Sweet-Cinnamon Posted June 15, 2016 Report Share Posted June 15, 2016 So, I'm a little shy about this topic. Daddy, Mommy, and have talked in the past about diapers and had always expressed their disinterest in them. I've felt much the same, it's just not for me. But, as of late I've found myself doing a lot more research about diapers. Everything about them in relation to the DDlg community and being a little. I guess I'm a little nervous because I find myself being drawn to it (it doesn't help that I suffer from severe anxiety, heh). I'm nervous to say anything about it to my Mommy and Daddy because we all agreed so strongly that it wasn't for us. I fully acknowledge that I am probably being paranoid, but the fear still stands. I don't want them to get disgusted or disappoint them, or any variation of rejection to happen. I guess I really just needed a space to talk about this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Zips Posted June 15, 2016 Report Share Posted June 15, 2016 Well you've come to the right place! There are LOTS of users who use those here, so you'll find lots of people to discuss all your questions with. Although I have no experience with them, so I can't offer any specific information there. However, I think the best thing to do is spend more time considering if this is something you really want to do, and if after a while you still feel that it is, then just bring it up to them at a time when you feel most comfortable, and they're not busy or something. You could ask them for a moment of their time, that you have something important you'd like to discuss. I don't think you'll disappoint them just because you've had a change of mind! I think it's always important to be open about your feelings as much as is possible. I wish you the best of luck with it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LavanderRabbit Posted June 15, 2016 Report Share Posted June 15, 2016 They should accept it if its something you want to do. Though Diapers are ABDL, not necessarily DD/lg because a lot of littles don't like them. It would be unfair if it'd something you have interest in and they try to just shut it down. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beau-Bear Posted June 16, 2016 Report Share Posted June 16, 2016 I can answer your questions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny Hammersticks Posted June 16, 2016 Report Share Posted June 16, 2016 So, I'm a little shy about this topic. Daddy, Mommy, and have talked in the past about diapers and had always expressed their disinterest in them. I've felt much the same, it's just not for me. But, as of late I've found myself doing a lot more research about diapers. Everything about them in relation to the DDlg community and being a little. I guess I'm a little nervous because I find myself being drawn to it (it doesn't help that I suffer from severe anxiety, heh). I'm nervous to say anything about it to my Mommy and Daddy because we all agreed so strongly that it wasn't for us. I fully acknowledge that I am probably being paranoid, but the fear still stands. I don't want them to get disgusted or disappoint them, or any variation of rejection to happen. I guess I really just needed a space to talk about this. A few months ago my little asked me what ABDL was and my response was similar to your caregivers. "We dont really do that" is about what i said. Well,very recently she decided to experiment with them, and she seems to like it. Im 100% supportive of her in this, and have begun researching that lifestyle to meet her needs. So this morning i found theses. https://www.abuniverse.com Hope it helps Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Red Posted June 16, 2016 Report Share Posted June 16, 2016 (edited) Just to speak up about the subject, some DDs like myself enjoy just having their littles being padded. It is Abdl yes, but spanking can also be considered Bdsm and not directly part of the DDlg dynamic as well. It's all really preference here but I like to this there is a bit overlay on both Bdsm and Abdl in this dynamic. Secondly people have a dislike of them in the sense of using them, many just enjoy the sight, or the feeling of being padded. I would also bring up that you might want to go half way and go for training pants which are much thinner and acceptable in both community's then full on diapers and bring to their attention that its just for the feeling/style for now and they wouldn't have to worry about changing or such. There is a lot of paranoia with padding for both party's for many reasons. It's a embarrassing subject yes, but that also adds to the dynamic in some forms. I will say this, the older they are, the more acceptable they may be to the abdl dynamic because I have noticed it to be a older preference then with a younger generation of littles/Bigs. Edited June 16, 2016 by Big Red Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet-Cinnamon Posted June 17, 2016 Author Report Share Posted June 17, 2016 Thanks so much for all the replies so far guys! You've all got me thinking and I'm going to have a talk with Mommy and Daddy soon. Does anyone know of a place where I can get supplies for *ahem* a bigger bum? I'm a plus sized little. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Red Posted June 17, 2016 Report Share Posted June 17, 2016 The goodnites they use have a very stretchable size to fit well past 160 despite the size of 125lbs. The material they use now doesnt tear nearly as much as their old kinds and are adorable to the eye if you think you can fit those. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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