Do yall share a room or does the little have their own?
Posted 13 June 2016 - 12:12 PM
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Posted 15 June 2016 - 12:31 PM
I feel like I always bring the token polyamorous perspective here, so forgive me if it's not wanted, but it's what I know!
Recently at a munch, another poly Little shared with me that she and her partner (who live together) have separate rooms because it makes the most sense to them having multiple partners. That way, when one of them has a partner staying overnight, the other one isn't scrambling to find a place to sleep in their own house. It also provides the opportunity for space, and giving themselves a "room of their own" (To quote Virginia Woolf.)
But they usually slept together in one or the other's room each night. ;P
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Posted 15 May 2018 - 10:13 PM
Anyway, we share a room. I might enjoy having a separate bedroom though - not because of little stuff, just because we have wildly different tastes and I *need* to be alone sometimes. But at the same time I don't think we could/would sleep apart. I'd probably wander into his room in the middle of the night, so we'd be right back to sharing a room.
Posted 15 May 2018 - 11:07 PM
Papa and I live far away from each other, so we have our own rooms. When he stays with me, we sleep in separate beds, but when I stay with him we share a bed. I still live with my parents and they don't like us sharing a bed, so since we're under their roof, we respect that.
Posted 15 May 2018 - 11:23 PM
Posted 16 May 2018 - 10:39 AM
I aspire to have my own single size bed and bedroom. That’s life goals right thurr.
It’s got nothin’ to do with not loving him enough or being dedicated enough or whatevs. Because I love the sh*t out of him, am basically his lil housemaid and spend every waking moment clinging to him lol
I’ve just always liked my own space.
PS. Nobody else has a wriggly, fidgety, sleep kickin’, elbowing Daddy with a brain rattling snore? Cuz c’mon now... lol
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Posted 16 May 2018 - 10:44 AM
They will use the extra bedroom as a "playroom" or I will use it as a place to time out in. But overall, after a couple weeks, it really only becomes a place to store things.
Posted 27 August 2018 - 09:59 PM
Hmmmm... We right now live in a studio type place, but once we move I'm gonna turn the second bedroom into a studio/nursery because I work from home so I need a studio, and she loves to lounge and be lazy after work so a nursery would be comfy enough for both of us? I dunno, we both love to have our own space, and even though we're clingy AF we also get fed up of not being able to be by ourselves... So there defo will be a nursery somewhere in the future. XP
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Posted 30 August 2018 - 04:50 AM
Years ago in my first apartment after I got divorced, I had a reading room. The idea was a small room filled with book shelves, bean bag chairs, pillows, stuffies, and plushies. I would just go into that room and chill and read. I am an addicted reader.
Fast Forward to today!
I explained the concept of the reading room to my little before I was a Daddy and she a little (we are still new at this) and now we know this room will be our space for her to be little me a Daddy. It will be shared space, so we can both read, cuddle, hang out, and relax. One of the rules for the room will be no rough play or even sexual play. So once we are together and buy/build our house together, we will have that shared reading room.
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Posted 31 August 2018 - 08:06 PM
Daddy and I just got a new house and I AM GETTING MY OWN LITTLE ROOM!
Daddy is going to have a say over most of the stuff in our bedroom, that will be more his room. But I get an entire room to my little self!!!
AND WE JUST PICKED OUT THE FURNITURE FOR IT!
Edited by Little Illy, 31 August 2018 - 08:09 PM.
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