


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    Posted 13 June 2016 - 12:12 PM

    As I scroll through Tumblr I keep seeing littles sharing pictures of "their" bedrooms. My daddy and I don't have a place of our own so of course I can't have my own room but I don't think I could stay in a room by myself. How many of yall have separate bedrooms? And do you always sleep apart? Please elaborate on this. Thank you😊💕
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    Posted 13 June 2016 - 12:16 PM

    I think that may just be the little's play room for when they're in little space. I wouldn't dream of not sharing a room with my princess. That would be awful in my opinion.

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    Posted 13 June 2016 - 12:17 PM

    I think that may just be the little's play room for when they're in little space. I wouldn't dream of not sharing a room with my princess. That would be awful in my opinion.

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    Posted 13 June 2016 - 04:24 PM

    I've talked to my DD about this and really the concept wouldn't be my own room. I don't think it's terribly common unless you can afford to have another room. (Seriously a two bed in LA is like $2000 a month) I have talked to him about having an Office/playroom just to have my own space to store toys and have a place to color and the like, but it would also be a shared space. Please remember tumblr has a lot of misinformation and it's possible the rooms aren't even theirs!

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    Posted 13 June 2016 - 07:06 PM

    I have to agree with everyone else. It more likely for there little space. Tho I've known people in serious relationship that do sleep in separate rooms. So maybe.
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    Posted 15 June 2016 - 12:31 PM

    I feel like I always bring the token polyamorous perspective here, so forgive me if it's not wanted, but it's what I know!


    Recently at a munch, another poly Little shared with me that she and her partner (who live together) have separate rooms because it makes the most sense to them having multiple partners. That way, when one of them has a partner staying overnight, the other one isn't scrambling to find a place to sleep in their own house. It also provides the opportunity for space, and giving themselves a "room of their own" (To quote Virginia Woolf.)


    But they usually slept together in one or the other's room each night. ;P

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    Posted 16 June 2016 - 01:56 PM

    Me and daddy share our room. He says when we move into a bigger place I can I have a play room and have whatever toys and stuff I want! Even outfits :)


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    Posted 15 May 2018 - 10:13 PM

    Old thread, bringing it back cuz it's interesting.

    Anyway, we share a room. I might enjoy having a separate bedroom though - not because of little stuff, just because we have wildly different tastes and I *need* to be alone sometimes. But at the same time I don't think we could/would sleep apart. I'd probably wander into his room in the middle of the night, so we'd be right back to sharing a room.

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    Posted 15 May 2018 - 10:48 PM

    We share a room but we are working on getting my own Little Play room set up so I can have naps and play and do cute stuff:D


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    Posted 15 May 2018 - 11:07 PM

    Papa and I live far away from each other, so we have our own rooms.  When he stays with me, we sleep in separate beds, but when I stay with him we share a bed.  I still live with my parents and they don't like us sharing a bed, so since we're under their roof, we respect that.

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    Posted 15 May 2018 - 11:23 PM

    My Princess sleeps with Daddy, when he can spend the night. We are in the stages of discussing moving in together. I would like to convert a bedroom into a Nursery/Play Room for her, and even save up for a custom crib for her. It would at least be fun for when she needs a nap. I think she'd still prefer Daddy's bed for big sleeps though.

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    Posted 16 May 2018 - 04:47 AM

    I live in a 1 bedroom with Daddy but if we had a two bedroom home, there is no way either of us could stand sleeping in separate rooms.  :blush:

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    Posted 16 May 2018 - 10:44 AM

    I have always lived in places with a minimum of 2 bedrooms. Once a live-in relationship has been established, I always give the choice of where my lg (or sub) would like to sleep. Usually, it starts out with them having their own room, but as things progress in the relationship, we usually end up sharing a bed.
    They will use the extra bedroom as a "playroom" or I will use it as a place to time out in. But overall, after a couple weeks, it really only becomes a place to store things.

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    Posted 16 May 2018 - 01:23 PM

    Lol if we shared a home, you bet your life we'd share a bed! He's my lover, partner and boyfriend as well as my Daddy and my Master. It would be utterly insane to us to have separate rooms.

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    Posted 27 August 2018 - 09:59 PM

    Hmmmm... We right now live in a studio type place, but once we move I'm gonna turn the second bedroom into a studio/nursery because I work from home so I need a studio, and she loves to lounge and be lazy after work so a nursery would be comfy enough for both of us? I dunno, we both love to have our own space, and even though we're clingy AF we also get fed up of not being able to be by ourselves... So there defo will be a nursery somewhere in the future. XP

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    Posted 30 August 2018 - 04:50 AM

    Years ago in my first apartment after I got divorced, I had a reading room.  The idea was a small room filled with book shelves, bean bag chairs, pillows, stuffies, and plushies.  I would just go into that room and chill and read.  I am an addicted reader. 


    Fast Forward to today!

    I explained the concept of the reading room to my little before I was a Daddy and she a little (we are still new at this) and now we know this room will be our space for her to be little me a Daddy. It will be shared space, so we can both read, cuddle, hang out, and relax.  One of the rules for the room will be no rough play or even sexual play. So once we are together and buy/build our house together, we will have that shared reading room.  :heart:

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    Posted 31 August 2018 - 08:06 PM

    Daddy and I just got a new house and I AM GETTING MY OWN LITTLE ROOM!


    Daddy is going to have a say over most of the stuff in our bedroom, that will be more his room. But I get an entire room to my little self!!!




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    ....sorry, I am super excited as we are picking the furniture up in 4 days! :lol:
    But Daddy and I always wanted me to have a little room. We want a TPE of the DDlg dynamic, D/s dynamic, and the Pet/Owner dynamic. That requires a lot of props or equipment (at least how we want to do it) and thus having my own little room was a great idea. It does also play into the dynamic; Daddy comes into the room to check on his little as she is coloring. 
    It also gives me my own sanctuary. It is hard to express my little side for many reasons. Daddy and I both believe by me having my own room I will grow more confident and comfy because it will be my "safe space" (I hate that phrase...) to nurture my little side. But we sleep in the same bed, in the same room and always snuggled up. Just because I have a little room doesn't mean the master bedroom isn't my room either, nor does it stop me from staying in it.

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    Posted 31 August 2018 - 08:17 PM

    I'd love my own little room some day
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    Posted 01 September 2018 - 12:09 AM

    me and my daddy are long distance but when we live together i'd want my own room that daddy would sleep in too just so i could have the separate little space
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    Posted 01 September 2018 - 07:21 PM

    I would looove my own room for littlespace someday, but Daddy and I are both poor grad students in a teeny apartment, so...

    I couldn’t imagine not sleeping in the same room as Daddy though, we were together for seven years before even discovering CG/l! It would be so strange not to have him there next to me!

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