New little

[New.littlesub]

Need a daddy.

Advice

Diapers

Ddlg

New little

I'm scared

[Ariel_Anne]

1. Bedtime stories are a must!!

STUFFIES

Lots of cute nicknames!

Serving food on a cute little tray and little kid related food (pretzels and mac and cheese shaped like stuff is my favorite)

Spend time with us! Go to a park, play with our hair, take us to a cute little movie!

Make arts and crafts! Or ask your little to make arts and crafts for you!

Just give them LOTS AND LOTS of attention! Littles can be so needy   

[Soberdonald]

I'm a new Daddy and what she said is really important, but most of all, just do what make you comfortable...if you don't feel like being a little, you don't have to be. Just be sure to say something to your daddy. He needs to know so he'll know how to reciprocate in response.

[New.littlesub]

But, how do I get a new daddy? Like one that won't just take advantage of me

[T-Daddy]

Take things slowly and ask lots of questions, don't be afraid to say no, or not yet. Any caring Daddy will respect that and go at your pace.

I'm sure the more experienced DDs on here will have a few more nuggets of wisdom to give you ( and as a newbie I will read them with interest).

Good luck!

Edited August 2, 2016 by T-Daddy

[New.littlesub]

But, how do I get a daddy.... Im so confused

[A Cuddly Dom]

My advice would to be to take things slowly. You implied you're new to the lifestyle? Try taking some time to explore your little self, get to know yourself and your needs. Also, make some little friends, too. I know the excitement and desire to meet the perfect caregiver can be really intense, but don't let that be your driving force. The right caregiver will appear when the time is right.

 

You might try the chat room here to meet new friends, Bigs and littles alike who can become good friends for you along your journey. If you do meet a CG you really like, make sure to take things nice and slow. Dont rush headlong into a relationship without learning a lot about whomever youre interested in first.

 

Also, don't allow anyone, no matter how attractive or perfect they seem, to put pressure on you to move any faster than you are willing. Online dating has many pitfalls, so just make sure you're being careful of how you share private information, and make your boundaries clear at the start.

 

I can't emphasize this enough; know yourself first. Know what your boundaries are, and be confident in enforcing them. That said, the best way to meet an online CG here is to be active in the community. You may feel shy at first, but I'm sure you'll find most people here are very kind and supportive.

 

Good luck to you on your journey.

[Princess-P]

Don't outright look for a Daddy. Your young, and your new. You don't know what you want from a partner yet or what a partner can expect from you.

 

Focus on yourself. And keep in mind that as a little you don't NEED a daddy. At 18 its exciting to find a place you feel you belong. But here chances are you will find only online relationships. While these may work for some there are also potential partners in real life. They may not be Daddy's. A real connection is all you need, not a label.

[Welorf]

as a daddy i totally agree with a cuddly dom and princess-P  

 

do your homework and find out what you like and dont like, explore your little self. make little friends, dont be afraid to ask other littles what its like, and then when the time is right make a post in personals, but be specific, put in there no sex for 2 weeks or whatever, put in there you need to get to know them really well before you can come out of your shell.

 

and please dont be afraid to say no, there can be alot of creepy daddys on here who just want bad things. 

 

you can friend me if you have any questions about it